I wouldn't listen to her - if you read through her journal, she ignored what she KNEW to be a cancerous tumor for over 4 years, until it was over 40 lbs, because that made her feel better than having it out and risking a part of her fertility. Her last test was still elevated but she's ignoring that, too, because she doesn't like her oncologist. (I clicked into her journal by accident when the ads shifted my screen down, and I started off feeling sorry for her. Got to the recent entries and decided to steer clear. But with her taking that attitude with you...well.)
Even knowing, clinically, what the pain might be it, it's different when you're FEELING that pain for the first time. You wanted some emotional support while you worked out what it might mean and what you should do, and that's totally normal. It'll definitely help you with your patients from now on, so that's something, right?
I know that you'll seek medical help when needed, and I hope that you continue to come to the community for advice, support, and the general companionship of people who are going through it all right along with you. Hoping for healthy and happy rest of your pregnancy, Amy!