Team NMA -but pregnant!-

[chocci]

Bollox missAma, I have been moaning and swearing my little head off..........i even nearly got banned as you know for spamming the forum with my petition PMSL!!! Its Fking snowing again and i have a mate coming over tonight with her little lad and we are worried we may get snowed in for days!!!

crap day to all!

 

[CareBear]

I've got something new to moan about!! My stupid body now bloats so bad I look 3 or 4 months pregnant FFS! Has gone down a bit this morning but still look like I have a baby bump and I should not look like that until there is a baby in there! Plus I tested this morning for the first time in god knows how long and the stupid test was a dud and didn't even come up with a control line stupid stupid stupid, and ........... its still snowing arghhhhhhhhhhhh

 

[sparkle83]

can I come and join you? I'm very negative, I promise

I'm sick to death of this sodding snow, and yet work wont send us home even though its dangerously icy, and I wouldnt mind tomorrow off. Also pissed off with these crappy ovaries, and I'm now fairly sure I havent had a natural AF since '06 So no chance of ovulating any time soon, and now seem to have thrush for the first time ever, so we've only done it once this cycle, and that was right at the beginning! stupid lady parts!

 

[BabyChristie]

Crap day. Angry rant alert.

<Rant begins > At hospital first thing for day 5 scan for our first IUI and they were short-staffed. So I had to wait for 45 mins down the corridor for a scan in the Ultrasound unit. Perfect. Three quarters of an hour surrounded by dozens of pregnant women and their partners and their other screaming offspring because of course they aren't just pregnant with one, but have a whole tribe already. Crys of 'OOoh, what do you think we are having my love?' and 'Oooh look at my lovely ultrasound scan picture of my little baby' and everyone clutching their Bounty pregnancy packs did not help ONE BIT. I was practically hysterical by the time they called me and the nurse had to spend 5 mins calming me down with a box of tissues before she could scan me. She did apologise that I was forced to go down there, but that didn't help much.

And then.... They say I have a 1.3 cm follicle already and a 6 mm (?) womb lining which is odd. They wondered if they should abandon the cycle as it might make it hard to see which follicles are growing as they suspect this is just an old follicle from last cycle, but can't be sure. Decided to proceed anyway and have had first injection. Back on Friday for a scan to see how things are going. What's the betting that they are still confused, can't tell if I have a new follicle or not and then abandon the cycle anyway. Humph. < Rant ends >

Don't ya just love LTTTC.

 

[sparkle83]

babychristie: what a bunch of insensitive tossers!

Btw, what the fuck is with the whole 'omg if you buy anything baby related you wont get pregnant or will miscarry!'? I had nothing for a year, didnt get pregant. picked up a few things cheap, and had a fair bit each time I got pg. Since getting rid of it all (moved house), I now havent been pg since! So why do people still tell me this?!

 

[CareBear]

babychristie: what a bunch of insensitive tossers!

Btw, what the fuck is with the whole 'omg if you buy anything baby related you wont get pregnant or will miscarry!'? I had nothing for a year, didnt get pregant. picked up a few things cheap, and had a fair bit each time I got pg. Since getting rid of it all (moved house), I now havent been pg since! So why do people still tell me this?!

Its a luck thing I think, I won't buy anything baby related until I have a scan at 8 weeks telling me its a viable pregnancy and they see a heart beat. I have one book which also discussing TTC and thats it.

 

[chocci]

Jeeeezzzuuussss, i just remembered my sister gave me all her old baby stuff and its in the loft hahahahaha.........I really MUST be cursed, off to go burn the whole bloody lot haha

 

[muncho]

Hi can i join??? My PMA has gone on a permanent holiday - since i cant go , i thought i could join here.

im fed up with peopel giving birth, last week it was my SIL , last night mu cousin gave birth . Im fed up and seriuosly feel like i need to be on suicide watch.

I feel guilty for eating chocolate today, as trying to eat good food ready to start IVF injections next week. So even when Im F****D i cant comfort eat!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Cant wait to get my life back....

