Sperm Meets Egg Plan Chatter thread!

[Nessicle]

I have a question Ladies. Myself and DH are going out tomorrow nite just for a couple of hours and if I was to implant would be two days time earliest which would make me 5dpo tomorrow. If I have a drink or two will this affect implantation. Me and hubby havent been out on our own together in about 2 years (no im not joking lol...) going out for food then maybe pub for a couple of games of pool. What do you all think?

think you'll be fine hun! Don't know where I read it or if it's even true but I heard a glass of red wine can actualy help implantation!

If you can't stomach red wine perhaps have a couple of halves of lager or white wine spritzers??

 

[Helly]

Sorry ladies, im dragging your percentage down, AF got me bang on time this morning.

 

[hopefully2]

Ah helly sorry to hear that, at least af didn't leave you guessing i suppose, still hard though.
will you give SMEP another go?

 

[stardust22]

Sorry ladies, im dragging your percentage down, AF got me bang on time this morning.

Oh Helly, so sorry to hear about AF!!! It will be get many of of us on this thread!!

Good luck for next month though. You will get your BFP!!!
x

 

[wantingagirl]

Sounds like your body is regulating after the pill, thats a good sign that your CM is changing.
Yeah totally agree Ness and like you said good to see the flip side but hey guess some people just dont wanna know that. I read a few posts and some of them were taken it quite personally. Yeah defo sometimes can be different what you think is happening and what actually is but thats up to them and no-one else. My OH so weird he doesnt like porn im like come on already every other men would be jumping at the chance hehe..... just doesnt float his boat at all.
haha it was me that read it and told you about glass of red wine helping implantation can it not be a bottle?? I hate red wine gives me such a sore head as soon as I have even a little bit . Not keen on spritzers either but might just have the one wine and maybe a blue wicked or something cos thats not strong.

ahh so sorry Helly I was actually just about to ask you how you were getting on. One month closer to your BFP tho

 

[gingerwhinger]

Hi ladies

I've not been about much over the weekend so here is what I have been up to - I am a bit worried tbh

So I normally get my positive opk on cd14 which was saturday, well I didn't! We bd anyway as we had had our day off on Friday lol. Then yesterday morning I did another opk, cd15, and it was very nearly positive and I am sure would have been positive if I had done one in the afternoon (I couldn't though as we had to go visiting oh's bro in hospital) so anyway we bd yesterday morning too as I counted yesterday as my positive opk day - confirmed this morning as my opk was totally negative.

Well here is my problem - attempted bd today but I went and orgasmed early which I try not to do because we seem to lose steem if I do that and oh will sometimes, all be it very rarely, not actually come in me - well that only went and bloody happened this morning!! Which I am assuming if yesterday was my positive opk day then today is the most important day to get my spermies!! Oh dear God it's never simple. What should I do? Will yesterdays spermies be ok? I have some cm, not heaps of it and it is creamy and not all that stretchy... will they be alive to meet my egg?? I have told oh I will be leaping on him tonight, atleast I will try... I think I have worn him out I may even need to errrr give him a bit of a bj then make him hop on at the right moment - I think it might be the only chance I have else otherwise I feel like I have blown it this month - so to speak

Please someone reassure me - will I be ok not having any spermies today? It is looking like I might be going without I will make darn well sure I get some first thing tomorrow morning if I don't get my way tonight. I feel all crappy I can picture my lonely little egg floating about with no swimmers... Help!!

 

[Nessicle]

Sounds like your body is regulating after the pill, thats a good sign that your CM is changing.
Yeah totally agree Ness and like you said good to see the flip side but hey guess some people just dont wanna know that. I read a few posts and some of them were taken it quite personally. Yeah defo sometimes can be different what you think is happening and what actually is but thats up to them and no-one else. My OH so weird he doesnt like porn im like come on already every other men would be jumping at the chance hehe..... just doesnt float his boat at all.
haha it was me that read it and told you about glass of red wine helping implantation can it not be a bottle?? I hate red wine gives me such a sore head as soon as I have even a little bit . Not keen on spritzers either but might just have the one wine and maybe a blue wicked or something cos thats not strong.

ahh so sorry Helly I was actually just about to ask you how you were getting on. One month closer to your BFP tho

Yay my CM has been making itself much more noticeable this cycle so hopefully that's the reason why

Yeah I've just been called 'shallow' on there now by one woman because I said that personally if it doesnt affect me then I'm not going to let someone else's relationship bother me! (I'm just like "err it's called minding your own business" lol although I didnt put that). I wont post again on there as once someone starts name calling you know it's gonna turn sour so will leave it there!

