Summer Peaches... going to be ripe in late July/early August!!

Oh brilliant on his eating so with you on the solids Abby was later but totally dropped her milk feeds once she got going on food and her reflux was so much better even though it was a mild case it's not the sort they grow out of just settles with solids but flares.

Hmm you watch that man but if your happy it's your choice.
 
Hello period...phewww!

I dont blame you stardust its obvious its whats best for him. As for your friend i woudnt fall ot with her. It was probably really hard for her to decide whether to tell you or not with you having a baby etc. If i was you would just tell her you really dont want her to bring it up in future. Glad alex is doing better :)
 
I agree with watch the man. But in case of your she may well have hoped one of them would have told you themselves. Plus you were pregnant/had a newborn. It's not exactly the best time to bring up something like that. My best friend cheated on her boyfriend who is also one of my best friends and everyone expected me to tell him. I wouldn't because I didn't want to be the one to break his heart. But she eventually told him. I told him why I didn't tell him and was there for him for the really rough few months he went through afterwards. I also have a friend who knew my boyfriend had cheated on me with a friend of mine and she waited a couple of weeks as she wanted them to tell me. She kept telling them to tell me but when they didn't she told me.

I think your friend was just trying to do what she thought was best and I don't think you should lose your friendship with her over it. After all she did tell you eventually didn't she?
 
Aw I'm glad you guys agree with me, loads of people have been putting doubts in my mind (well OH's friends really) saying she's a ****stirrer and just wanted to interfere in my relationship but gut feeling tells me she wasn't. I guess she did the right thing waiting a little, she knew I was struggling with A and I don't think I'd have coped at the time.

I will be careful with OH I still have doubts in my mind but we have over 4 years and 2 kids, I think I rushed letting him come home but can't exactly go back on it now.

A goes to bed at 6.45pm now it's bliss but he still wakes with reflux at 4-5am and I can't get him back to sleep, going to try giving him his meds in middle of night feed tonight instead of morning and see if it helps xx
 
Star big hug to you! Couldn't imagine doing what you doing ! But you doing brilliant and agree with the others on your friend! Not the easiest news to tell a friend is it?

Well done on A , can't believe he is nearly 16 weeks, where has this time flown ?? Remeber when we all just found out we where pregnant and telling people feels like yesterday!
And agree with others watch him lol make him work damn hard to win your trust back!!
 
Irma have you had comments on Nicole's ears just noticed your siggy
 
Hey ladies. Just thought I'd let you know the awesome news that OH is going back to work tomorrow. It's gonna be so strange not having him around all day but at least we won't just be scraping by anymore. So happy. Now just have to hope i'll be able to find a job to go to by the time February rolls around x
 
He's back doing what he was doing before. A different company has taken over the factory he worked at and he could've gone back months ago but he was scared he'd just be made redundant again. Well his old general manager called him today and said it's much better this time round. They're not paying ridiculous wages for things like working on a Sunday or working on a night and there is now a finish time so the money is more controlled. He's still nervous so he's still going to be looking for another job whilst he's there but he's getting really bored of being at home and he loved his old job so he's gonna go back whilst looking about for something else x
 
Awesome news congrats!


I'm panicking money wise :( as my energy bills last winter was through the roof as its a really cold house and cost a fortune so I gone and bought heaters instead so not to use gas and my bill last month was 150 quid :( as long as it stays that way I be ok but last year one month was 270 I never budgeted that much when planning for maternity leave :(
 
electric costs more than gas so 'd set the thermostat to 19 and put on jjumpers etc if you have old chimneys get them swept an have a proper fire oh and closed doors and curtains just before sunset
 
Good news KM :)
Our gas and electric are pre pay metre thank god and im into putting on more clothes before the heating goes on.

Ive got moody toddler this morning so trying to grt her to have a sleep before we go to asda... Although none of us have even started getting ready yet . Harveys 9.30-7.30 has reverted to 9.30-6 the last few days along with lots of daytime feeding so thinking hes having a little spurt
 
No our gas is more expensive landlord has flipping vintage boiler no thermostat or timers its either on or off,and on highest temp the house is not even warm we have reallyyyyy high ceilings :( chimneys are all sealed up :(

We have a really cold house for us it's ok just worry bought little one and kids so need to make sure the chill is out air the joys hey?
 
Has it been serviced Mo? might be worth seeing if he should have it updated if you get 5 mins. would be well worth it
 
It gets serviced every year but doubtful landlord will update it :(
 
My monkey has only just gone to sleep after going to bed at 8. So tired and have been feeling rotten all day. Looking forward to cuddling with OH in bed.
 
Was lego land good?
I've had a stressful day! Both babies were hard work Monday so never got to Asda then today had to wait in ALL day for my ipad to be delivered between 8 and 6 which never turned up so had to go to food shopping at 7 this evening have only just sat down after getting everything sorted and Harvey is feeding every 3 hours in the day so even harder to get everything done. My weekend social smoking has turned into one a day in the evening and today had 3 to de stess so need to cut back down now before it gets back to full on smoking everyday. Anyway Dpd have been sent an angry email and I've told them i want an hour delivery slot tmo as important not waiting in all day again. And breathe! Lol
 
Blimey you sound like its been hectic and it's only Tuesday!

George also still feeding every 2/3 hours and he is on 6 oz sometimes only 5 can't get him to drink more and he is on hungry milk !

How was Lego land would love to do something before winter kicks in proper!
 
Lily is feeding every 3 hours in the day on 7-9oz whatever she feels like lol. Luckily she's back to sleeping through but had a week where she wasn't after we put her in her own room x
 

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