so stressedd :(

[sarahxx]

arghh i'm so stressed it's unbelievable..
nothing seems to be going right in my life and i'm so worried about it all, just need a good moan and maybe some advice?
me and my OH haven't got a house yet, and just have to wait on a list to get somewhere, but now that theres only 6 weeks left i'm getting panicky..
i don't know where to stay after the birth - in his mums everybody smokes so it would be bad for the baby, but my mum's horrible boyfriend is back in the picture now and she's said she wont ask him not to come around while i'm here if i stay with her - what should i do?
my boyfriend's job ends next week and he hasn't managed to get anything lined up yet for another job, so were going to be skint..
i'm losing touch with all my friends because they've got their own lives..
i've got no one to talk to, i'm worried about the pressure its putting on me and OH's relationship and the last thing I want is for us to split up but I'm so scared of it happening..
and I'm so scared about the baby being here incase I can't cope or I can't do it

 

[CSweets]

I know how you feel with your friends. My friends all went off to college and I don't talk to any of them any more and it's understandable with your mother because I don't talk to my mother and my OH's mother smokes but she knows it's bad for baby so she smokes outside even now because I'm pregnant. Maybe ask your OH's family to smoke outside and away from baby and since you can't find a house how about an apartment?

Also, my OH's job is off and on sometimes he won't have work for a a month or two straight. So my advice is save all the money possible while he still has a job and help him look for one in the classifieds in the newspaper and it'll push him to find a job. Just remember that nothing is impossible and there's a solution to everything. You just have to think outside the box.

 

[sarahxx]

thanks, i think thats a good idea about saving money up, we're definitely going to need it.. Yeah, I'm sure they would understand if I asked them to smoke outside, thanks fo your help xxxx

 

[CSweets]

No problem! I'm here if ya need to talk because you said you have 6 weeks left? I have 7 so I can relate

 

[sarahxx]

aww whats your due date? mines 6th Nov, thanks its nice knowing someones there xxx

 

[CSweets]

Mine is November 13th what are you having?

 

[sarahxx]

we're having a girl, have you found out what you're expecting? and any names picked out? Think we're going to call her Summer Lea xxx

 

[CSweets]

That's so pretty we are having a girl too and her name will be Kayt Elizabeth (pronounced like Kate)

 

[sarahxx]

aww that's lovely, bet you're getting so excited now its getting close, i know i have been.. xx

 

[CSweets]

YES! I can NOT wait till she is here and I'm prepared!

 

[Tanara]

I would defiantly ask them to smoke outside, or maybe smoke with a fan in their room, At lease its a compromise. But dont be in any rush to move out with your OH not having work, Its really hard unless you have a couple grand in your savings to fall back on. xxx

 

[helen82]

Do not so worry about it.