Supporting each other until we all have our babies :) 2 wonderful babies born! !

[fuschia]

Laura just logged on. Im so sorry- that's so unfair

Such a horrid thing to happen and im thinking of you and hope that you get all the support you and amy need. We are here for you as you know xxxxxxx

 

[MolGold]

Oh My God! I just saw this.. I am so sorry Laura. No one deserves this, no one! I know the pain you went through... you and Amy both I hope you are little better now. RIP Squishy, you are loved by us all.

love and loads of hugs!

 

[Tmb0047]

Hello ladies!

4dpo here and not much going on.....

Laura - How are you doing today? Have you ever had your progesterone tested after so? Hope your pain has subsided physically....

 

[fuschia]

Laura - you were the 1st person I thought of this morning- I hope you are ok xxx

I am just waiting to ov... I think. Im being rubbish and not temping as having such broken sleep at the moment and opks don't appear to be telling much although I think this am did get darker but not pos so will do one soon. .. im having todrink though... because its so hot!!!! So maybe wee won't be concentrated enough

 

[laurac1988]

Hey ladies. Thankyou for all the kind wishes.
We're ok. Amy seems to be taking it harder than me, but I think because I am dealing with the physical side, the emotional side hasn't hit properly yet. I think the miscarriage itself is almost over. I'm not I'm pain any more, which is great. There is still bleeding, but it is getting lighter, I pray it's a complete miscarriage and no further action needs to be taken. I have a scan on Tuesday to check everything is gone.
We intend to start trying again this cycle providing I ovulate. Will just have to wait and see

 

[carlywarly]

Awwhh good luck hunny...glad that the pain has eased some. Hope you stop bleeding real soon! Good luck on Tues x

 

[carlywarly]

Hoping donor is free today or tomorrow!! Fingers crossed for this cycle ladies!

 

[fuschia]

Carly- I also got my positive opk today.

I think i have been a bit off the mark the last few months with thinking I definitely ov cd 16 or 17... I haven't had a true pos opk for 3 months ish and I was just thinking I may have missed the surge but now I think maybr I wasn't testing long enough. What with my period being late last month too... I think perhaps im Oving later! I've been so slack with temping too!

X x have you been able to arrange donation Carly? X

 

[MolGold]

Good luck with your timings ladies

Hope you are feeling better Laura. I hope Amy is better now. Read about your insensitive family and friends in your journal, I feel like grrrring at them .. Be strong!

AFM I was home alone today, and got the news of two of my friends getting their BFPs + my cousis sister delivered a healthy baby girl today. I am happy for them but, I couldn't help bawling my eyes out. Also, a rom-com movie marathon and POAS party (cd5 I know) since I didnt test at all last cycle, and it was a 1.5 day light period. And because I wanted to see those bloody BFNs. I basically had a minor breakdown, lol.

 

[carlywarly]

Carly- I also got my positive opk today.

I think i have been a bit off the mark the last few months with thinking I definitely ov cd 16 or 17... I haven't had a true pos opk for 3 months ish and I was just thinking I may have missed the surge but now I think maybr I wasn't testing long enough. What with my period being late last month too... I think perhaps im Oving later! I've been so slack with temping too!

X x have you been able to arrange donation Carly? X

Awww wonderful hun!! Get BDing!! lol Mega good luck wishes.

I arranged my donation for tomorrow morning FX all goes OK!

 

[carlywarly]

Good luck with your timings ladies

Hope you are feeling better Laura. I hope Amy is better now. Read about your insensitive family and friends in your journal, I feel like grrrring at them .. Be strong!

AFM I was home alone today, and got the news of two of my friends getting their BFPs + my cousis sister delivered a healthy baby girl today. I am happy for them but, I couldn't help bawling my eyes out. Also, a rom-com movie marathon and POAS party (cd5 I know) since I didnt test at all last cycle, and it was a 1.5 day light period. And because I wanted to see those bloody BFNs. I basically had a minor breakdown, lol.

Awww hun!! I know how you feel. My best mate just tested the other day (on a whim, didn't even feel pregnant) and got her bfp! She just realised her AF was late and there was the line lol. My heart sank a tiny bit - just cos I have been trying. But I am really so so happy for them both I think it's understandable though so don't beat yourself up about it k? Your time will come soon! Hopefully it'll be this cycle!! C'mon bfp

 

[fuschia]

Molgold my heart goes out to you sweet its so hard I know

It will happen for you though and alk of us and this experience you have had with struggling ttc will be a valuable experience which will make you appreciate your baby in so many more ways than you thought you could!

