Summer Sugar Babies! - Early July Due Dates

[Mrs W 11]

Good point about antibiotics. I am a crap liar so I need to be prepared or it'll show on my face!!

I have a big weekend with friends coming up so going to say i have a uti or tooth infection and on antibiotics so going to drive as an excuse not to drink!

I feel like everyone must suspect when I am sure its the last thing on anyone else mind ha ha.

 

[tryingfaith]

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Hello ladies...I have been busy working on my HW..UGH! Anyhow I just wanted to drop in and wish you all a Happy Halloween. Hop you all have a great night and lots of fun..be safe!!


Dahlia...wow....what a list!! you are so organized.

 

[HopefulxMommy]

HaHa you sound just like me! How very Virgo of you.

LOL!!!! I would be the same way I am just a little afraid of planning too far ahead on this one

 

[HopefulxMommy]

Everyone will tell you when you are in your early weeks of pregnancy you will be more tired than usual, well the fact that you cant have much caffeine doesn’t help (I am a caffeine addict and I feel like I am going to pass out right here at my desk…….)

 

[HisMissesCDY]

Okay ladies I have a question is anyone else experiencing really bad burping spells and unbelievable heartburn... this is my 4th but I just don't remember having it this early... and I LOVE the list Dahlia

-Ericka

 

[klsltsp]

Hey Ladies!! sorry it's been a while things are crazy!!

Congrats to the new ladies!!

Joey sorry about your doc apt... to me that's not cool, that's just my two cents worth.

Laura i can't believe how organized you are!! i'm still at the stage of not really wanting to jinx it once i have that u/s at 6/7 weeks and i see that heartbeat i'll feel a lot better.

i have an apt with my doc on wednesday pm. Any advice on what to ask? i'm going to ask for the referrel to the ob, the referral for the u/s, bloodwork to get my hcg levels..

How have you ladies been feeling? i've been still nauseous, most of the day, but no aversions to food as of yet so as long as i'm eating i'm good... LOL now i know how i gained over 100 lbs last time!! so i'm being careful of what i eat.

Also for me i've been going through a crazy stressful situation at work... my boss told me he's in love with me.. it got so bad today that i told him i was working from home for the rest of the week, and i'll be filing a sexual harassment grievance with the union... i don't need this stress right now!!! ahhhhh

Anyways hope everyone is feeling well and take care!!

Kim

 

[klsltsp]

Okay ladies I have a question is anyone else experiencing really bad burping spells and unbelievable heartburn... this is my 4th but I just don't remember having it this early... and I LOVE the list Dahlia

-Ericka

Hey Ericka, i laughed when i read this.. i have been noticeable burping funny lol

 

[Dahlia2007]

HaHa you sound just like me! How very Virgo of you.

LOL!!!! I would be the same way I am just a little afraid of planning too far ahead on this one

I wanted to make the list before I even got preggers! But I waited until I was ; )

 

[Dahlia2007]

Also for me i've been going through a crazy stressful situation at work... my boss told me he's in love with me.. it got so bad today that i told him i was working from home for the rest of the week, and i'll be filing a sexual harassment grievance with the union... i don't need this stress right now!!! ahhhhh

Anyways hope everyone is feeling well and take care!!

Kim

That's crazy, do you mind if I ask what type of place you work at? office, retail? And did you tell your partner? (forgive me, I forgot if you were married or not). That is a lot of stress, especially since it's your boss, who you work under. Not a good combo, he was very wrong to tell you that

 

[klsltsp]

Also for me i've been going through a crazy stressful situation at work... my boss told me he's in love with me.. it got so bad today that i told him i was working from home for the rest of the week, and i'll be filing a sexual harassment grievance with the union... i don't need this stress right now!!! ahhhhh

Anyways hope everyone is feeling well and take care!!

Kim

That's crazy, do you mind if I ask what type of place you work at? office, retail? And did you tell your partner? (forgive me, I forgot if you were married or not). That is a lot of stress, especially since it's your boss, who you work under. Not a good combo, he was very wrong to tell you that

Hey Laura

i'm an engineer.. i work for the federal government... so an office environment, my boss is a director... and haha nope not married but my bf has been great about this and very very supportive.. yup i wish he had just kept his mouth shut... crazy... it started about a month ago, i was hoping i could deal with it, but i can't. i told him that i need to report to someone else... anyways very crazy and it sucks.

