Summer Sugar Babies! - Early July Due Dates

[kgriffin]

i dont care boy or girl, if i move home to toronto, then a boy would be better financially because my nephew is 2 and i could use his old stuff, then again, they have a girl due in april, so i would only be a few months behind for girls stuff too.
im not showing at all, but my breasts feel fuller, but who knows!

 

[klsltsp]

Hmm.. boy or girl.. well I have a boy and I would love to have a little girl, and my bf would like a boy to carry on his family name, but also he's from a family of 5 boys so it would be nice for them to have a girl too... I told my bf that either way we'll be having one more after this to try for which ever sex we didn't have LOL. I soo want to find out the sex and my bf said he didn't want to... hmm.. I'm going to have to work on that!! here we have an u/s somewhere between 18- 20 weeks and that's when we could find out the sex.

As for showing, I would say not yet, but I'm feeling bloated... I was in maternity clothes at 12 weeks last time...

My breasts are definately fuller... I'm pretty small up there (34-A) hahaha so my bf is definately looking forward to that part hahaha I am finding myself a little emotional and he's not dealing with that so well... LOL oh well..

Kim

 

[Mrs__P]

Hi Gals!!

OMG I can't actually believe that I am in this forum now! hehe.

I'd love to join with you ladies!

Thanks for the invite Dahlia

My ticker says my due date is 30 June. But I think it will probs actually be early July once I have been to the Dr.

N x

 

[klsltsp]

Welcome Mrs_P!!!!

Glad you found us!! Congrats on your BFP, this thread has a great group of ladies!!

Kim

 

[biliboi2]

Ohh can I join? BFP today woohoo!

 

[joeybrooks]

Hi ladies, I really hope I am not jumping the gun here, but I'd love to join you too.

I had a chemical in August on my first month TTC and was totally devestated. I started TTC again right away, but a few things got in the way and I wasnt totally focussed on it.

However, having had some strange symptoms this past week I thought I would test and sure enough, I got a BFP. I am hoping so much that this is a sticky and healthy bean, but I am also terrified to get excited.

AF is only due this weekend so I am praying that she stays away, but the one thing I will say is that I am having way more symptoms this time than last time, so hopefully that is my wee bean sticking!

My due date will be 10 July 2012!!!

 

[klsltsp]

Ohh can I join? BFP today woohoo!

Woo hoo more ladies joining!! welcome biliboi2!!

Congrats on your BFP today!!!!

Kim

 

[klsltsp]

Hey Ladies

so you know how we're not suposed to be in hot tubs etc because of the temperature? what do you all think about the heated sets in the car? I love them I use them all summer long too but I haven't put them on since I found out I'm preggo.... What do you think?

Kim

 

[joeybrooks]

BTW I'm sooo excited to share the daily stuff with you guys.. there's only so much that my OH can handle LOL

So how did you guys tell your OHs/DHs? Mine had said he wanted to test and everything with me.. but he was so stressed about it that I decided not to.. instead I tested positive yesterday am.. then went and bought a onesie that says "Daddy and Me" then I met him for lunch and gave it to him. He was confused at first and then said well when we need it... and I just looked at him and he said... no way... about 100 times.. LOL it was amazing okay enough gushing for me LOL

After my chemical I just couldnt make a big deal out of it, we are both still so raw after the disappointment of that. So, I tested, I told him, he told me that it was great news and that we should wait a week or so before getting excited. He is very level-headed, I am the opposite, and I think that is why we make a great pair.

Love how you done it!

 

[klsltsp]

thank you so much Kim, i really needed that message right now.

the docs want to give her another lumpectomy, but she is opting for a double mastectomy, she is goign to speak with her main oncologist tomorrow and set something up. its just very stressful. And you're right, my mom is the same, she wouldnt want this to change anything, and would probably enjoy the distraction, but part of me feels like i would be taking something away from her, like i wouldnt be giving her time to deal with it or something, my head is in jumbles.
and unfortunantly i wont be able to go home for her surgery. i was just on holidays last week, Meico, hence the bfp!! I am out of time to take off and honestly, because of my last loss, im terrified to fly. I will figure something out if it comes to that though, if i have to drive 5 days to see her, i will. again, thank you.

It sounds like a double mastectomy is a good idea. My mom wanted that and they told her she just needed a single, but that if after a few months she wasn't sleeping because she was so worried it was in the other breast that they would remove it then. For my mom she was very okay with it, but after the surgery it was very hard, she got really upset about it which none of us expected. Now a year later she is cancer free!! because they took the whole breast she didn't need radiation or chemo, she's taking hormone therapy which is just a few pills every day.... very lucky.

What ever you decide I'm sure will be the right thing big hugs and we're here for you to lean on

Kim

 

[joeybrooks]

i tried that, but it would only let me edit the body of the email not the title!!!

i wish that i could be a SAHM, not that i am a mom yet lol, bu i will have to go back to work after my mat leave of 1 year.

I am sure someone has already said this in a later thread, but I am reading from the start through.

If you go to ADVANCED under the edit part, you can then change the title - I think.

 

[biliboi2]

Strange question, but how/when do you tell your GP? (UK) Do you have to make an appointment, or do you just phone to tell them?

