The BFP Before The 'Would Of Been' Due Date Thread - Any Joiners?

[carebear1981]

Lomelly- i got tired of waiting and ordered them at chapters online all 3 they were 10 bucks each and free shipping when you spend over 25 bucks. Just have to make sure to change the shipping option to free ship. I pulled an all-nighter reading book one. Still not sure how i feel about them but i couldnt put it down. If you need something dirty to read, this is definitely the series.

Everything crossed for u ttcbaby!! Hope this is ur month

Awesome scan sam!

Congrats keepthefaith! H + H 9 months!

 

[B&LsMom]

I had a significant temp drop this morning and I'm HOPING and PRAYING that it's the infamous implantation dip which happens b/w 7-10 dpo...I'm 9 dpo today...no spotting yet though. I'm hoping it jumps back up tomorrow. Please God...my angel baby would have been due next Friday the 15th and I'm trying not to dread the day but I totally do as I'm also due to get that day. Ugh...please pray for me that I get my this cycle and if not, pray that I only cry for a day or two and then pick myself back up and move on to cycle #5. Thanks all you lovely ladies. You're the best.

Can you think of any reason why it could have been such a drop?? Wake up early? Sleep with the covers off?? Rainy day out?? Read the thermy wrong??

I don't know...i was up way later than normal last night bowling with friends, had 2 beers throughout night...but did get my 3 hours of uninterrupted sleep before temping like normal...no clue! Do you??? The thermy was right..i read it twice to be sure. Uh oh...you sound like this is not a good thing.

Its just such a HUGE drop since you were sailing high then today's was even below coverline. My BFP cycle's chart was super weird temp wise so I'm proof to my self that even the unusual cycles can result in the ultimate prize of a BFP rather then AF. Fingers crossed for you hun!!

 

[redmonkeysock]

Hi ladies, been reading for the past two days and finally read through all the posts

Hoping I can join please, I had a MMC at 9+2, baby had stopped developing at 6+6, ERPC was on 25th April and my due date should have been 26th November 2012. Massively hoping for a BFP by then otherwise I fear for my own sanity!

Have been posting on a SMEP thread as I've craftily done it this month without OH knowing as he didnt like the idea of planning too much other than using the clearblue fertility monitor and now in the horrendous two week wait

Got a lot of BDing done during the "right" time and as this is my first cycle since the MC I'm really hoping we have caught the eggy!

Congrats on all the BFPs and just wanted to say how much hope threads like this give me when I see the tickers and success stories.

Lou xx

 

[B&LsMom]

Welcome Lou!! SMEP is a great plan to follow--I hope it was successful for you!!

 

[carebear1981]

Welcome Lou! So sorry for your loss FX for you that you caught that eggy and that the tww doesn't feel too long!

 

[samj732]

Have been posting on a SMEP thread as I've craftily done it this month without OH knowing as he didnt like the idea of planning too much other than using the clearblue fertility monitor and now in the horrendous two week wait

I did SMEP the month I got my BFP. Good luck! The TWW sucks, I don't envy you at all.

carebear, I'm so glad you somewhat enjoyed the book! I'm ready to read them all over again

 

[Kmae]

:wave:

Hi ladies, been reading for the past two days and finally read through all the posts

Hoping I can join please, I had a MMC at 9+2, baby had stopped developing at 6+6, ERPC was on 25th April and my due date should have been 26th November 2012. Massively hoping for a BFP by then otherwise I fear for my own sanity!

Have been posting on a SMEP thread as I've craftily done it this month without OH knowing as he didnt like the idea of planning too much other than using the clearblue fertility monitor and now in the horrendous two week wait

Got a lot of BDing done during the "right" time and as this is my first cycle since the MC I'm really hoping we have caught the eggy!

Congrats on all the BFPs and just wanted to say how much hope threads like this give me when I see the tickers and success stories.

Lou xx

:wave: Welcome! I'm doing SMEP this month too! Really hope it does the trick

 

[redmonkeysock]

Hi all thanks for the welcome

I'm desperate to read the fifty shades trilogy I've heard it's very racy! Might download them to my iPad later ;-)

Well this month was only semi SMEP so here's what happened(apologies to any ladies on this thread who are also on the SMEP thread as its the same thing I've posted there. Just want some opinions please

as I mentioned before we did the semi SMEP this month but now I'm panicking that it is not enough since we missed out a night DH doesn't know we are SMEPping as he thought it sounded a bit clinical so here's what happened:


AF stopped on 27th April
OV came early (earlier than any of my cycles pre MC) on CD 11. We got medium readings on the CBFM on

CD 7-CD 9

Then peak on CBFM on

CD 10
CD 11

Then back to medium on CBFM on CD 12

And back to low on CD 13

We BD'd on:
CD 3
CD 5
CD 7
CD 10
CD 11
CD 12

Now that is a lot of BD *around* the right time but I'm freaking out because we missed BD on CD 9....I know I'm worrying about nothing....probably.