 

[kgriffin]

wow kim thats terrible, sorry to hear you are going through that, nothing like being uncomfortable at work, good for sticking up for yourself though

 

[tryingfaith]

Hey Ladies!! sorry it's been a while things are crazy!!

Congrats to the new ladies!!

Joey sorry about your doc apt... to me that's not cool, that's just my two cents worth.

Laura i can't believe how organized you are!! i'm still at the stage of not really wanting to jinx it once i have that u/s at 6/7 weeks and i see that heartbeat i'll feel a lot better.

i have an apt with my doc on wednesday pm. Any advice on what to ask? i'm going to ask for the referrel to the ob, the referral for the u/s, bloodwork to get my hcg levels..

How have you ladies been feeling? i've been still nauseous, most of the day, but no aversions to food as of yet so as long as i'm eating i'm good... LOL now i know how i gained over 100 lbs last time!! so i'm being careful of what i eat.

Also for me i've been going through a crazy stressful situation at work... my boss told me he's in love with me.. it got so bad today that i told him i was working from home for the rest of the week, and i'll be filing a sexual harassment grievance with the union... i don't need this stress right now!!! ahhhhh

Anyways hope everyone is feeling well and take care!!

Kim

WOW!! That is not cool at all. How akward that must have been for you...No one should have to feel stressed out and uncomfortable at work....Im so sorry you had to deal with that I'm sending your way!!

 

[Mrs__P]

Wow, so much has gone on over the last day!! Took me a while to catch up.

Joey, that is really upsetting about your doctor!! Hopefully your next appointment will come round quick and everything will get going ok.

Laura, OMG what a list!! I really had no idea!! My cousin had a baby nearly 2 years ago and i'm hoping that I can get some 2nd hand bits and bobs off her.

Kim, I can't believe your situation!! Men are unbelievable. Don't get too stressed out!!

Erika, congrats on your and welcome!!

Becky, I am so confused re the tea thing!! I switched to decaf. My friend had decaf all through her pregnancy. I love diet coke too, shame I have to cut it out. But I dont think 1 glass every week or so would do any harm. Also, I have sweeteners in my tea.....are these ok???

As for the alcohol thing, I had my friends hen party this weekend just gone. I told them all I was on anti biotics so couldn't drink much. We had cocktail making in the afternoon during which I had half a champagne cocktail with lots of ice. When I made my cocktail I pretended to put alcohol in it but it was really just juice. And I had a glass of wine with lemonade during the meal. I had nothing else and I wasn't drunk. I bought cranberry juice later on and told them it had vodka in it. But once they were all drunk they didn't even notice I was sober!! It all went fine.

I'm not worried about having a couple of drinks. A glass of wine every few weeks will do no harm. Though once I have told everyone I won't drink at all.

Nic x

 

[klsltsp]

Thanks Ladies

yeah it sucks, especially because i'm in a male dominated field and work in a male dominated department, and i have worked very hard to get where i am and for him to jeopordize that just makes me mad! yesterday he sent me message and i was so mad i was shaking, it was right then and there that i decided that my little one was not worth dealing with him. i am normally very good with dealing with stress i just don't want to take any chances. The thing is i could move to another job any time.. but i loooove my job and why should i have to move... so he has to but it might take some time for that to happen. in the interim i am going to work from home a lot and take care of me and my little one!!!

Hope all you ladies are doing well!!!

Question for you guys, how are your DH/OH/BFs dealing with the baby coming? mine is a wreck lol he's so worried about everything... he's reading everything in sight and driving me crazy!! hahaha it's good that he's informed... but.... hahahaha

Kim

 

[joeybrooks]

Thanks Ladies

yeah it sucks, especially because i'm in a male dominated field and work in a male dominated department, and i have worked very hard to get where i am and for him to jeopordize that just makes me mad! yesterday he sent me message and i was so mad i was shaking, it was right then and there that i decided that my little one was not worth dealing with him. i am normally very good with dealing with stress i just don't want to take any chances. The thing is i could move to another job any time.. but i loooove my job and why should i have to move... so he has to but it might take some time for that to happen. in the interim i am going to work from home a lot and take care of me and my little one!!!

Hope all you ladies are doing well!!!

