Hi ladies, I'm really upset right now. My OH told someone he shouldn't have (which I didn't know about till now) - and now it's starting to get passed round people. I'm only 8 weeks tomorrow and didn't want people to know till 12 weeks ish. It really pissed me off because he could have easily fobbed the guy off he told. but didn't. We agreed to tell only parents and our best friends, people we could trust, and this is EXACTLY why. I can't believe it - how many times in your life do you get to announce you're pregnant? hardly any - and now it's been ruined for me What do I do? I have disabled my facebook wall for now. I have an 8 week scan tomorrow and if everything looks good I think we might as well announce it then so it's still a surprise for some people at least. Not happy about it though, I wanted to announce it on my own terms, not someone elses! What do you think? Say bugger it and announce it after scan tomorrow?