I absolutely believe it. I was brought into the world very, very violently. Actually, Iwas born dead. My mother's entire pregnancy she hemmoraged. My mother was in a very sick place mentally, no doubt that is why.
Then when I was pregnant with Ramsay for months and months on end, on the 25th of every month, I would be in hospital freaking out with pains. Just random. And every single time things were fine, I was just getting anxiety. My midwife noticed the pattern an asked me if anything traumatic happened to me on the 25th. I didn't know, so I asked my mother. She told me that was the day she went into labour and my father nearly died of a car crash that night as well. If my father had died, I would never have been sexually abused. If my father hadn't been in the car accident, my mother would never have gotten back together with him (they were broken up until the accident, my mother is a christian and felt it was a sign of god that he lived and the accident happened the moment her water broke, basically). I was born on the 26th.
I do NOT believe this is coincidence. I am a pretty skeptical person. But this, I cannot ignore.
I believe in good and bad energies. What you put into a child, you will recieve back. If you do not live mindfully, if you do not care for your child mindfully, they will not be mindful. If you do not connect with your infant, they will not connect to you. If you are violent, so will be your child. I do not believe in chaos.