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nickyXjayno
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God where to start ha lol.
My name is Nicola and I'm engaged to a man I've been with since mid teens, we have lived together for years and was looking forward to my 22nd birthday this year.
I've never wanted children and thought maybe I'd feel more maternal when older, my other half flat out never wants kids.
So what's the issue?
About a month and a half ago I had my implant removed and decided to go back on the pill, problem is after having the implant for a few years you forget to take a pill every day on the dot.
BUT I always took it every day maybe sometimes at night and other times in the morning but always within a 24 hour time frame or there abouts.
Funny thing is I was talking to women in work about it and said I was worried that me not taking it on the dot every day would be an issue and you know what they said?
Don't be ridiculous!
You don't get pregnant straight off the bat, I've been trying for ages, or took me a few months to get pregnant with mine and so on and so forth.
I felt secure that those extra hours didn't matter....
Fast forward to this week and my period didn't arrive, even though I'm always on by the 27th, at the latest!
So peed in a cup and sent it to the docs, didn't fancy paying all that for pregnancy tests, and it came back negative.
No worries right?
Hmmm no I just knew and sure enough I have a tesco preggo test to prove it.
So here I am googling as much about baby stuff and pregnancy my eyes are watering, I haven't a clue about any of this.
I found this forum and I know I haven't been trying for a baby and loads of people on here are and it's a slap in the face but I could really do with someone to talk to and some advice.
I don't know what to do or where to start.
I still don't believe it, think it's a lie.
I work full time and love motorbikes, how does a baby fit into this?
Most of all I'm worried about how my other half is going to react, I can cope and I will deal, what's done is done and maybe there is a reason for this but I have a feeling it will be the end of the world for him and maybe our relationship as he will probably hate me or resent me and I can't force him to want something neither of us planned for.
I hope there is someone on here who has been through something similar, could really do with a bit of help.
Sorry for the biography, thanks - Nicola.
xxx
My name is Nicola and I'm engaged to a man I've been with since mid teens, we have lived together for years and was looking forward to my 22nd birthday this year.
I've never wanted children and thought maybe I'd feel more maternal when older, my other half flat out never wants kids.
So what's the issue?
About a month and a half ago I had my implant removed and decided to go back on the pill, problem is after having the implant for a few years you forget to take a pill every day on the dot.
BUT I always took it every day maybe sometimes at night and other times in the morning but always within a 24 hour time frame or there abouts.
Funny thing is I was talking to women in work about it and said I was worried that me not taking it on the dot every day would be an issue and you know what they said?
Don't be ridiculous!
You don't get pregnant straight off the bat, I've been trying for ages, or took me a few months to get pregnant with mine and so on and so forth.
I felt secure that those extra hours didn't matter....
Fast forward to this week and my period didn't arrive, even though I'm always on by the 27th, at the latest!
So peed in a cup and sent it to the docs, didn't fancy paying all that for pregnancy tests, and it came back negative.
No worries right?
Hmmm no I just knew and sure enough I have a tesco preggo test to prove it.
So here I am googling as much about baby stuff and pregnancy my eyes are watering, I haven't a clue about any of this.
I found this forum and I know I haven't been trying for a baby and loads of people on here are and it's a slap in the face but I could really do with someone to talk to and some advice.
I don't know what to do or where to start.
I still don't believe it, think it's a lie.
I work full time and love motorbikes, how does a baby fit into this?
Most of all I'm worried about how my other half is going to react, I can cope and I will deal, what's done is done and maybe there is a reason for this but I have a feeling it will be the end of the world for him and maybe our relationship as he will probably hate me or resent me and I can't force him to want something neither of us planned for.
I hope there is someone on here who has been through something similar, could really do with a bit of help.
Sorry for the biography, thanks - Nicola.
xxx
hope everything works out ok for you good luck speaking to your OH 
and congrats!
