Daphne maybe you could make some coy but totally true comment about how it could go either way, like 50% chance or something!
Jess we are so cheap too. We are trying to save a lot where it matters. We won't have to pay for any childcare which helps a ton and we are doing cloth, plus I'm sure I could get my mom to make some nursing pads! I personally can't STAND sewing. And I agree about hand me down clothes, babies only need like special occasion new clothes I think. Play clothes can totally be used!