Also, as my BFP was on cd 63, I bet if they send me for 12 week scan based on my last AF, it will be way before actual 12 weeks.

 

[Mrs__P]

Well I just spent a good 30 mins catching up on this thread.

I will just give you some more info. My name is Nicola. I am Dec 16th 84. This is my first pregnancy and I am from the UK.


Bili, I phoned my GP first thing this morning to make an apointment (it always takes forever). I am going on Thursday 3rd Nov. I haven't mentioned what the appointment is for but advice on the NHS website is to see a GP or midwife as soon as possible after you find out.

N x

 

[klsltsp]

Strange question, but how/when do you tell your GP? (UK) Do you have to make an appointment, or do you just phone to tell them?

Also, as my BFP was on cd 63, I bet if they send me for 12 week scan based on my last AF, it will be way before actual 12 weeks.

I don't know the answer to your question since I'm in Canada, but 63 days holly cow!! I don't know how you did it!! good job!!! but hey if you get an early scan? LOL I'll have one at 7 weeks ish, the heart beat starts beating normally around 6 weeks, so I'm hoping to check since that's when I'll be more relaxed.

 

[Dahlia2007]

Welcome Mrs_P and biliboi2 and joeybrooks!
We have so many stories here, some of us are first timers and some of us are on our 5th (mammaspath)!

Kim, I just used the heated seats today. It didn't get terribly hot, as I just dropped my DD off at preschool. But I would take caution for long periods of time when it's fully hot. But I'm really not sure

 

[biliboi2]

Well I just spent a good 30 mins catching up on this thread.

I will just give you some more info. My name is Nicola. I am Dec 16th 84. This is my first pregnancy and I am from the UK.


Bili, I phoned my GP first thing this morning to make an apointment (it always takes forever). I am going on Thursday 3rd Nov. I haven't mentioned what the appointment is for but advice on the NHS website is to see a GP or midwife as soon as possible after you find out.

N x

I have also been reading all this thread.

RE the GP, I was just going to sail along for a bit, but perhaps I should make an appointment. My GP surgery, you have to phone on the morning for an appointment - you can't book one for the future. Arghh I hate going to the doctors! Always feel like I'm wasting their time (which I always know logically I am not, cos I rarely go there!)

 

[kgriffin]

welcome new ladies, glad you have joined and congrats.

heated seats - i read if its less that 100 degrees its fine, so im sure you will be fine.

i woke up this morning to some pretty bad cramps, hope it doesnt mean anything.

i told my parents this morning! I said my family was expanding by 2 feet, my mom was confused but my dad got it pretty quick, glad i told them, so they can support me regardless of what happens. my mom needed the news forsure, so thanks for that advice kim. TGIF! Although i am working tomorrow to have some uninterrupted time at work to clear my desk of everything left for me last week (i was in mexico), hope everyone has a great day.

Kate

 

[Dahlia2007]

welcome new ladies, glad you have joined and congrats.

heated seats - i read if its less that 100 degrees its fine, so im sure you will be fine.

i woke up this morning to some pretty bad cramps, hope it doesnt mean anything.

i told my parents this morning! I said my family was expanding by 2 feet, my mom was confused but my dad got it pretty quick, glad i told them, so they can support me regardless of what happens. my mom needed the news forsure, so thanks for that advice kim. TGIF! Although i am working tomorrow to have some uninterrupted time at work to clear my desk of everything left for me last week (i was in mexico), hope everyone has a great day.

Kate

I like that idea! I think I will say that to my mom this morning, while we're hanging out with my daughter and little nephew. I really just wanted to blurt it out the night I told my DH when we came to pick up DD from their house. That way my step dad and mom would have heard the news at the same time. But oh well. I seem to have cramps more at night, and some bloat. And that burning I was talking about yesterday, "after I pee" is gone. Boobs are pretty sore in the mornings though.

 

[kgriffin]

my boobs are a bit sore this morning, i never know if i have the symptoms or im just making them up lol, but im sure this time. Nothing major, but some sensitivity forsure, first symptom, check!

Whats everyone up to today, glad you will tell your mom today Dahlia.

 

[joeybrooks]

I have just read through all of the threads, so thought I'd tell you a little bit about me.

My name is Joleen, both OH and I are 30 years old and this will be our first (we have been together for 13 years).

I am sorry for all of the ladies that have had loved ones affected by cancer, up until last month I never thought it was something that I would ever have to deal with, but mid september my mum was diagnosed with bowel cancer and had to have surgery to have it removed. It was quite a shock as she hadnt been sick or anything.

Fortunately she was in the very early stages and they were able to completely remove it and she does not need any further treatment. We feel so fortunate and blessed and I cant help but feel like the luckiest person in the world after getting my BFP aswell. October certainly has been a busy month. In fact, my LMP was on the day of mum's operation and I think I conceived around the time she got the results of the operation.

I hope that all of your loved ones have successful treatment/surgery and are able to move forward after this horrible disease.

I also hope we all have very happy and healthy 9 months!!!

I havent told my mum yet as I want to make sure AF is well and truly missed first, then Ill tell her. She is so excited about becoming a granny.