I should add that babies are prone to rejecting you after their needs have not been met in a certain area. Example being mothers who let their babies cry it out - their baby will eventually stop crying. Why? Not because they can suddenly empathize with their mothers, but because they know that no one will come. That is a HUGE barrier you are putting up between you and your child. That is planting early seeds of social isolation.
If instead of holding your child when they need to go to sleep, but lay them down alone, they will slowly but surely reject you physically. Squirming, screaming, crying.
Falko is very easy and even tempered. He turns into a floppy, happy bundle the minute a carrier comes out. He does not squirm unless he is over tired, but he trusts me - and that is why he loves to be worn. I will contine to wear him until he is old enough to walk alone.
THAT is what natural parenting is about. Doing as nature intended. Rejecting the modern ways of parenting that create the millions of isolated, angry, jealous, people with zero self worth. The angry mob of people who never achieve what they are deserving, because they were never given a fair chance. It is unacceptable in my eyes. We breed sheep. We even offer them plastic tits to suckle. We defy our nature.