Im going to visit a friend today. .. found out she is pregnant. .. I think due in nov. She has 2 other children - the oldest being 3 months older than evie so she has hers very very close. Im not saying id want that but im trying to get all my jealous feelings out when im at home so when im there I can be genuinely happy for her!!

Oh and silver lining. .. maybe ill get a good sniff in!! You know after I was told preg ladies and new born babies give off some sort of smell that can help lol. She will think im nuts!

I have done another opk this am (cd19) and it's a blazing pos so that'd day 2. So glad I bothered or id think I was in tww now and would have given up on bding!! I just hope i am going to ov!! Xxx

 

[MolGold]

Thanks girls.. sorry you have to put up with my rants good luck with the donation Carly!

Emma yay for +opk also your baby smell joojoo cracks me up I'd be game to sniff a baby anyway with my clock ticking so bad, lol.

 

[carlywarly]

Good for you testing later Fuschia hun and hopefully that'll make all the difference now Enjoy a good baby sniff lol...maybe they should bottle it for those ttc haha

Thanks Mol hun!! He hasn't replied to my messages so far though about him coming this morning (omg no pun intended!! Haha). He said last night that he'd be fine to donate this morning but now it's this morning there's been no reply :'( Darnit xx Ps, you go ahead and rant!! That's what we're here for

 

[laurac1988]

Carly I hope he gets back to you
Mol I know how you feel
Emma I didn't really believe that was true but last month I spent the day with my god daughter then ovulated a whole week early... Hmmmm. Coincidence?

AFM. Just meh.

 

[fuschia]

Hi girls -

Laura hope your ok and you and amy are working through this and supporting each other well. Must be such a difficult time and always on your mind the thing about the sniffing was told to me by a eork colleague. She had fertility issues and was told by a fertility specialist to spend time with preg ladies and babies under 6 months! !

Carly- has donor got in touch yet?

I have done an early afternoon test which is still positive so will do 1 this eve.

This is the 1st cycle in 6 months I have not had reflexology and im wondering if that could have something to do with me oving later xxx my reflexologist ( and friend) has had ivf so took a while off. I have my fingers and toes crossed for her! Xx

 

[Tmb0047]

Hello everyone

Laura - Hope you are feeling better. I think I read you plan to try this cycle? That's was I did. I'm in my first TWW post mmc. Hope we both get our rainbows soon

Carly - Did donor *come* yet?!?! Bahahaha....

Emma - Hope your test lightens up tonight and you O in the next 24 or so hours. Get your bd on tonight and tomorrow morning!

Molgold - We don't mind your rants at all! We all come here to vent...we are all here for each other!

AFM - 7dpo today. I am trying to wait to 14dpo and plan to test with DH. When my cheapies arrive in the mail I've asked him to hide then from me (he knows there are 5!). I've got a busy week ahead. We are headed to the city today, I have job interviews on Tuesday and Thursday (same place but different positions).....so I think I'm good until Friday anyway....

 

[fuschia]

Thanks tmb.... is it only when opk is negative again that ovulation has started? Or do you only get a negative opk once ovulation done and dusted. Because the egg pops out and hangs around for a while doesn't it !

Ive never really completely understood!

 

[carlywarly]

Hey ladies Had my insem about 2pm so fingers crossed! Around 5pm I got the worst OV pain ever (I usually have ov pain but this was quite painful for a few mins). I know it doesn't mean anything fertility wise though. I just peed and did an OPK - was negative. (Was pos this morning but didn't test when I peed just after donation). Just hope I haven't left it too late :/ lol

Fuschia good luck with the OPK's I am sure your timing is prefecto though!! I'm not sure when the OPK goes neg either.

Tmb you are sooo good!! lol...I got my positive with Isaac at 7dpo...just saying hahahaha!!! Nah good for you holding out! I'm still gonna be crazy poas fanatical though!! lol. Really hope you get your rainbow this cycle hun. Good luck with the interviews too!!

Laura hope the bleeding has stopped hun (or about to!) Good luck to you when you TTC again. Hope your cycles return to normal real soon.

Mol, hope you're doing OK hun

 

[laurac1988]

All very exciting in here. Good luck everyone. X

I'm not sure whether we will try this cycle to be honest. We'll see how it goes