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I just can't let this out anywhere else. I can't tell my partner my concerns. I have no friends IRL. The couple of people I could tell are my mum or my sister. But my sister will tell me there's nothing to worry about. And I don't really want my mum to know how severe my anxiety is. It's intensifying to the point I'm becoming obsessed. Yesterday it was on my mind all day, constantly no matter what else I was doing. And this morning I woke up and all of my (barely there in the first place) symptoms have gone. Apart from the tiredness but my 4yr old is being particularly bad at night right now so that's normal. I feel like this pregnancy isn't developing. I can't picture a baby like I usually could with my healthy pregnancies. I feel the same hopelessness and helplessness I did last time. Just waiting to be proven right again. I rang the hospital yesterday and asked for my scan to be booked the week after my sons birthday instead of the week before (when I'll actually be 12wks) because I don't want his birthday to be ruined if it is bad news. When I had my first MMC that fell right over the week of his birthday and that will always be part of my memories of his birthday which his horrible. I don't want that again.
I don't need replies. I just need somewhere to "put" these thoughts. Somewhere outside my head. I kind of want something to look back on. Whatever happens. Whether it's the outcome I'm expecting, I'll have something to reassure myself that I wasn't mad. Or if it is the outcome I'm not expecting, but am hoping for, then if I feel this way in the future that my gut instinct isn't always right. Sorry. I'll try and keep any more negative stuff to this thread.
I don't need replies. I just need somewhere to "put" these thoughts. Somewhere outside my head. I kind of want something to look back on. Whatever happens. Whether it's the outcome I'm expecting, I'll have something to reassure myself that I wasn't mad. Or if it is the outcome I'm not expecting, but am hoping for, then if I feel this way in the future that my gut instinct isn't always right. Sorry. I'll try and keep any more negative stuff to this thread.