 

[BabyChristie]

Hey muncho. I would say its nice to see you on here, but of course its not - couldn't give a flying x@*# as that's what this thread is all about. Eat as much chocolate as you like - won't make any difference anyway. Might as well be happy in one way. Sorry

 

[HoneyWright]

Hi Ladies, ive popped into the dark side from the sparkly PMA department to have a bit of rant, i would say hope you dont mind but i dont really care and lets face it of course you will!!

Im on weightwatchers at the mo and doing this with my friend who has a 5 month old and wants to loose the baby weight. Ive generally lost a bit more than her each week as im much heavier than her and seemed to have scared my fat a bit more than her. Over Christmas i let myself be a bit naughty on christmas day, boxing day and NYE. Apart from that i was not doing to bad, although i was not tracking points. Went back after a 3 week christmas break to ww and my friend was worried as she had been really naughty, loads of cheese and chocolate and even a few sneaky mcdonalds. When we got weighed i had lost 2lbs and she had lost 1lb. where the F**K is the justice in that, not only did she get to eat what ever she damned well pleased but she is at ww so she can look even better with her perfect little baby, im the one who needs the weightloss to actually have a life!!!!!!!!

Rant over, wow that felt good!!!

 

[MissAma]

*Gives Miss_Ama her most heartfelt thanks for setting this place up as this is the only suitable BnB place today*

I'm sodding miscarrying. Brilliant stuff.

And to cheer me up, someone sent me this:

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/...e-spent-25-years-100-000-trying-conceive.html

HOW IS THAT HOPE GIVING?!?! That's bloody insulting to think I would be encouraged by the story of obsessed idiots trying 17 times!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

/Over and out

 

[CareBear]

Sorry you're miscarrying MissAma I wondered if that was why you hadn't been around for a few days. Its CD1 for me to today and I'm cramping blah

 

[puppymom32]

Love this place. I mean hate this place. Absolutely no PMA left here. I cant even afford to get IVF so I am just stuck in limbo forever. What a sucky day. I will be gettin really tipsey this weekend especially because I will be 33 on monday. Oh Joy another year and no baby.

 

[honeyz]

 

[Blue12]

I am a fan of this NMA club - it seems to be the only place I belong.
Lost the will and pma to hardly post on bnb.

Dealing with my brother having a baby just days ago
Come home tonight to my one dog having his eye problem reocurring - requiring a couple thousand dollars of surgery - at this rate maybe my dog and I will be fricking having surgery together (not that I can afford another day off) and not that I can afford his surgery when I can hardly afford ivf which was already going to be paid through line of credit.
And I gotta agree a lot of other shite situations here for everyone grrrrrrrr.

Thanks for letting me stop by.

 

[peartree]

Friend came down to visit me this weekend with her 3 month old. I'm so happy for her because she had a hard time ttc too. Woken up this morning by gurgles. Both DH and I looked at each other and it renewed our pain.

As if that wasn't enough, another of our friends realised that she was visiting, and thought it'd be good to drop by with her baby too, who is 7 days younger.

Two babies happily gurgling side by side in my living room this afternoon

Love them, but can do without the cute at the moment.

 

[Sabine]

Hi girls, I LOVE this thread. Tired of being chirpy and positive etc.

I went for my first fertility appointment today and the specialist was HEAVILY PREGNANT.
then she asked me: 'Why are you crying? Besides for the fact you're not pregnant!?' and then LAUGHS at her own little joke. He He He. Funny. Not.

Then, she apologises for being pregnant - it makes her very uncomfortable you know (Boo hoo for you. No seriously, I think I shed a small tear for how sorry for you I feel)

 

[chocci]

OMG Sabine, did you swing your right arm round in circles to build up power for an extra hard punch??? If not go back tomorrow and kick her in the shins for being such a smug insensitive cow!! lol

 

[peartree]

I'm really surprised I haven't come across the headline 'FS kicked in for being smug cow' in the past coupla days. Sabine, hat off to you for being so composed.

 

[HoneyWright]

OMG I cant actually believe that a FS is OK being heavily pregnant while helping people get pregnant, and also that she thinks its OK to joke about you not being pregnant. Im gobsmaked and im quite sure that if i wrote what I want to call her my post would be deleted.