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mummyblues - your impending :bfp: is of a much nicer nature :)
I have my fingers crossed for you!!!! fxfxfx

As for me, I had my scan today (belly, not TV for once) and the tissue is still there. DH had a look this time (he refuses to watch me have a transvaginal so it was the first time for him) and was impressed by how visible the calcified piece was.
The op is booked for Monday evening unless something happens before. I have my consultant's phone number and am to call him straight away if I start heavy bleeding, day or night he says... Hmmmm

"Tissue, you have four days to make your appearance or someone's coming to get you!" :grr:
 
Im imagining that piece of tissue and willing it to move out of its position and show its self. I guess they will use a camera this time so they make sure they get it?

2 weeks after D and C im bleeding still,. it had virtually stopped and then came back, like a period but heavier, no clots, period pains doctor reckons it could be a period, im not so sure. Will see her on monday and she will tell me what hcg is and we can go from there. Bleeding for 3 months you would think I was aneamic (sp) but im not.

:hugs: to all who are havin "Complicated Miscarriages"......(as the doctors say)
 
Haha, Bluesky, we really are a pair!

I so hope it's just your period now with possibly bits of debry mixed in :hugs:

Yes, this time he's using a hysteroscope (?) and some kind of tiny forceps to grab the piece of tissue, if I understand it correctly. He's also got ultrasound and a second specialist on standby. He's even hoping to take some pictures :shock: "say cheese, tenacious tissue"
 
Hi ladies,

sorry I've not been around much, my lovely oh took me away on holiday for a few days.

petitpas, I hope everything goes well on monday xxx

bluesky, I really do hope you stop bleeding soon! xxx

after my bleeding drama 2 weeks ago I'm still bleeding, really heavy, big clots and feeling so tired all the time, I'm going back to docs on monday for more advice, I cant go on like this, nearly passed out again whilst in France, this time I'm demanding a scan to see whats going on, :wacko:

take care ladies, I so hope this is over soon for us all :hugs:

xmagsx
 
Maggsy, by the sounds of it, you may still have something left in there, too!
Please don't let them fob you off without a scan and maybe ask for a full blood count to check whether you're becoming anaemic!
Nice to know you had a good time in France amidst all of this, although I am totally with you on the clots and not knowing when it can strike you :grr:
Your OH sounds like a treat taking care of you so well :hugs:
 
Petitpas - hope you get on ok tomo, lots of :hugs: will be thinking of u. So glad they are going to do the op with extra care so u know it will all be over this time tomo evening :hugs:

Glad u had a lovely hols Maggsy, Sorry to hear your still bleeding too.

I dont want to think of anyone else suffering like I am but Im glad I hav other people to talk with who are going through the same experience, I dont feel such a freak.....

Love to all x
 
Bluesky, you have no idea how happy I am to have 'found' you for exactly the same reason! :friends: I wouldn't want to wish this on anyone but knowing I'm not the only one makes it a little easier to bear. What is the latest with you?

It certainly does feel a bit freaky that the miscarriage has taken longer than the actual pregnancy. I've been miscarrying so long now that my sister started to ttc and is now 12 weeks along!!!!
 
Its Crazy, Yeah we r in this together!!

Im still bleeding, not as bad thou, its older darker blood now which hopefully means its coming to an end. Seeing doc tomo for the hcg results for last week. My pain has settled down which is a good sign that hopefully its healing in there.

I had a great day yesterday. DH organised my suprise 30th bday party, we had entertainers, lovely food and 50 friends. It was so nice to have my mind off my mc (although wearing BIG PANTS and pad under pretty dress was not great) I had lots of cuddles with friends babies and it didnt make me sad just really broody and I cant wait for us to have our own family.

Anyway Im writing a book here so will stop now :haha:

Good luck tomo petipas my dear :hugs:
 
Awwww, :hugs: for the continuing saga - aren't you having scans to keep track of what's going on?

Your DH sounds like a star arranging a party for you like that! :yipee: Pressies, big pants and all. Did he bake you a cake, too?
 
petitpas said:
Awwww, :hugs: for the continuing saga - aren't you having scans to keep track of what's going on?