Oh I knew someone had told me that about wine !! Yeah the alcopops are mostly sugar anyway, just don't have more than two or so then sure you will be fine!

 

[Nessicle]

Hi ladies

I've not been about much over the weekend so here is what I have been up to - I am a bit worried tbh

So I normally get my positive opk on cd14 which was saturday, well I didn't! We bd anyway as we had had our day off on Friday lol. Then yesterday morning I did another opk, cd15, and it was very nearly positive and I am sure would have been positive if I had done one in the afternoon (I couldn't though as we had to go visiting oh's bro in hospital) so anyway we bd yesterday morning too as I counted yesterday as my positive opk day - confirmed this morning as my opk was totally negative.

Well here is my problem - attempted bd today but I went and orgasmed early which I try not to do because we seem to lose steem if I do that and oh will sometimes, all be it very rarely, not actually come in me - well that only went and bloody happened this morning!! Which I am assuming if yesterday was my positive opk day then today is the most important day to get my spermies!! Oh dear God it's never simple. What should I do? Will yesterdays spermies be ok? I have some cm, not heaps of it and it is creamy and not all that stretchy... will they be alive to meet my egg?? I have told oh I will be leaping on him tonight, atleast I will try... I think I have worn him out I may even need to errrr give him a bit of a bj then make him hop on at the right moment - I think it might be the only chance I have else otherwise I feel like I have blown it this month - so to speak

Please someone reassure me - will I be ok not having any spermies today? It is looking like I might be going without I will make darn well sure I get some first thing tomorrow morning if I don't get my way tonight. I feel all crappy I can picture my lonely little egg floating about with no swimmers... Help!!

don't panic hun! It can take a day or even two for the sperm to reach the eggy! So the you had leading up to ov will be fine I'm sure! As your opk wasn't completely positive (I do mine 3 times a day round ov because the surge tends to happen late afternoon for me) you could have ov'd last night. If you can get a session in tonight then I would do that, if not then do it first thing in the morning to maximise chances but don't stress too much xx

 

[Helly]

Thanks Ladies, yeah I will get the sperm meets egg plan dead right this month. Im wondering if my OH would be willing to take the wellman conception pills, hmmm, will test the water.

 

[Nessicle]

Helly I hven't followed it to the letter this cycle either - I started CD9, then 11, 13, 14 and 15 - doubt OH will want to bd tonight as he's still feeling grotty from his binge drinking session on Saturday lol but will see how it goes. don't think it will matter much anyway if we do or not - popped the eggy on Saturday CD15 I'm pretty sure!

if I don't get my bfp this cycle and I seriously doubt I will, then I'll be following SMEP exactly to the letter!

 

[wantingagirl]

Jee soo the woman doesnt even know you how can she call you names. I tell you what you are far from shallow! This place is suppose to be for making friends not bullying!!! grrrrr

Anyways thats my rant done shes lucky she didnt say that to me. Yeah I may put weight on from blue wkds but hey hopefuly going to put some weight on anyway

Gingerwhinger - Hey good to hear from you. Dont worry you should just have some swimmers alive and kicking to greet the eggy and you can carry on bedding just for an extra measure but dont give him BJ beforehand as I have heard that saliva can kill some spermies

 

[Nessicle]

I know!! How rude lol!! Aww thank you hun! I didnt take it personally - she obviously doesn't know what the word "shallow" means anyway cos she used it in the wrong context lol.

about putting on weight, I know what you mean - everything I eat nowadays I'm like "oh it's for the baby anyway" and there isnt even a baby yet ha ha ha! My way of justifying my greediness!

 

[wantingagirl]

helly my DH used them and they work for us, cant harm in asking him. GL and keep us posted.

