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[sarah0108]

Totally agree with Jessie!

 

[Mellie1988]

Makes so much sense Jessie...

I feel awful I mean I'm confiding in you girls but i feel like I'm looking else where, I haven't cheated on OH but ive thought about it, which to me isn't right and it's not fair on OH.

I think he's gonna be gutted, but I can't force myself to love someone?

I'm not worried about being on my own, worried how I will cope with bills on my own tho and what will happen with the house, I think OH will get it and I will probably rent somewhere? Then theres furniture, who gets what?! Argh

I'm off tomorrow so gonna work out my finances etc.

 

[annawrigley]

Melissa

 

[Strawberrymum]

hope everything works out for you mellie

 

[Mii]

is it odd that the thought of myles being around guys makes me feel weird?

 

[Mellie1988]

He's gone and stayed at his mum and dads again tonight I really do think it's over for us.

I just need to work out how I'm going to afford it all, like I've seen properties that I could probably get, but u need a 1st month rent and a deposit....it's like £900 that I haven't or will ever have anytime soon, unless a family member helps me out I dunno.

Ugh it's raining really bad here don't like it! Think I will have grace sleep In my bed tonight!

X

 

[Mellie1988]

Well actually not even £900, more like £1000 bcause of admin fees....

Don't know if I would be able to afford to work and pay childcare, really need to asses everything!

 

[Mellie1988]

Well actually not even £900, more like £1000 bcause of admin fees....

Don't know if I would be able to afford to work and pay childcare, really need to asses everything!

 

[Mii]

Maybe a family member could help you out?
Its always worth asking.

 

[sarah0108]

Is it not worth OH moving out until you sort a place for you too live? Thats just added stress for you to deal with whilst sorting money x

 

[10.11.12]

Have you considered relationship counseling? it could be helpful to have an outside perspective.

 

[Mellie1988]

No OH is a stubborn get, he wouldn't change for anyone, he is set in his ways and no way would he goto relationship councilling.

Yeah I think he would probs to stay at his mums till we are sorted with what we are doing.

Got a works Xmas do coming up (we work together) that's gonna be awkward!!
X

 

[unconditional]

i guess i'll be joining you ladies

 

[Mii]

i guess i'll be joining you ladies

 

[lauram_92]

i guess i'll be joining you ladies

What happened?

 

[unconditional]

apparently drinking > us.

 

[Strawberrymum]

unconditional

 

[unconditional]

unconditional

thanks. i can't even believe it right now. so shocked.

 

[10.11.12]

 

[Leah_xx]