So I guess this is my first Nine Month Wait...

[shawnie]

Hey shawnie do you have that website? I would be interested in taking a look at it.

I am relieved to I haven't even has spotting yet from pap but I saw the blood on the speculum so won't be surprised if I get some in the next day or so. It will be brown by then.

Why do you think it is a boy DMN?

Kelly, here is the site. I thought for sure i'd not be able to find it but I had it saved haha Nub theory The angle picture made me think my 12w scan was showing a girl. It's very interesting to see..

 

[shawnie]

Great to see you west =) I bet your belly looks so cute.

wannabeamom, We would love to be your bump buddy if you like =) I was told the baby will get its nutrients from you no matter how you eat. That's why they say to take vitamins and all that. It's not uncommon for ladies to not eat much early on and loose weight. They start to get alarmed more into the second tri if you still continue to not eat much. A friend of mine was hospitalized a few times due to her MS and not eating through out her pregnancy. Both her babies are perfect, much older now but she told me her story and I was shocked she had MS the whole pregnancy's and never gained any weight at all. I wonder if you can handle broths, peaches, celery, cream soups, noodle soups, health shakes, yogurts, and things like that?

Dmn do you have any pref on gender? only two more days!!!!!

 

[wannabeamom]

ahhhh thanks girlies would love to be bump buddies with you!!

i asked the mw about vitamins and she said theres no need to take them so not sure what to do? i def cant eat yoghurts, or milk or shakes (couldnt before pregnancy either) i try to eat cheese but that comes straight up too i will try some soup though that sounds good x

 

[shawnie]

Wannabe Ill add you now sweets.. OMG she said no vitamins? I know my doctor said in first tri he would rather me eat my vitamins then take them but if your not eating then id try and take them with what ever you can handle to keep down.. I guess some ladies get sick on the vitamins and make it worse but for me I didn't get sick on taking them... Everyone does things different and theres no right or wrong way of doing it..

 

[Melsue129]

Wow, I had like 5 pages to read..... Sorry we've been super busy at home and Ive been stressing at work, drama.... But Im back....

Shawnie -- soooooo excited that you are having a little girl.. sooo sweet, you can dress her up, do her hair and talk to her about boys... so exciting, congrats... Do you have your 12week scan pic of the nub part so I can compare to mine??? I was thinking girl when I saw my nub pic also, but trying not to get my hopes up...LOL

DMN - i bet you are excited!!!!! cant wait to hear what you are having... yay!!!

Kelly - glad your spotting stopped.. I had some around week 5 for a day and they took me in for an early scan. but all was well thank god.. I got a pap about 3 weeks ago and I bled for 4 days that was horrible but they say it does happen, but it happened to me right after the pap, literally before I left the office, so you are probably in the safe zone now.... Glad everything seems to be going well, did they schedule you for a scan or anything like that yet???

Wannabe - I dont have a bump buddy either and we are really close in gestational age, wanna be my buddy too????

So sorry if I forgot anyone.... I hope everyone is having a good day!!!!!

 

[dmn1156]

Shawnie i would like a girl but i dont think it is going to happen il just be happy with a healthy baby lol

melsue glad your doing well lol im sure wannabe would love an extra bump buddy lol add away i think the more bump buddies the better lol i am super excited about my scan got everything crossed all is ok and that lo decides to behave and co-operate this time lol


wannabe i only took vitamins till 12 weeks but i eat fruit and veg anyway try vegatable soup that has a lot of goodness in it

i have a sensitive tingling in my right side of my back today it is sensitive to touch as well hope it eases up later. The time seems to be dragging by or is it just me cos i want thursday to come quicker lol

 

[Kelly9]

Hey all,

Shawnie that site was cool
Melsue I didn't get an additional scan I Have one in 8 days so not long to go now. The amount I spotted was so small and only lasted that one time that I honestly think it was from a shaving nick. I haven't wanted to wax so went back to razor.

My cat is stealing my chocolate milk!

I have been retching in the mornings now though, can still keep food down though, was weighed yesterday and haven't gained or lost weight still the same which is good by me.

 

[Kelly9]

Oh DMN my mil had three boys and they turned out wonderfully and she loves them so much. I hope you get your girl but boys are just as great.

 

[wannabeamom]

i took folic acid until 12 weeks do yu think i should take something else?? eeekk so confusing!!

and mel good to see you back!!! yeah i would love to be your bump buddy!!!!!!!! yay!!!!!!!! i will add you on thanks

kelly's cat step away from the choc milk!!!!!!!!!!

