Support thread for all the atheist,agnostic,non-religious and secular humanist TTCers

[GingerPanda]

Oh, wow. I can't believe your insurance covers it! That's so great! Did they already do a SA for OH?

 

[pbl_ge]

Glad to hear your appointment went well, Sb!!!! And congrats to Hanibal!

 

[Sbmack]

Oh, wow. I can't believe your insurance covers it! That's so great! Did they already do a SA for OH?

He's going to do it Monday morning. I will get the results at my next appt. I am so happy to be getting some answers.

I hope everyone has a fabulous weekend! I have a birthday dinner tonight with my girlfriends and tomorrow DH and I are driving an hour to go to the most amazing sushi restaurant. Hopefully, I won't be able to have sushi soon!

Plb, how are you doing? Have you tested?

MMW, where are you in your cycle?

 

[pbl_ge]

Oh, wow. I can't believe your insurance covers it! That's so great! Did they already do a SA for OH?

He's going to do it Monday morning. I will get the results at my next appt. I am so happy to be getting some answers.

I hope everyone has a fabulous weekend! I have a birthday dinner tonight with my girlfriends and tomorrow DH and I are driving an hour to go to the most amazing sushi restaurant. Hopefully, I won't be able to have sushi soon!

Plb, how are you doing? Have you tested?

MMW, where are you in your cycle?

I haven't tested because I'm 99% positive I'm not pregnant. I just feel craptacular and PMSy. Just waiting for AF so we can try again, and hoping that I don't ovulate early next month when OH and I will be on different sides of the country.

Good luck with all your tests, Sb!!

 

[GingerPanda]

I created a little banner for our group, here!



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I also made one for the ladies who are already preggo:

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I am soooooooooo glad I finally figured out how to make code show up.

 

[hanibal766]

I created a little banner for our group, here!



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I am soooooooooo glad I finally figured out how to make code show up.

This is awesome, thanks GingerPanda!

As you can see I already have it in action!

 

[GingerPanda]

Glad you like it!

 

[pbl_ge]

The came early this month. Sigh.

 

[vietmamsie]

have to disagree, I loved dolls as a kid! I actually had all the historical American Girl Dolls, all 6 of them, plus all their beds and clothes and everything. They came out when I was a kid and were really neat back then. The ones they make now just look cheap.

Hanibal!!!! Congrats! Great news! Those lines look great!

 

[vietmamsie]

So things just got a little more interesting at my scan.

We saw a very healthy looking sac and yoke measuring at 4 weeks, 5 days. Basically if these dates are right, then it's immaculate conception... this cycle we were on a break, and we dtd the two days before O, the day of and the day after. We didn't dtd again until after I had gotten a positive hpt. I should have measured 5 weeks 4 days.

The doctor was moving the thing around and looked announced that the early dating could be due to twins! From one angle it looks like one sac, but from another angle it looks like two! It would make sense that the dating is measuring early if it's twins, but it would explain the low hcg tests I had at 18dpo. The doctor at first seemed sure it was twins, but then seemed to think it was a single pregnancy. My husband went white, I nearly passed out. Basically I'm going in next week for ANOTHER scan. We'll know more than. Whatever it is, she said it looks healthy. We just have to wait to find out more. I'm even more excited/nervous than before!

 

[tsyhanochka]

OMG Viet! Possibly twins. Either way healthy sac!!! That is very exciting.

Ginger thanks for the work. I'll add it to my signature when I'm on my comp again.

SB so glad the Dr was good and that you have a plan that works for you AND that your insurance clovers so much. Mine wouldn't have covered a thing so fertility drs were not an option. Anything our provincial health care covered for diagnostic reasons was as much as we could do. So we would know if we had a chance or should look at adoption .

HUGS ladies!!!

 

[vietmamsie]

Just a possibility. I'm still a little confused if there were two yoke sacs or two gestation sacs. It's all just so small, it's hard to see.

 

[tsyhanochka]

Well it all looks blurry to me. Even my 9wk scan that turned into 10wk....it was a blob with a flutter in the middle.

I'm clearly not the sentimental type. LOL

 

[Sbmack]

Wow, Viet so exciting. Glad e everything is going well.

How are all you pregnant heathens feeling? Any sickness or weird cravings yet?

 

[Sbmack]

The came early this month. Sigh.

So sorry Pbl!!

 

[Dragonfly]

So today I was told off by a Christian in a home schooling group on facebook. I asked an unrelated question about activities for kids and got told to bring them to church groups, I informed them that I was atheist and didnt go to church so clearly wasnt sending my children there as they have no religion either. Apparently making my children atheist isnt fair and I should let them have the choice. from a woman whos children she made Christian. Sigh. Little bit fed up with being treated like crap by certain religious people because of what I choose to raise my children by, while they do the same thing for their own but with God. I dont care who believes in what shame some wouldnt feel the same.Thats not the first time in home ed groups thats happened, maybe I will find one that hasnt so many judgemental Christians soon.

 

[tsyhanochka]

Yeah...." those" Christians bug me most. I thought there was a line in their bible about 'judge not lest ye be judged'.... but I'm a heathen what do I know.

DH and I discussed it. We won't hide religion from our kids and if they discover something on their own then we will let them go. But I'm not church shopping for the sake of exposure. Just answering questions honestly and openly.

Sucks you got treated like that. Silly jerk parents

 

[GingerPanda]

Yeah, I think we're just going to raise our kids and not really bring up religion other than to say different people personally believe different things, and that's okay. You can believe what you want. Mama doesn't believe it, and Daddy's neutral, but that doesn't mean you have to be.

 

[Skyler2014]

Yeah, unfortunately DF is a catholic...not a practicing one but he does believe. Ugh. So we will likely send them to Sunday school. I went to Sunday school when I was 10-12 and then I discovered science. Anyways, I've told him that if they don't want to go, they don't have to. I'm not hiding the fact that mommy's an atheist. I won't bring it up but if they ask I'm not lying just like I didn't lie to DF's bible-thumping little sister

 

[GingerPanda]

I used to have to go to Sunday School when I was visiting my grandmother. My parents never went to church, so I hated having to go. It was so BORING. And at a certain point, I was kind of like "Okay, so... You don't believe in the observable science of evolution... but a man in the stars making a woman out of the rib of a dude, then she gets duped by a talking snake into eating a magic apple, and thus screws the rest of the world forever is totally legit? Okay, I'm out."