Ladies, I have had a totally awesome morning. I haven't said anything yet because I didn't know if it would happen or not.
Anyway a short while ago I found out that there is a clinic about an hour from here that does birth classes etc. It was too late for me to be able to join as I was pretty much 37 weeks and they didn't have any classes scheduled for a while. Small towns etc they need to wait till there is enough ladies to come before they arrange the classes.
The lady however got in contact with me and said she would try her very best to meet me half way to discuss a few things. I was super excited but then the costs were too much for me and I declined because I was on maternity leave already and would not be able to pay for things that weren't absolutely required.
Long story short she told me to meet her half way this morning and not worry about costs. I spent a lovely morning with her one-on-one going through early signs of labour, the whole process of your body changes through labour, the golden hour after birth, in depth details on breast feeding and a few other things about caring for a new born. She brought me lots of sample prodcuts, a baby blankeet and a pacifier as presents to baby
She use to be a midwife in her days and then they opened a baby clinic that does birth classes, immunisations etc etc. She was amazing and has not charged me anything for all of this. She said she has a passion for this and was so uneasy about not being able to meet with me and God made it possible for her to meet with me today and she now feels better. She also said that some of the moms that do the birth classes ask her to support them during labour as a doula and if I want I can phone her on my way to the hospital - if she is available she'll help DH and I through labour with support free of charge.
I'm not sure if I would go for that BUT it is wonderful to have the option. She said that if I don't want her there during I am welcome to call her once we have been cleaned etc after birth and she'll come and help me with checking that I'm breast feeding properly at home and newborn care like bathing him etc.
I could really talk with her while we were together which gave me reassurance in the sense that I already know lots of things and just need to trust myself. There were also questions that she answered and things I didn't know.
Sorry for rambling but it was all so good and great and amazing
that I can go on and on about how relaxed and ready I feel!