Your DH sounds like a star arranging a party for you like that! :yipee: Pressies, big pants and all. Did he bake you a cake, too?
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No my mum made stawberry and cream cupcakes YUM...

Sorry your still testing positive Maaybe :hugs:
 
Im still testing positive and bleeding so iv been brave and booked an appointment with the doc tonite and now I'm scared lol
 
Back from the docs, hes referring me to a gynaecologist. Thinks iv either got a lingering infection or something left behind, so they are gonna send me an appointment for in the next two weeks, so im having a night of sulking.
 
Baronessgogo, glad u r being referred. Fingers crossed it will be nothing but best to get checked out u dont wanna be like some of us 3 months later still with stuff hanging about.

Well I have some good news, I got my hcg results today and they are showing 1. something so basically thats it my body now realises its no longer pregnant Woop woop :happydance:

Petitpas - hope today went well sweetie :hugs: :flower:

Im now going to wait a few weeks before my doc runs some tests for reasons I may of had mc, which is fine cos I wanna have a couple of normal af's before ttc again.
 
Hey bluesky, that's fantastic news about the hcg level! But have they scanned you to make sure it's out? Because you can still have retained tissue that's not producing hcg anymore but still holding fast (I'm living proof). Not that I'm wishing this on you - on the contrary!

Baroness, I'm so relieved you are getting your referral now. Like bluesky said, it's not good to let these things linger for too long. For one thing, it really messes with your head!

As for my op, it's all over and done with and I'm sitting up in my own bed at home less than four hours from leaving the recovery room! They said I could stay in if I wanted to, but then I was feeling fine, my stats were ok and I would have had to wear self-inflating moon boot things on my legs all night and they're noisy and sweaty - doesn't make for the best night's sleep!

The doctor went in with a small camera first and located the tissue, then he switched to another tool to grab and pull it out. Apparently it was still really stuck in and wouldn't let go so he had to do quite a bit of pulling and tugging to get it out. That caused quite a bit of bleeding so when he went back in with the camera he couldn't see whether it was all gone. (fingers crossed!!!!!!!!) The piece he pulled out was surprisingly much larger than what the scans indicated. The consultant reckons that by the look and feel of things it would probably not have come out on its own for a very long time.

I'm so relieved but still a teensy bit worried there's a bit left that he couldn't see. I'm going to ask for another scan just to make sure but I know the consultant is going on holiday at the end of this week so I don't know whether it will be possible... Fingers crossed!!!!!!

Anyways, I'm feeling ok and I had the most fantastic dinner served when I woke up so I'm good. Just a little tired now so finishing my round on here and then nodding off to sleep. Good job I'm in bed already lol
 
Petipas im glad it all went well :) you are right to ask for another scan after all you have been through you need reassurance that there is nothing left there.
 
Baroness, you too! I can't believe your doctor suspects a lingering infection and is leaving you to it for 2 weeks! Didn't you at least get some antibiotics in the meantime?
 
Glad your home and everything went well petitpas :hugs: Now u can start to get back to normal no more heavy bleeding episodes.

My doctor didnt seem concerned about another scan, the one they did before my DnC showed whatever it was, was waiting in the cervix, the top of uterus looked clear so im hoping that its all out. Now im wondering if I should ask for a followup scan?? The hospital are rubbish to be honest when I called them last week to say I was still bleeding they said you are now discharged go to GP.

Im working away the rest of the week so hope you all keep well :hugs:
 
Bluesky, if you're still bleeding, I think you need to insist on another scan. Call them back and cry if you have to! Also try your GP in order to cover all your possiblities.

Honestly, I know what it's like to feel that something is wrong and be ignored. Not so much in this case, but I ran around for years with life-threatening clots in my lungs and my GP/nurses refused to check me out telling me my breathing problems were all in my head :dohh:

What I'm saying is, it pays to push, just to be sure! The last thing you want is to fall pregnant again and to lose the little bean because it can't get up your cervix or can't implant properly.
 
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