Well.. to all you hopefuls - it happens - I'm proof! Positive test yesterday - more darker positive lines today!!!!
Things I did:
1) Instead cup inserted at 15-20 mins after (new this month)
2) PreSeed (not new - but more consistent and mostly used in and around the cup)
3) Bd'd every other day day 10-16 (we have done that but not that specific before.. more like 2 or 3 days in a mix of ways)
4) went off my anti histamine starting at last period and only took benydryl when it was really bad (I'm on shots so I had to take one dose to get my shots) (new to an extent)
5) lots of water
6) Pre Natel (going on 12 months)
7) DH upped his water
8) DH reduced his caffinee (new)
9) DH on vitamin (2 months)
10) DH reduced alcohol intake (new)
We also "spiced" up the sex life on the day I think we conceived.. there is something to this and I recommend you find a way to really want to have sex...