So I guess this is my first Nine Month Wait...

[dmn1156]

wannabe glad your mil made the point of saying they would be treated fairly hopefully your sil wont expect too much in future lol

 

[wannabeamom]

haha i know she sounded like a spoilt brat! im so glad mil put her in her place! x

 

[dmn1156]

she certainly sounds like a petulant child wanting and expecting the best lol, i kind of had to make i point when we got up and left my oh parents the other week i mean my son was sat on the floor while they were going on all about what they had been doing for his sisters kids for birthdays and just in general so i said right enough its time to go lol as he would of just sat there and listened on but then moaned all the way home in the car lol

 

[Kelly9]

Thats not nice at all DMN. Shame on them.

 

[dmn1156]

i was a quite angry i mean ok he is still a little young to understand but im certainly not but im just thankful that i got up and left i may of said something not so good lol

 

[dmn1156]

How is everyone doing today

My tumble dryer has decided to die on me after 9 years faithful service not good i need it it is a godsend for towels and bedding loads

 

[Kelly9]

So sorry DMN! We're waiting for the tenants stove to go so we can replace it as it must be from the 70's surely and then once that is done and bought I will be waiting for the washer to go or till we have the money to buy a front loading set. My dream washer and dryer lol. Hopefully nothing happens till at least after baby is born, we'll have to pay about 1100 bucks in property tax come july to.

 

[dmn1156]

never good when things go but i just cant replace it yet well i could as my Dad says i need to prioritise what i need the most a tumble dryer or the service on my car lol not sure it is much of a choice to be honest lol

 

[Melsue129]

Hey ladies.. hope everyone had a great weekend... Back to work today -- uuugh I hate mondays... Well DH and I got color samples onto the nursery wall this weekend, - 6 different colors and we still cant make up our minds... unbelievable... I think we need to find some more samples.. just not happy with what we found, trial and error I guess.. and I was looking at some cute decals of flowers and bunnies ect... So I might do those too... Or 10 + weeks to go its crazy how time flys.. We had a gorgeous weekend it hit 70 degrees on Saturday which unheard of in March and it was in the 50s yesterday.. What a tease... Its rainy, cold and raw out today, Im soooo ready for spring and summer... Cant wait until this lil baby comes out and I can dress her in lil summer hats, ect... LOL..

Wannabe - i loved your story and how your mil shut up her daughter.. Glad that put your mind at ease... I kind of have the same situation - I have a sil and she has had 2 kids already while her and her husband dont even work and her husband has a drug problem.. so they have both been living off of their parents including the house they live in is paid for by his mom... So they get everything handed to them on a silver plater when me and my DH are having our first lil one - not by accident like them - but we made a choice to try and my parents are sooooo happy but his parents dont have any help to give becuase the have spent it all on their daughter already... Its like we feel like his half of the family is spoiled already and wont be able to enjoy this experience with us like the would have if my sil and her loser husband didnt ruin it all.... I have selfish people - we arent looking for $ by any means its just a little help is really appreciated - you all know setting up for the baby is costly, its tough... But we dont ask because we can find a way then to be an added burden on them...

Okay sorry for the rant!! LOL.. DMN sorry about your dryer - its probably not warm enough to hang clothes out to dry outside yet right... always seems like everything breaks at once... never fails...

Hope everyone else is doing okay.. gotta get back to work... Hugs.

 

[dmn1156]

melsue it was ok today i got some dry but it is now raining and is meant to do so for the rest of the week and it is not cold enough to have the heating on either bu im putting it on just to dry clothes and opening a window cos i cant bear the thought of falling behind when i have worked so hard to stay on top of everything with only 6 weeks to go i want to keep it running smoothly as far as i possibly can lol

 

[Csunshine013]

Hello ladies hope you all had a good weekend!

dmn so sorry about your tumble dryer and getting the car fixed is a must! I just had to put a bunch of $ into getting my brakes fixed and it was unexpected but oh so worth knowing I and the children are safe

wannabe ok so very glad your mil stood up and said what's what! I have also been on the other side of this. I was a single mother when DD was born almost 11yrs ago and my parents were divorced and it seemed like they both completed to be the best grandparents. LOL like a wagon with shocks and cup holders or a battery operated 4-wheeler this still happens but not to that extent. My mother passed last year in June so this year I have to do all the birthday and easter shopping and I don't even know were to start as my mother used to do this all cause we would fly down to her house to spend DD's birthday and Easter. Sorry to ramble. This little one will be the last grandbaby unless my little sister decides to have any and tbh it doesn't look like that's going to happen. I'm sure Poppy and Grandma will spoil this little one a little more as they have more now and the other grandchildren are all older. They don't spend holidays at any of our homes since we are all streched out across the country so nobody feels left out (Christmas) but we all go to there home for Thanksgiving or at least try to so we're all together for at least one holiday.

