tinkerbelle93
2 little boys :)
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I wouldn't wait. Do what you wanna do
i would not wait it could take 1 month to get pregnant or over a year x
Slightly off topic but me and DH have decided that March is the perfect time for us to start ttc our second child. Our son is almost 3. We were all set but yesterday my sister and husband announced she is 3 months pregnant with her first baby. I had no idea she was trying but it was lovely news.
Anyway, I now feel a little uneasy about ttc in March. I fell pregnant very easily with my son, if I fell pregnant immediately this time round, it would mean being 3 months along and at the time of announcing just when she is due. It would also mean there being another baby in our fairly close knit family just 5/6 months after her having her baby and it not being the only baby having it's first Christmas etc next year. I know it perhaps should be a non-issue but I can't help feel a little guilty and thinking delaying ttc. I remember just before my son was due, my husbands sister announced she was 4 months pregnant with her second, and I remember feeling quite gutted because suddenly the all of the attention was away from us and 4 mere months after my son was born there was a newer, tinier baby distracting everyone.. I know this sounds silly but I do think a lot of women secretly feel this way with their first baby. My sister deserves everything perfect and I don't want to put a downer on it, but I also don't want to delay ttc, me and my husband want this so badly!
So what are people's opinions on these situations in general? Is it a non issue thay shouldn't be considered? Have you ever been on either side of a similar situation? Xx