I missed cycle day 17 but bed day 18 and not sure exactly when I OV as didnt have CBFM sticks but sure I ov cycle day 15

haha that made me laugh. Ha always the better person for not retaliating!! We may as well practice eating what we want since going to happen for us soon!!!

 

[Nessicle]

me too I ov'd on CD15 !!

Exactly - I'll be the adult and walk away from it! I'm not looking for an argument so sod it lol!

Loving the PMA too

 

[wantingagirl]

hehe.... PMA all the way.

Yes totally no point in arguing about it whats the point in posting if you want everyone to agree with you

Maybe our eggys have been fertilised! woop woop. Our babysitter has fallen through for tmorow night but I mite buy one of them bottles of red wine that hold one glass curious and will take me all nite to drink

 

[Nessicle]

woo hoo!! Been having ovulation cramps, they don't hurt as such just annoying lol. Wish I could just be in the 1ww now to ss lol!!

Oooh I love red wine yuurmmmy!!

(what is your name by the way hun? of course if you don't want to tell us then totally understand!)

 

[tryforbaby2]

Good Morning All!

I don't want to drag the statistics down on this thread so can you please remove my name if it's posted? We were unable to BD CD8 since we were driving back home to visit and by the time we got in we were completely exhausted! We started CD10 yesterday (ignore my ticker). My cycles are normally 32 days long BUT I am unsure this cycle since last month my AF started 2 days early. I started spotting March 18th until last Friday morning (9 days!!!!). I am slacking so much this time around! I didn't even start opks yet!! I am buying them today!

Even though I will be doing the SMEP, I am starting it on CD10 instead of CD8 due to my own fault!!! I don't want to drag the statistics down!!! But I will be on here, if you don't mind!

 

[gingerwhinger]

Thanks you guys I'm going to try and hold onto some PMA. My oh is in the dining room (more of an office nowadays) working and I keep going by to the kitchen etc and I just want to leap on him!! I wish we were still in that honeymoon period of a relationship where it is totally normal to leap on your fella randomly and drag them upstairs... I have no chance what with him still having a broken leg and fractured shoulder Maybe I need to forget about this ttc thing untill he is fit and able? It hurts him every time we bd poor chap I am maybe being a bit cruel?

I shant go down the bj route then. I'm not sure whether to go with the suductive teasing route and see if that works or just come out with 'honey we need to get busy right this second now or our xmas baby chances are somewhat slim'. Hmmm. I need to think!!

I can't get the image of my poor lonely floating eggy out of my head... I can nearly hear her shouting 'here spermy spermy spermies where are you... helloooo spermies come and get me yoohoo i am over here' while bobbing about mingling amongst yesterday dead sperm carcasses. Now theres an image for you! Yup I am going mental again

 

[inkdchick]

hey girls this sounds like something that is worth trying. Havent been able to this month because of the m/c on the 14th but am really looking forward to trying this on my next cycle. Good luck to all those waiting to find out.
Nessicle - Hi how are you and i hope that this is your month - bless you both

 

[Nessicle]

Thanks you guys I'm going to try and hold onto some PMA. My oh is in the dining room (more of an office nowadays) working and I keep going by to the kitchen etc and I just want to leap on him!! I wish we were still in that honeymoon period of a relationship where it is totally normal to leap on your fella randomly and drag them upstairs... I have no chance what with him still having a broken leg and fractured shoulder Maybe I need to forget about this ttc thing untill he is fit and able? It hurts him every time we bd poor chap I am maybe being a bit cruel?

I shant go down the bj route then. I'm not sure whether to go with the suductive teasing route and see if that works or just come out with 'honey we need to get busy right this second now or our xmas baby chances are somewhat slim'. Hmmm. I need to think!!

I can't get the image of my poor lonely floating eggy out of my head... I can nearly hear her shouting 'here spermy spermy spermies where are you... helloooo spermies come and get me yoohoo i am over here' while bobbing about mingling amongst yesterday dead sperm carcasses. Now theres an image for you! Yup I am going mental again

that is so funny lol I think you're worrying too much chick

you can pounce on your OH! He'd probably love it!

I always give OH a bj before sex as it's the only way to get him going, but before he enters me we use conceive+ anyway and I make sure his bits are dry before popping the conceive+ on