OMG didn't realize that was so long

Hope your all well!

Oh on a positive note I felt the little one from the outside yesterday once, but wouldn't come back for an oncore. LOL

 

[dmn1156]

Csunshine my car is nor broke yet it is money i set aside for general service but i'd still like to get it done as you just never know lol but my tumble drier is a must too at the moment but i think i may have a solution so il have to sit and play with some figures lol

 

[Kelly9]

Got to love house and car repairs! Did I tell you guys we got tenants in our apartment for april 1st? I can't remember. I just hope they don't back out or anything. They gave me a post dated check so we'll see. I can cash it on the 30th so a couple days sooner to make sure it is good. Normally I ask for cash as you can't dispute that but whatever. She's a child minder and he's a plumber so can't go wrong with that combo.

Blah, monday over with although i Have felt like it's been tuesday all day for some reason.

 

[wannabeamom]

hi ladies yay kelly on the tenants!

sorry to hear alot of you have similar problems with the inlaws etc i think as mothers we all worry about our little ones and how they are being treated even at this stage (thats the first time ive refered to myself as a mother it sounds good lol!!)

Wow sunshine just noticed you are now in the middle box on your ticker!! woooo hoooo thats flown by!! i can remember the tickers that were counting down to test day!

anyone heard from mrs n? ive either missed her posts or shes been quiet?

well im off to get ready for work (5 weeks left yay!!!!) have a good day everyone

xxx

 

[Mrs_N]

I'm here! I have been quiet, busy working *yawn*
on nights this week so very tired, still got 3 more to go!
all well with us, 13 weeks today and moving over to second tri! (I consider this week 14 lol!)

dmn sorry your dryer broke, we don't have one but I think we are gonna need to get one - what is currently the washing drying room will become the nursery lol! definately get your car serviced - i didn't get mine done this year because I lost track of time, had the MOT & it failed on the brake pads eek! that was an accident waiting to hapen.

kelly yay on the tenants, thats fab news!

wannabe sorry youve been having in laws trouble. can't believe your sil, I guess you have to laugh really!

csunshine a big woohoo for feeling movements from the outside, thats awesome!

 

[dmn1156]

Mrs N woo hoo for 13 weeks i count like you im 34 weeks but in the 35th not that it is making it go any faster for me at the moment lol and yes you will find a dryer a godsend when baby comes especially in the winter i use mine mainly for bedding and towels as they come out all fluffy and soft but with 2 boys as well i have a lot of washing which is hard to get dry when the weather is wet

Kelly yay for tennants

hope everyone else is well

afm im very tired today i had the night from hell lol it took me an hour to get comfortable in bed then when i did and was just ready to fall asleep i had to go bathroom as i got a very big head butt or punch in the bladder then when i eventually got settled again my soon to be DD thought it would be nice to start sticking her butt right out and moving side to side not comfortable in the slightest and was quite painful but funny to watch lol i eventually got to sleep for a few of hours at about 3am had to be up at 7 to organise breakfast pack lunches and school run lol. On a good note i am off to order my new dryer i have had to juggle things slightly but i get the dryere i need and my car service and mot are going to be done jointly instead of seperately as originally was going to be the case so it gives me a month to save what i use now which is fine im owed some money from a friend which i really could do with back but no sign as yet but she has said she will pay some of it back in the next few weeks so all good

 

[Csunshine013]

WOOP WOOP MrsN 13 WEEKS

wannabe yeah it does feel like the weeks have been flying by lately but the first part didn't hurry any from my end. We go next Wednesday and find out the gender!

Kelly I don't remember you saying anything about tenants but WOOP WOOP!

dmn sorry you didn't sleep well! Glad you got your dryer and car thing worked out!

afm just feeling odd today heartburn and tummy not quite right

 

[dmn1156]

Csunshine i got bad heartburn near the halfway mark i had gotten it from about 8 weeks but it was quite mild but when i reached 18 weeks on i got it bad and still do everything i eat gives me an acid reflux and really bad gas so i dont tend to go eat out these days as i end up burping lots and would be very embarrassing lol hope you feel better soon

well went to order my drier out of stock grr yet i checked before i left and they said it was available but however they could sell me a much more expensive one so im now looking around to buy elsewhere lol

 

[Csunshine013]

How long would it take to get one in stock??????

If they are like here a couple days max! Don't let them mess with you!

 

[dmn1156]

they said 10 days which is no good to me lol they dont like to hurry obviously lol im shopping around as i type lol