 

[dmn1156]

I love my boys to bits and my 3 year old is the most loving little boy always giving me cuddles he is soo sweet. I just go past the girl clothes generally but everything looks so adorable lol but i would not be with out my boys so i really dont mind what i have lol

wannabe i would not worry about taking any extra vitamins as the placenta will have taken over by now and your lo will get all the nutrients and vitamins they need from that unless you feel you need them other than that id just try and eat fruit and veg where possible

 

[westbrja]

Hi gals! Sorry I've been away I've had so much studying to do. Wed is the last day of class for a month! Yay!! I need a break.
Wannabe - Congrats on your baby girl! My dtr and I are so much alike its funny (sometimes not so funny). I'm sure you'll have so much fun with her.
Kelly - Glad all is well with you and your LO. When's classes end for you? Sorry I forgot.
Dmn - Make sure you post right away after your scan!
Melsue - How ya doing huni?

Been a bit down lately as DB and I are arguing more often. We haven't spoken in 2 days. We just walk past each other and don't even acknowledge one another. I think he's being an ass and he thinks I'm being a bitch and we're both to stubborn to give in. I hope we can get thru this. Tonight at the dinner table DS said "Daddy, you don't love mom?" DB said of course I love your mother, dryly. I burst into tears and had to get up. We try not to argue in front of the children but they can obviously sense something is not right. DD asked me why I was sad and that made me cry more. Sorry to go on and on its just that my friends are so biased and I just needed to vent. Well better get back to studying.

 

[Kelly9]

Well I hope it all works out west. I mean is whatever you are fighting about so important that you can't be the first to take the first step? I guess you just have to decide whats worth it. I am very blessed DH and I rarely ever fight. We disagree but it never makes it to fight stage.

My last day technically was today but I have one exam next week. Got to get studying.
Had some brown marks in panties tonight and no it wasn't pooh, it was old blood likely from pap 2 days ago that is making its way out so not worrying about it. Also been retching tons again nothing has come out yet but being nauseous most of the day sucks. Well I am off to bed.

 

[shawnie]

Hi West, I hope things get better hun. I'm not sure of all that's going on. I just hope things get better... I myself feel lifes too short to stay mad at anyone, even if I am in the right. lol I know that sounds corny but I feel it takes too much energy from me to stay mad and you never know what will happen that day or the next. DP and I have "discussions" off and on but one of us always makes sure to get it resolved fast. For me, arguing never resolves anything, communication does. For me, sometimes communicating can be hard when trying not to cause an argument so trying a non defensive tactic sometimes works for me. Not sure any of that even made sense.

Kelly, not that you need it but good luck on your test, blow it out of the water lady! =)

 

[wannabeamom]

hi girlies

thanks west but i dont actually know what im having yet its shawnie thats having a girl hope you and DB manage to sort things out soon

kelly good luck with your exam xx

 

[Melsue129]

Awe West, I hope everything turns out okay with you and your other half... It really sucks to fight and it puts unneeded stress on you and the baby so the quicker it gets resolved the better... Stay strong and try to talk to him... He needs to understand this isnt good for you right now..

Wannabe - Im going to add you as my bump buddy... yay!!!!

Kelly- glad to hear you are keeping food down, thats great! Same with me I gagged and gagged but only threw up once during the whole time I had MS... At my 12 week appt they weighed me and I didnt gain or lose a pound so you are probably right on target... You must be soooo excited about your scan coming up... yay!!!

DMN - you must also be really counting the minutes for your scan, I would be going nuts by now.... eeekekkk....

Shawnie I hope you are doing great!!!! Buying any girls clothing yet?? hee hee

 

[dmn1156]

Hi all how you all doing

god time is going soooo slowly im trying to keep myself busy and occupied but it is dragging by tomorrow is going to take forever to get here lol

 

[Kelly9]

DMN hang in there you will make it then of course you will come straight to your computer and tell all of us!

 

[dmn1156]

i certainly will lol il drive home as quick as i can lol my appointment is at 1.40pm so i should of posted by time you all log in lol

 

[Melsue129]

Oh cool so we will have a lil surprise when we log on first time.. CANT WAIT!!!!

 

[dmn1156]

yes you should do it is 5.55pm here and me or wannabe are usually the first to post lol so i should be home and have posted by the time you all log in