Some one give me a hug...

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I had a m/c about 4 weeks ago.. and I have not cried for about a week, but today have been really down and I had to have a little cry...
Laura xxxx :hugs:
 
Oh hun, sorry for your loss. I too misscarried last weekend and was totally numb, no tears whatsoever however, on friday night I just couldn't stop :hissy:

:hug: :hug: :hug:
 
Sending both of you huge :hug:.

Take care
xxxx
 
Aw, here, have 2 :hug: :hug:

I think I've done my crying for my miscarriage and am now just blocking it out, concentrating on trying again. Everytime I think about my miscarriage, I still feel this sense of shock and sadness so I'm just trying to think about the future now rather than the past xxxx
 
Its very early days yet for both of you ladies,have a good cry if you need to .

:hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:
 
Please dont stop yourself from grieving, its the most normal thing, dont worry. We all have good days and bad, but the old cliche is true = things will look and feel better with time. For now, take sometime for yourselves. Thinking of you both :hugs:
 
I too feel the same so you girls are not alone. I found out i lost my twins late December, a scan confirmed this on 9th Jan. Had a D+C on 12th Jan and at first i could not stop crying! Then i would feel empty and numb, like it was happening to someone else! Now i have the odd day when i feel so alone and depressed and other days i feel like nothing as ever happend! Think this is because i am trying to block it out!

I feel i am ready to go back to work so got a back to work note for monday. I think this will help take my mind off things as i have just been sat at home (well not exactly i have decorated the kitchen over the past 2 days! still not finished so going to do the glossing tomorrow)!!

Vik
Ps. sorry for your losses also.
xx
 
:hugs:

sorry to hear that you're having a tough day and obviously sorry about your loss :hugs:
 
Aw, here, have 2 :hug: :hug:

I think I've done my crying for my miscarriage and am now just blocking it out, concentrating on trying again. Everytime I think about my miscarriage, I still feel this sense of shock and sadness so I'm just trying to think about the future now rather than the past xxxx

Thanks Susan,

:hug:

XX
 
Aw, here, have 2 :hug: :hug:

I think I've done my crying for my miscarriage and am now just blocking it out, concentrating on trying again. Everytime I think about my miscarriage, I still feel this sense of shock and sadness so I'm just trying to think about the future now rather than the past xxxx

I'm on this page to, it was tough because I had to look down and deal with what I saw, but physically I feel better, and mentally now i'm just focused on trying to be healthy and sane:) But :hug: do what you need to do, but focus on trying to get back to your norm, cry, write, talk, etc. It still bothers you on some level even at that norm, but thats expected, it's not going to disappear totally, no matter how good you get at blocking it out. :flasher: :)
 
I feel the same, i insisted on only taking 2 days off to have my D&C as i need routine and i'm pleased i haven't been sitting at home wallowing but sometimes it hits me again like a train and i just want to hide away from everyone. Big hugs to you, we will all get there together by leaning on each other when we need it. x
 

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