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[Minimin]

Laura Reassuring to know these cramps etc are normal! As you said it still is worrying but I will know for sure tomorrow. More brown tissue like piece when I went to pee a moment ago- small but there!- eek! Still could all be normal

Ness- I definitely felt I was out before dpo had really set in. I thought we had not done enough at all. I tested with IC as I thought it would be a real waste of £ to use anything else. Till this day I still have not opened the digi ones!

Now listen- If I have to have lots of PMA and think positive then we can do this together Ness! PMA pact!

Congrats on taking over the thread too Ness! Ttc4b3 took over and got her !!

 

[Minimin]

Oh and I have heard and read alot about spotting around the time AF is due too. I am going into 7th week so maybe why I am getting them too Laura!

 

[Nessicle]

Laura Reassuring to know these cramps etc are normal! As you said it still is worrying but I will know for sure tomorrow. More brown tissue like piece when I went to pee a moment ago- small but there!- eek! Still could all be normal

Ness- I definitely felt I was out before dpo had really set in. I thought we had not done enough at all. I tested with IC as I thought it would be a real waste of £ to use anything else. Till this day I still have not opened the digi ones!

Now listen- If I have to have lots of PMA and think positive then we can do this together Ness! PMA pact!

Congrats on taking over the thread too Ness! Ttc4b3 took over and got her !!

Ooh yeah she did didnt she?! Maybe that's a sign that my bfp is coming next week

I have a digi that I'll only use if I get a bfp on a superdrug or FRER and AF is late! It's my present to myself for if I miss AF

I feel like we've not done enough either, cos we were super relaxed this cycle, I also think cos we didnt after CD15 and the eggy popped that day that I've missed it!

try not to worry about the brown discharge sweetie i know that's easy for me to say though xxx

 

[laura6914]

Ness, at 3dpo-5dpo iu had thrush, and cramps hence why i thought AF was on her way. Hope as the new thread holder it vrings you the same luck.

Min, i could very well be that chick. Timing sounds right. Have you checked your Cervix to see if its closed? Im not sure if your supposed to in pregnancy but may be worth a look.

xxx

 

[Minimin]

ooooohhh I have never checked my cervix before and tbh a little afraid to put anything in there! I never added CP to my plethora of TTC tools!

Ness- Nice present to yourself Hope we are cracking it open in about 10 days time.. make sure the is well and truly late!!!

 

[laura6914]

may be worth looking hunny, just to see if its closed. Im sure all is fine, i am getting good vibes. xxx

 

[Nessicle]

Ness, at 3dpo-5dpo iu had thrush, and cramps hence why i thought AF was on her way. Hope as the new thread holder it vrings you the same luck.

Min, i could very well be that chick. Timing sounds right. Have you checked your Cervix to see if its closed? Im not sure if your supposed to in pregnancy but may be worth a look.

xxx

Ooh really? I keep getting like an itchy twinge if you know what I mean? Like thrush is threatening to start!

 

[Nessicle]

Loving your new profile pic Laura such a cute couple! Phillip is a little fittie switserwoo!xxx

 

[Nessicle]

ooooohhh I have never checked my cervix before and tbh a little afraid to put anything in there! I never added CP to my plethora of TTC tools!

Ness- Nice present to yourself Hope we are cracking it open in about 10 days time.. make sure the is well and truly late!!!

Just worked out it's 8 days babe! even better!!

 

[Helly]

Hello ladies!

Hope that bfp is 8 days away Ness, can I take over the testing thread then?

Laura - 12 weeks and 1 day, hooray!

Min, quicker tomorrow comes the better for you, im sure everything will be fine x

Im having the full on give up on TTC brain fart

 

[Minimin]

Laura- I second what Ness just said about your profile pic...both of you looking good!

Helly- how are you doll! Why the brain fart? a new cycle- a new chance to catch the eggy! Besides we will need you to take over from Ness after she takes over the testing thread- and then we will need some one to take over you-- any takers?

Ness- roll on 8 days!!!I do believe the relaxed approach will have helped

 

[Helly]

Dont know Min, I guess knowing there will be no 2010 baby has done my head in, James is 4 in June and I feel like the gap between him and a sibling is getting too big, my OH is 36 next week and I guess I had my head around him being 35 when we conceived but Im struggling to get my head round him being 36. I'm dreading my next brain fart in 3 months time when I realise we wont have had a baby before he turns 37. I'm 28 by the way.

 

[Minimin]

I can see where you are coming from.. but dont worry too much about siblings.. My sister and I are 13 years apart! My brother and I are 3 years apart. So my sister.. who was planned... was fun! We used to help raise her and now I tell her she WILL be helping me raise my lil ones as I wiped her A£$! Lol. My sis and I are very close and there is nothing I wouldnt tell her or do for her.

You are still very young and so is your OH- I am nearly 37 (eek) and DH going to be 38 this year. It doesnt matter how old we are- it is whether we will be good parents, be kind, caring and protective. And that I have no doubt that we will be. You already are.

I understand wanting a 2010 baby- there is nothing wrong with 2011- For me it is just time- I wanted 2010 so that I didnt have to wait much longer. 2011 just seems farther away- I understand but try not to think of it in dates. Also- and I know my Maths is crap- but you still have a chance for a 2010 right?

Stay strong chicka! If you give up then there is no way- having hope means there is still a way it can happen.

I need to be reminded of this when I have my brain farts too ladies

 

[Helly]

Thanks Min, I know you are right, and yeah I think id be 39 weeks at new year if I conceive this month but I guess I feel like my brain fart thats coming in three months is a dead cert and not a maybe. Its silly but i feel like its going to go all the way to IVF and years of waiting, we couldnt have done anymore or timed things any better for at least the past 3 months, probably the last 6 months and nothing. I guess I feel that deep down something is wrong, with one or both of us. Oh someone kick me up the arse and tell me to shut up!

 

[Nessicle]

Hello ladies!

Hope that bfp is 8 days away Ness, can I take over the testing thread then?

Laura - 12 weeks and 1 day, hooray!

Min, quicker tomorrow comes the better for you, im sure everything will be fine x

Im having the full on give up on TTC brain fart

he he the job is yours if I get my bfp would've been a right short job wouldnt it ha ha?!

 

[Nessicle]

Aww Helly! So sorry you're feeling fed up I know 2011 seems ages away but it's only cos we're just leaving March in 2010 that it feels so long away if you catch my drift lol

I'm hoping the relaxed approach has helped this cycle, I'm starting to feel a bit anxious think it's cos I have ages to wait til 8 April ha ha x

 

[Helly]

Thanks Ness, 8 April will be here in no time, bank holiday weekends always go too fast!

 

[Minimin]

Helly dont think that hard- 6 months is still short time- have you per chance had a chat with your GP? perhaps get some simple tests going? How are your cycles?

 

[Nessicle]

Ok I commented on this thread a couple of days ago and it's getting pathetic...

https://www.babyandbump.com/general-chatter/300948-porn-women.html

let me know what you think, am I crazy to think that me trying to stick up for women who don't allow their husbands to watch porn is a good thing??

 

[bbdreams]

Ok I commented on this thread a couple of days ago and it's getting pathetic...

https://www.babyandbump.com/general-chatter/300948-porn-women.html

let me know what you think, am I crazy to think that me trying to stick up for women who don't allow their husbands to watch porn is a good thing??

Ness, I don't think your crazy at all! DH doesn't want to watch porn and if he did I wouldn't want him to! Porn can become an unhealthy addiction I think. I think that if we satisfy our men ourselves they won't have to watch porn! But that is just my opinion...everyone is entitled to their own.