Question for you guys, how are your DH/OH/BFs dealing with the baby coming? mine is a wreck lol he's so worried about everything... he's reading everything in sight and driving me crazy!! hahaha it's good that he's informed... but.... hahahaha

Kim

I think mine is in denial. We had a chemical a few months ago and whilst we were only pregnant for all of 1 day (that we knew of) we were very excited and now I think he is just being very cautious of being excited.

I'll say, Man, I'm tired, and he'll say maybe it's because of.... (something non pregnancy related). I said that I felt a little sick, he said maybe it was something I ate. I said that I couldnt get enough of fruit juice, he said "I wonder why that is".

I know why he is doing it and I understand, so I am leaving him be, I know that once we get a bit furhter in, which I really hope we will, he will let his excitement show.

As for your work situation, I really feel for you. You have a very understanding and supportive OH, some guys would fly off the handle and that isnt the answer, I am glad he is behind you and I am also glad that you are taking steps to have this resolved. As you say, you have worked hard to get to where you are. You werent the one that acted inappropriately, so why should you be the one to jeopordise your career.

All the best xo.

 

[klsltsp]

haha Joey mine does that too.. i tell him i'm nauseous, he says i think you have the flu.. to be honest it makes me a little bit mad haha

i know he's worried and so am i.. but it's out of our control i keep telling him whatever will be will be so there's no point to stressing about something that we have no control over. All i can do is take care of myself and cross our fingers then hope for the best!!!

 

[joeybrooks]

Over this last few days I have started to think like that. I am scared of course, but there is no point in worrying, because that isnt going to help anything. I really do believe if it is meant to be it will and all I can do is hope that this is meant to be.

 

[Mrs__P]

My DH is really excited. I have had to explain a few things to him though. He didn't quite understand that I am 5 weeks, he was like but thats when you had your last period. Yes and!! lol. and we've already discussed how to tell our parents.

I just don't want to get too over excited before the 12 weeks but fact is that most of us go on to have healthy babies and there is no point in worrying over a what if. I'll deal with that if it happens.

I can't wait for him to ask about baby names. hehe. I already have mine in mind, it just means talking him round.

Nic x

 

[klsltsp]

haha Nic we had the whole "week" conversation too, he kept saying it's just wrong, i finally just said, this is how it is.. so you better just get on board!!

My OH is very excited.. he's alread talked to his boss and the hr department at his work... he can't hold it in!! hahaha i told him that i'm okay with him telling who ever he wants but that if something goes wrong then there's just more people he's going to have to explain too hahaha

i have my first doc apt tomorrow, i'll be getting a prescription for the nausea!! i don't need the meds yet, but i want them on hand since last time i needed them then entire pregnancy.

And names... funny you say that.. we discussed names months before we started TTC.. lol now he's saying he'll narrow down boy names to 4 -5 and me down to 4- 5 girls names and then we'll pick from there..

i also suggested that my OH find a daddy forum like this one.. and he did

 

[HopefulxMommy]

Thanks Ladies

yeah it sucks, especially because i'm in a male dominated field and work in a male dominated department, and i have worked very hard to get where i am and for him to jeopordize that just makes me mad! yesterday he sent me message and i was so mad i was shaking, it was right then and there that i decided that my little one was not worth dealing with him. i am normally very good with dealing with stress i just don't want to take any chances. The thing is i could move to another job any time.. but i loooove my job and why should i have to move... so he has to but it might take some time for that to happen. in the interim i am going to work from home a lot and take care of me and my little one!!!

Hope all you ladies are doing well!!!

Question for you guys, how are your DH/OH/BFs dealing with the baby coming? mine is a wreck lol he's so worried about everything... he's reading everything in sight and driving me crazy!! hahaha it's good that he's informed... but.... hahahaha

Kim

First of all WOW about your boss, you shouldn’t have to deal with that at all!!!! I work in a male dominant field too, so I know what you mean (I work in export/logistics). But I think its awesome that you are standing up for yourself! Some of these dominant males think they can say whatever they want and the women just let them! GOOD FOR YOU MAMA!!

My DH is trying not to get TOO excited I think as well, we have had 2 early miscarriages but now that Im 6 weeks along he is starting to get more comfortable about being excited. He wants to accompany me to all my doctor visits because he wants to be as involved as possible. He even sat behind the doctor during my exam when I was getting my Cervix checked because he is so interested in it all. Anytime I mention anything about being nauseous DH says “I thought that was to be expected?” or “didn’t you already know that was going to happen?” LOL!

xo
Jessica