Starting to get a little annoyed with this...

Discussion in 'Long Term Trying To Conceive' started by wantababybump, Apr 14, 2009.

  1. wantababybump

    wantababybump Well-Known Member

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    Well tomorrow I will be on cd59...one day away from being 2 full months since my lasy af. Im starting to get sick and tired of this crap. I have spotted 1 day about 5 different times this cycle and my temps are still low and actually are all over the place. I just dont know what to do. I got that faint bfp but have pretty much put it off to being an evap. Did a CB digi and it was "not pregnant". I havent taken anything lately as Im soooo scared it will just be negative anyways and I dont want to waste a bunch of money on tests if they will only be negative. I cant order any off of ebay because I am in Canada and takes a little over 2 wks for them to actually get here. Im starting to get tired of this...I just want af to come so I can start a brand new cycle and it just keeps effing with me by making me spot and think I am going to actually start and then goes away and nothing else happens! I think the worst thing is not knowing if there is something wrong with me...if there is a reason that my cycles are so long...they never used to be and this is the longest cycle so far (longest previous was 46 days)...I dont know what to do :cry: I just cant deal with this! People say "why dont you go back on the pill for a year and regulate your cycles"...I dont want to that is the total opposite of what I want to do...Im trying to get pregnant not prevent it!! Another annoying one is "stop stressing, you'll never get pregnant that way" how the heck can I not stress when Im waiting for my period to come and it never does...and I have no sweet clue when it will start in return making me stress because I have gone almost 2 months since my last period!! Oh and I also hate..."just stop trying, thats what we did" I really dont give 2 shits if thats what you did. I cant stop trying...I probbly could if I didnt have such messed up cycles but there could actually be something wrong with me that is preventing me from getting pregnant (like the fact I dont ovulate at the same time every month) so I cant just not try or I may actually never find out what is wrong with me and will never end up getting pregnant. Frig...I just cant deal with this crap anymore!! Im annoyed..sorry for the rant. :dohh::cry::hissy:
     
  2. Alexas Mommy

    Alexas Mommy Well-Known Member

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  3. BizyBee

    BizyBee Mom to Luke, Expecting #2

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    You have every reason to rant. Long cycles suck!!!
    Whoever told you to go back on the pill for a year is crazy. I'm sure my ridiculous cycles are a result of taking that dreaded BCP!
    I hope things get sorted out soon and you either get a :bfp: or AF makes an appearance so you can move on.

    p.s. do you have Dollar Tree stores in Canada? They supposedly have pretty reliable tests and they're cheap.
     
  4. Parkep

    Parkep Very happy mom

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    you could get pregnancy test online and get them shipped asap? mine came within a week i believe... im really sorry for you to be going thru this. Mine has only been just over a month gone and cant do it anymore... :hug: i would go to you doctor and ask him for blood tests and what you should do.....
     
  5. Nathyrra

    Nathyrra Levi's Mammy

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    Hey chick.

    I'm on about the same CD as you (keep meaning to check) It's utterly frustrating isnt it?

    Pay no mind to those people with their little pearls of wisdom! Unless they have been in your position they have no bloody clue what it feels like.

    ROFLcopter. Yeah the pills regulates you.. when you're ON the pill. That stupid pill has done nothing but fekk me over since I came off it.

    Has your doctor done any tests to try determine what's wrong?

    Hang in there..

    :hugs:
     
  6. Brambletess

    Brambletess Well-Known Member

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    You need to get tested and find out if there is a reason your period is taking so long to arrive each month. I took ages to get all the tests done and regret it now as i wasted a year really. I listened to people telling me to keep trying, you're stresssed, its not the right time, etc.... and they were wrong, felt like punching them too at times. I have blocked tubes, simple and straighforward. I think stress probably does play a part to a point but its useless advice as how do you stop thinking about it anyway? Don't worry about stressing and then you won't be stressing about stressing - just stressing once!! I guess the only think i would say is, once i stopped charting i did actually felt much happier and calmer, but if you need to chart, you need to chart but i do think charting can make one a bit obssessive (just talking about myself here).


    Ignore people's advice, get the tests and take it from there (although testing is stressful so be prepared for that). Maybe Clomid or other drugs may help you ovulate more regularly and acupuncture can help with long cycles too.

    Hope things start to improve for you..:hug:
     
  7. chefamy1122

    chefamy1122 hating infertility

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    Aww honey :hugs: I know alllll about long cycles and people giving stupid advice. Hope AF shows up soon for you!
     
  8. CareBear

    CareBear Is considering whats next

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    :hugs: I know how you feel I'm currently on about CD 47 ish - not quite as long for you but very annoying when you actually just want the :witch: to arrive so you can get on with the next cycle.
     
  9. kat08

    kat08 Well-Known Member

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    I know exactly how you feel my cycles just kept getting longer after coming off the pill last year - 47 days, 94 days and now I am currently on cd160 - ish I lose count without checking my diary!

    Have you been for tests - I have PCOS so at least I know why mine are so long if you don't have a reason it must be even more frustrating!
     
  10. wantababybump

    wantababybump Well-Known Member

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    My friend goes to the same doctor as me (she was the one who actually referred me to him as he wasnt actually taking new patients) and she has an appt with him tomorrow so she is going to mention it all to him and see what he says as it could take a couple weeks for me to get into see him. He did tell her that if I dont hear from a fertility specialist within 4-8wks from the last time I went to see him for me to go back in and they will start nagging them and get me in there quicker. So hopefully soon we will know something.
     
  11. tansey

    tansey Finally a Mummy!

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    I hope something happens for you soon hun! :hugs:
     

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