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terces

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Sunday night I decided to have the teen girls from my youth group over for a sleep over. They wanted to do one for awhile so we finally did it. I have a small youth group and there were supposed to be 3 girls and I ended up with 2. Ok background of story done.....One of the "teens" is pregnant. She got pregnant at 14 and just turned 15..
Here are her "digs" for the time she was here:
1. While I'm sitting on the couch standing in front of me and rubbing her pregnant belly
2. I don't even want to be pregnant. I hate it.
3. I can't wait to find out what my baby is tomorrow. (over and over)
4. Several "my baby will be this and my baby will be that"
5. I'm going to go beat up some orphans.( she thinks she's funny)
and for a REAL nice one...
6. When she realized how many scent bricks I had for my warmer. She said, "Hey,..... I'll trade you all those scents for a baby. Not my baby, but I will go get one for you." When I didn't answer she said did you hear me several times. I finally said yes I did and I'm ignoring you.

So, much for doing the right thing and inviting that little B&#($ anyways. Sorry bad language. I've decided that since she wants to be such an adult she can be with the adults. She doesn't need to be in a teen class. She disrupts it anyways and she's VERY proud of herself for getting pregnant.

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:nope::nope: how immature and insensitive!!! :nope: the worst part is that she's going to be surprised at what being an adult is actually like so she's in for a rude awakening!

sorry you had to go through that :hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:
 
You have the patience of a Saint xx
 
What Cooch said. I would have to sit on my hands in order to refrain from strangling the immature little bitch.

I feel sorry for the baby for having an idiot mother. Just because you're pregnant doesn't mean you're automatically an adult, or instantly have this motherly nature about you. :growlmad:

Some girls should wear chastity belts. :haha:
 
Thanks ladies. I am feeling so much better right now. I talked to a dear friends of mine who knows what it feels like to want a baby. She told me to go home and read the story of Hannah in the Bible. After reading that I felt a huge weight lift off of me. I can't explain it, but almost have this strange peace. If any of you are religious I encourage you to read about her in 1 Samuel.
 
I have read the story of Hannah and I am okay for a while but then someone asks me or AF comes and it feels like I sink into this deep pit again. I truly believe that God wnats to bless me and my husband with the gift of a baby...but when.:cry: At times I have peace and at times it feels like I am having a war going on in my mind over why I havent had a baby and why am I not good enough.
 

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