Urgh!

THIS IS THE TORTURE OF THE TWW!!!!

Also, because I O'd earlier than normal (used to O on CD 15) does my test date/AF become 14 days from O day or 28 days from my last bleed?

I feel like a stupid naive teenager when it comes to this stuff I'm frickin clueless!!

Thanks in advance

 

[xxxjessxxx]

Welcome Redmonkeysock, so sorry for your loss.
It's great to see you know a few ladies here already - I hope you find comfort in this thread... and a BFP!! xx

 

[MissMummyMoo]

Think I might have to have a look at this SMEP! Fingers crossed for everyone!!

Redsock I'm sorry for your loss, fingers crossed you get your soon x

 

[B&LsMom]

Lou I would say you did all that you could do and it doesn't help to stress about it now since you can't go back in time. Are you doing anything else to confirm Ov--temping, CM monitoring??

 

[ttcbabyisom]

10 dpo; My temps are a little confusing too. Praying, praying, praying. I'll test again Tuesday at 12 dpo.

 

[redmonkeysock]

Lou I would say you did all that you could do and it doesn't help to stress about it now since you can't go back in time. Are you doing anything else to confirm Ov--temping, CM monitoring??

Thanks for the reply. You're absolutely right I'm just a little ball of stress at the moment! Really don't want it to take as long as it did last time to conceive

With regards to CM etc I'm not really sure, CM seemed like what I see "fertile" CM being described as but to be honest I'm not really too clued up on the whole thing! Must try harder lol! I know I O'd as I made sure to cover all bases- used the Clearblue fertility monitor, OPK sticks AND Clearblue digital ha!

Lou x

 

[redmonkeysock]

10 dpo; My temps are a little confusing too. Praying, praying, praying. I'll test again Tuesday at 12 dpo.

Try not to worry too much Hun, with my angel baby I got a BFP at 10dpo BUT, the specialist that I saw said that it was verrrrry unusual to get a decent positive that early on plus my pregnancy started out as a twin pregnancy which he said would have helped get a BFP earlier.

You're not out yet!

 

[stephanie1990]

Sam - thanks hunny. It's different, at first I wasn't sure about it, and OH hated it. But we suddenly just clicked and loved it lol xx

Stephanie - pffh men, who needs them ey!!
Haha you so need to photo it!! haha
so is everything offically got and ready for Ella? xx

xxxjessxxx - Lol i will. Yep everything is ready really, hospital bag is packed, i swear it looks like im staying in the hospital for a week the things iv packed but i cant help it
12 days and im freaking out, i can still remember being 6 weeks pregnant and panicking about every little thing. It has gone sooooo fast. its been a very long journey, hard at times, depressing at times but knowing that its really going to happen within 12 days makes me emotional xxx

 

[xxxjessxxx]

Nawww stephanie - that made me all teary!! That's so sweet.
It's crazy, because I remember talking when we'd been through our miscarriages and now, to see you right just nearing the beginning of your journey to motherhood is amazing. So happy for you sweety I truly am! Still in shock I'll be there too! xx

 

[hope2bmum2b]

can i still join i know this thread was started last year.
i had a mc in december 2011 at 9 weeks, but the baby was only 5 weeks old. and we have been TTC since april 2012. my due date is june29th 2012..and on another site i have just been reminded that i should be 37weeks and 2 days. my af for this month was due yesterday but have had bfn this morning and 3 days late last month but also a bfn.
id love to be preganant again now but i just wasnt mentally ready for about 3months after the mc.

 

[xxxjessxxx]

Welcome hope2bmum2b - there's always time to join!
Im so sorry for your loss hunny, I hope you find this thread a great help!! xx

 

[nesSAH]

stephanie1990: Aww! So excited for you. All the best and keep us posted

hope2bmum2b: Welcome again and sorry for your loss. There is a great group of ladies on this board, so you will feel the support.


ttcbabyisom: it's not over yet. Pray stays away! Keep us posted hun

 

[B&LsMom]

Lou I would say you did all that you could do and it doesn't help to stress about it now since you can't go back in time. Are you doing anything else to confirm Ov--temping, CM monitoring??

Thanks for the reply. You're absolutely right I'm just a little ball of stress at the moment! Really don't want it to take as long as it did last time to conceive

With regards to CM etc I'm not really sure, CM seemed like what I see "fertile" CM being described as but to be honest I'm not really too clued up on the whole thing! Must try harder lol! I know I O'd as I made sure to cover all bases- used the Clearblue fertility monitor, OPK sticks AND Clearblue digital ha!

Lou x

What CD did you get the smiley with the clearblue digi??? How long did it take you to conceive last time??