Summer Sugar Babies! - Early July Due Dates

[Nitengale]

Biliboi2: wishing you the very best!

My appointment is not till Dec. 14th. Long ways to go.

Hope the rest of you ladies are doing well.

 

[Mrs__P]

Hi everyone!

I haven't been online for a few days!!

I hope everyone is doing well. Very excited to be the 'olive' week!! Its going fast now!!

Sad to hear of everyone suffering with the MS. I haven't been too bad. I do feel quite sick if I don't eat for a while though.

Snacking for the UK right now but i'm getting fat!!! I need some healthy snacks!!

And I think my scales are going to have to go in the bin else i'm going to get obsessed!!

20th December for my first scan!! 3 weeks today and counting.

Woop!!

Nic x

 

[biliboi2]

Well, the booking in I thought was going to last an hour, was only 25 mins. She just went through family history and filled in a form for me to have a scan. Said I should get one for next week.

 

[klsltsp]

hey ladies

Kate congrats on your bump i can't hide mine anymore.. oh well it is expected, i was in maternity clothes at 11 weeks with my son... haha

My next apt is Dec 7, it's our fist with the OBGYN, i'll be 9 wks +6 days, i hope he can get the heartbeat with the doppler

And i had to gush a little about my OH, he's amazing... and has been soo supportive, i feel like i'm very lucky

Okay hope everyone has a good day.

Kim

P.S. Kate any updates on your mom? has she had her surgery yet?

 

[Dahlia2007]

Well ladies, got my booking in appointment today. Will update you all later! I wonder if she will book my scan for this week, as by my dates I am 9 weeks on Thurs, but by their dates I am 13 + weeks.

that's quite a difference in dates!

 

[biliboi2]

Yes, I ovulated on cd48. Cant wait for scan to confirm dates now! Should have a letter through the post for a scan next week.

 

[kgriffin]

hhey kim, thanks for checking in, my mom still does not have a surgery date, but the surgeon said she cananot get her reconstruction for at least a year, so she is going to do the mastectomy first, hoping to get a date in the new year, it would be nice to have the cancer stuff behind us before the baby arrives,

 

[joeybrooks]

Hi all, been a while since I have posted, but I have been reading.

I had my booking appointment yesterday, it went well and I have my scan booked for 12 December.

I am feeling very strange at the minute. I am absolutely so happy and excited about being pregnant, then the next minute I am freaking out about all the changes there will be and worry if I'll be any good at it. I know it is probably just the hormones, but I feel so bad for feeling this way. I know I will love my baby when it is born, but it is hard to bond with it at the moment when it is making me feel so rubbish and so tired - am I a horrible person or is anyone else the same??

Hope everyone is doing well xo.

 

[kgriffin]

joey - i think we all have moments like this, not to worry.

i've gotta say, im not tyring to offend anyone or trying to cause any riffs, but rather trying to make this thread a bit better.

Does anyone notice that when one person posts, someone else will post and not comment or answer the question that a different poster asked? it all seems kind of superficial (obviously not referring to everyone!) but we are on here to support eachother, so please, let's all please do our part to support one another and respond to other posters, i know i have posted in the past and then the next person just goes on to talk about themselves and i think why am i even bothering posting on this thread anymore, again, not referring to everyone, and surely i cant be the only one who is noticing that.. if the thread continues in this way, i will have someone else take over as the original poster because i cant really be bothered.

please dont think this is all my hormones talking lol, i have been thinking of whether or not to even mention this for a few weeks now, anyways, just a thought.

in saying this, i want to thank Kim for being a huge support the last few weeks to me and i hope i can support you, and all of other girls on this thread the same way.

Kate

 

[Nitengale]

Joey: I definitely have those moments, I am having one right now. I just chalk it up to hormones and a big life change. That's enough to do it. Sending big

Kate: thank you for being honest. More support and responsiveness will make this thread even better. How are you doing?


I'm pretty tired, like really tired actually. I still have to wait till the 14th for my scan. It's taking forever. Last time around by this time I had already seen a sac and heard the hb. So I'm having to practive the virtue of patience.

Hope you ladies are doing well.

Elaine

 

[klsltsp]

Hello Ladies

Kate I think that's a great idea, and well said, I too had noticed. And you have been a great support to me too!!! BTW my mom was a "D" cup and had a single masectomy, she hasn't had a reconstruction, she has a prostesis (sp?) and I can't even tell which one it is!!!

Joey, I think what you're feeling is totally normal, I felt a lot like this with my first one, and even now I feel that way sometimes and this is my second. There are lots of big life changes and I think it's good to acknowledge these feelings, they're not wrong!! they're normal!!! the baby will come and you will have bonded, no need to worry and then you'll wonder why you worried and you'll also wonder how you ever managed without him/her.

Well I'm still feeling pretty sick, I'm taking the max morning sickness meds that I can and I am still pretty much sick all day every day.. oh well...

How are the ladies with sever sickness doing these days??

I'm sure this board will become a lot more active again once everyone starts getting their first scans done and such over the next few weeks

Take care ladies and chat soon!!

Kim

 

[kgriffin]

Elaine - I know it seems like forever waiting for your scan, but 15 more days!!! I will countdown with you!

Kim - im glad your mom's surgery has been so successful, my mom is a B or C cup, and like I said, its not about esthetics, so she just wants the damn thing gone so she can move on! She was thinking about the prosthetics as well, time will tell, one day at a time right? Sorry to hear you are still feeling sick, I am feeling sick at night mostly and just still soooooo exhausted, i hope this 12 week mark comes soon for all of us successfully!

