CrazyMumma
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So this is mine and DH's first together - we each have a daughter from a previous relationship.
We decided before we even conceived to stay Team Yellow - thinking that we would have 1-2 more after this one.
Unfortunately - my pelvis is not coping with the pregnancy, I was on crutches at 11 weeks, am now using an old lady walker and wheelchair. I cannot drive as my legs 'lock' and spasm. My left leg sits at least an inch shorter than it should be, and I am in pain 24/7. No way am I doing this again.
Therein lies my problem - ever since we realized this would be our last I have been stressing. I want a son. I want a brother for our girls and a son for my husband. If this one is a boy I will be content without having more - but if its a girl.....
I don't want to feel incomplete for the rest of our lives
We decided before we even conceived to stay Team Yellow - thinking that we would have 1-2 more after this one.
Unfortunately - my pelvis is not coping with the pregnancy, I was on crutches at 11 weeks, am now using an old lady walker and wheelchair. I cannot drive as my legs 'lock' and spasm. My left leg sits at least an inch shorter than it should be, and I am in pain 24/7. No way am I doing this again.
Therein lies my problem - ever since we realized this would be our last I have been stressing. I want a son. I want a brother for our girls and a son for my husband. If this one is a boy I will be content without having more - but if its a girl.....
I don't want to feel incomplete for the rest of our lives