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[Nessicle]

Oh just another thread called "Porn and Women" a girl started it in the general lounge and it's about the way women "control" their OH's by telling them they are not allowed to have porn etc.

My reasoning was that there are usually reason behind why some women have a big problem with porn.....obviously I don't agree with the woman who started it, think it got stirred up a bit lol

x

 

[Minimin]

Oh dear! I may root around for it later. But like you said I think anyone with big opinions on their partner watching porn tend to have alot of other issues. The control of their partner and porn watching is probably just the icing on the cake! The way I see it .. as long as they are consenting adults and the viewer is also an adult then that's their choice.

Still have this stinking thumping headache Looks like we are going to have a down pour of rain in a minute- where has our spring gone?

 

[Nessicle]

rubbish isn't it?! It's supposed to snow up here ugh!!

 

[Minimin]

no way SNOW! I am so moody atm and this bloody weather is not helping! Want some sunshine!

 

[laura6914]

Hey girls,

Min do you have your scan today or is it tomorrow? Im thinking of you either way. Keep me updated hun. Hope your ok and your headaches are easing up day.

hey Ness, Belle, M2K, Icefire, and everyone else i have not named. :wave:
hope your all well.

 

[Minimin]

Hey Laura!
Scan is tomorrow! Eeek- had some brown discharge this morning when I wiped. Too scared to wipe again- did check inside but there wasnt anything immediate. I hate this too and fro-ing-why cant it just be a nice straight road?

How are you doing Laura?

Ness- how are you chickka? Did you get snow in Leeds?

 

[Nessicle]

morning doll - sent you a text didnt know if your scan was today or tomorrow! Bet you're looking forward to seeing bubba's lil' heartbeat! So excited for you!

Brown is old hun I wouldn't worry too much, could just be your cervix is a bit irritated as I read it can be very sensitive during pregnancy!

AF is due for me in 8 days....she's coming girls I know it! If she does, I'm getting a CBFM for next cycle!

 

[Nessicle]

didnt get snow yet as it's not due til the weekend (lovely for bank holiday!!) but it was hailstoning yesterday and it's been hammering it down with rain since Monday!

 

[Minimin]

Urgh! What is with this weather!
I hope you are right with this blood stuff! I am not too hopeful
Just picked up your text babe- sorry missed it for some reason! useless phone!
8days is too early hun! I am going to send you lots of baby dust vibes!

oh and scan is tomorrow- should be there for 9am-

 

[Nessicle]

thank you sweetie I know it's far too early to be counting myself out, it's just a feeling and I'm usually right with my intuitions

hey ho! Sorry to bring everyone down today lol just what everyone needs right now

you have to text or email me once you've had the scan, I have everything crossed for you babe xxx

 

[laura6914]

oh Min i know its worrying but brown is nothing to worry about.THere are hundreds of threads in the first tri with woman having spotting and there little ones are fine. Im sure yours will be to. What time is your scan hun? Ill be on here waiting for you to post and say everything is fine.

Ness, where has all the PMA gone??? Its not over until she is here. We all know that. hang in there chick

xxx

 

[Nessicle]

Lol sorry Laura I know you're right, trying to get my PMA back just don't want to get my hopes up!

Hope you're ok hun?xxx

 

[Minimin]

Thanks Laura- I may pop over for some reassurance- cramps and dull dragging feeling atm as well so it is worrying.

I am in at 9 tomorrow so will post as soon as I know something from my iPhone. Had some more vivid dreams last night- had a scan and saw HB but there was also a smaller one there too- so twins- NOW I know that is not going to come true. I think that was in my head from some research I was doing on what to expect to see at 7 weeks. LOL
thanks ladies for keeping me sane- well somewhat sane!

 

[laura6914]

Im ok ness hun. have been having some pretty painful cramps the past few days but this would have been th time AF would have been due s think that has something to do with it. Im praying this is your month chick i really am.

Min, i have cramped every single day throught the whole pregnancy so far and i cant see it going to be honest. I think its just things stretching. And that dragging feeling, yep have had that all the time to. Everything your experiancing sounds totally normal hunny. You baby grows so much in the first 12 weeks and your body goes though some dramatic changes. I know this dont stop you worrying, its hasnt stopped me either but dont feel like your alone.

xxx

 

[Nessicle]

you defo have to get on here and tell us straightaway as we will all be thinking about you! Lol twins lmao!! that would be a surprise he he!!

that's quite freaky isn't it Laura that you can have cramps around when AF is due - I've heard of that happening quite a lot! Funny what your body does!

Aww thanks Laura - just praying the next week goes really fast! xxx

 

[Nessicle]

P.S. I've just taken over the Softcups Official Testing thread!

 

[laura6914]

it is strange how bodies wirk, weird and wonderful things.

It will fly by hun. may be as you are feeling negative this month where by you ave felt positive other months the out come may be different.

xx

 

[Nessicle]

yeah maybe Laura! Lots of ladies have said the month they got their bfp they were convinced AF was gonna come on time! See you've given me my PMA back he he xxx

 

[laura6914]

I was one of those woman hun, No sign of a BFP what so ever. The only reason i tested is so i could see if i could start getting my second round of clomid ready. And there it was.
Hold onto that PMA chick, xxx

 

[Nessicle]

I was one of those woman hun, No sign of a BFP what so ever. The only reason i tested is so i could see if i could start getting my second round of clomid ready. And there it was.
Hold onto that PMA chick, xxx

oooh really??!

Well that makes me feel better - I know Min said the same she felt completely like AF was on her way too!

Got some cramping today really mild but just enough to notice, and have backache quite low down. Probs just post-ov cramps as I'm only 4dpo (max 5dpo) xxx