My poor OH... late yesterday evening we were sitting on the couch watching TV and began talking about the ultrasound and how soon it is. My OH was telling me how nervous he is, not in a bad way but just super anxious. I noted that he is about to find out whether he's having a son or a daughter and how major this time is! He said he could about cry just thinking of it and is to the point where he is pretty much ready to have an anxiety/panic attack and he's gonna lose his composure at the ultrasound. He's so overwhelmed with emotions, poor guy.
He couldn't fall asleep last night and was up until close to midnight, maybe later
I was sound asleep shortly after my head hit the pillow
He tossed and turned a alot and was mumbling in his sleep and snoring a lot
Oy... Then this morning he finally gets up and comes upstairs and tells me that he's convinced he has couvade syndrome, something he spent quite a bit of time late last night researching.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Couvade_syndrome
Basically, as an expectant father, he is experiencing some similar symptoms and behavior as me, the expectant mother. I've never heard of this before... I am thinking he is so overwhelmed with all aspects of becoming a first time daddy that it is really starting to affect him but regardless of what it is of course I don't want him a nervous, emotional wreck. I feel that expectant father's don't have it completely easy either
There's a lot of major life changes that happen, especially in my OH's case. He has had to majorly grow up, give up quite a bit, adjust his priorities, endure criticism from friends and for a guy that has never really had to be totally responsible for anything, to now anticipate the birth of his own child that he will be totally responsible for is quite overwhelming I'm sure. I feel for him.