Joy - still thinking of you, not sure if you read this thread anymore, but if you do, best wishes from all of us!

 

[Mrs__P]

Hi Ladies.

Kate, great post, I think we all needed a bit of a boost!! I really hope you get some good news for your mum before christmas so you can relax and enjoy.

Ladies with sickness.....i really feel for you guys!! I have had a couple of days when i've felt off but thats it. I think i'm one of the lucky ones!!

I have also noticed that my boobs have grown...brilliant!! haha, be nice if they'd stay afterwards. Also, if i push my lower abdomen I can now feel a hard part.....yay!!! Baby is on its way up and out hehe.

So.....scans....I thought i'd made a list of when everyones first scans/next appointments are. here is what I have so far:

Kgriffin (Kate) - 12 December
Joeybrooks - 12 December
Nitengale (Elaine) - 14 December
Mrs__P (Nic) - 20 December
Klsltsp (Kim) - 21 December

It will give us all something to look forward to!! Let me know of anymore and i'll add them on.

Nic x

 

[Mrs__P]

OOohhhh!! Also, its 7:30am and I am chomping on the remains of my pic and mix from the cinema last night....this is no good!! lol

Nic x

 

[mammaspath]

I've had two scans already so far so I assume I won't have one until the end of February.........Ill keep updating......

MS is still killing me! I was taking zofran but it made it worse so I am trying some herbal supplements now...........lordy lordy I cant wait for the second trimester!

 

[kgriffin]

nic - thanks for making the list, it will be nice to root each other on for our appts! I am so glad to hear of your tiny little bump, i have the same thing, cant beelive i can feel it at 9 weeks, its not noticible at all though lol, i guess another 10 weeks or so.

Can you ladies believe in another 9 weeks we will be able to have gender scans (for those of you choosing to do so!) i always say this pregnancy is crawling by, but really, we are at 9.5weeks, i want to be a 12 week plum!!

mammaspath - sorry your ms is so bad, hope you are feeling on the up and up very soon

my mom got a call this morning, she has a pre-op date on dec. 9th (woo!!) this will be with the plastic surgeon and operaating doctor for her mastectomy. They originally said she couldnt see the plastic surgeon for another 9 months or so, so im so glad they were able to at least set up a date to make a plan, hoping her surgery will happen in January, it will be nice for her to have peace of mind, but not have to go under before Christmas. thank you to all of you for your support through this, much appreciated

p.s. Is it friday yet

 

[Dahlia2007]

Yes Kate I see what you mean. I am probably guilty of it, there are a lot of people to keep up with on this board, but I will try harder. Sometimes it' just a genuine miss of a post.
(And in writing this I got you and Kim confused, for her mom has had the surgery ,and your mom is still waiting) I know like you said, it's important to just get the bad stuff out of the boob, and that right there is a wonderful progression!

All you MS sufferers, I just can't imagine! Especially if you have to work, or take care of other kids. I know you're waiting for 2nd tri to get here...

Joey, I had those feeling with my first as well. And here I am with my second feeling different again. But more feelings of guilt... like what is this new baby going to do to the relationship I have with my first child. I broke down crying the other night because I felt so terrible. Basically, I wanted this second baby FOR my daughter, so she would have someone to grow up with, so she wouldn't be lonely when older (and of course because I have always wanted 2 also). And it's strange the way it's playing with my mind. I only get that way when I dwell, so I try not to dwell and concentrate in the happy parts of being pregnant and expanding out family.

Nicola, I feel like my boobs have shrunk! Well initially, they were large and in charge, but now they seems to have gone back down (kind of scares me, b/c the tenderness isn't really there anymore). My scan won't be here til some time in February : (

 

[klsltsp]

nic thanks for the list!!!

mammaspath.. i feel your pain, i'm on diclectin.. it helps a little... but not much... hope we're both feeling better soon !!!

Kate great news for your mom!!! just so you know the recovery is physically pretty fast after a masectomy. My mom had it on a tuesday and went to a concert on the thursday!!! crazy.. for her it was the emotional that was hard, like your mom she just wanted the breast gone!! so it was unexpected for me and my sister when my mom woke up from surgery and couldn't stop crying, it was like the reality suddenly hit her..

Laura my boobs haven't been that tender either.. they are bigger and i keep telling my OH to enjoy them while he can!! haha since i`m normally an A cup

well i`m off for a nap i just had a really bad wave of nauseau.. yikes.. naps are what helps best!!!

 

[Mrs__P]

Amy, 2nd tri will soon be here. Lets just hope that will clear up your ms!!

Laura/Amy, February seems such along way off!! But without wishing time away it will come round fast as soon as christmas is over.

Kate, Gender scans!! OMG, scary thought. We're team yellow though so I guess it wont matter to me. Though I look forward to knowing whether everyone else's bump is pink or blue! Also, thats great news for your mom. FX'd for her. I agree after Christmas would be better but at least you'll hopefully have a date to go on. Stay positive.

Joey, everything will be fine and perfect as it should be. I think I am still sort of not believing I am preg. I think its just cause no one knows yet, I have hardly any symptoms and no bump. The time will come. hehe.

Well as we wish for friday (friday it is for me), I am off work tomorrow to go Christmas shopping and have a friends wedding on saturday. I don't tend to log on over the weekends so I hope everyone has a good one and catch up with you all next week when we will be 10 weeks!!!! (I cant remember what fruit it is, hmmm).

Nic xx

 

[Mrs W 11]

Nic it's prune next week!! I'm just on my phone but will be back later to reply to everyones posts x x