The LTTTC thread for everyone.

[Rashaa]

Hey boom, peace, Liz et all! I have the flu like Jenn too it's been bullocks, but slowly starting to go, slowly being replaced with heartburn, nausea and hunger!

Just hate the coughing up a lung bit....

How is everyone and what is the news? I've been away the week......

 

[Rashaa]

Milty! I hate how the past always pinches us in the arse. So what happens now?

 

[Milty]

At my next meeting I will review possible matches. if I select one we will begin the introduction process. In some casses we can arrange it so the child does not know who we are. For wxame we may babysit for the foster parents.

 

[LLbean]

hi Rasha :wave:...sounds like that nasty cold could bring you awesome news

 

[Jennifer01]

At my next meeting I will review possible matches. if I select one we will begin the introduction process. In some casses we can arrange it so the child does not know who we are. For wxame we may babysit for the foster parents.

That sounds great, a more natural meeting sounds much better, less like an "interview" for you and the kids

 

[Bravemom]

Hey boom, peace, Liz et all! I have the flu like Jenn too it's been bullocks, but slowly starting to go, slowly being replaced with heartburn, nausea and hunger!

Just hate the coughing up a lung bit....

How is everyone and what is the news? I've been away the week......

Have you tested sweetheart ?

 

[sukisam]

Hi ladies
Been busy lately and doing lots of thinking I feel like I'm done with ttc it's exhausting and tbh feels pretty futile. I have 2 beautiful live children with me and the most gorgeous hubby on the planet yet each month I feel devastated. It's just doesn't feel right anymore I feel like my strong desire for another child is stopping me enjoying my life to the full. It's 3 years in Nov and I just feel sad we ever started this- both my girls were conceived the 1st month & DS was the 3rd month so infertility has been a huge shock even though we had the vasectomy - the dr convinced us after the reversal we had 95% chance of conceividoing its all been a horrid surprise!!

I'm going to talk to OH this w-end I want to stop Ttc, we'll still have sex but I need to stop POAS & living my life by my fucking menstrual cycle!! I still have a really strong feeling there's a girl out there for me but maybe it's just Emily I feel. I want to explore adoption so will see if OH is still up for that.

I wish I had got a BFP but I didnt I want another child & whether it's mine biologically doesn't really matter to me.

I don't think I really belong on this thread anymore but don't know if I can bear to leave cos I really love you all so much

I wish more than anything that you all get your forever babies you are all such a wonderful bunch of women I'm do glad to have met you all.

I'm crying as I write this I didnt even plan to write it- it just happened. I believe in following your gut & mine tells me this is the right time to stop.

Sending you all much love


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[Bravemom]

Hi ladies
Been busy lately and doing lots of thinking I feel like I'm done with ttc it's exhausting and tbh feels pretty futile. I have 2 beautiful live children with me and the most gorgeous hubby on the planet yet each month I feel devastated. It's just doesn't feel right anymore I feel like my strong desire for another child is stopping me enjoying my life to the full. It's 3 years in Nov and I just feel sad we ever started this- both my girls were conceived the 1st month & DS was the 3rd month so infertility has been a huge shock even though we had the vasectomy - the dr convinced us after the reversal we had 95% chance of conceividoing its all been a horrid surprise!!

I'm going to talk to OH this w-end I want to stop Ttc, we'll still have sex but I need to stop POAS & living my life by my fucking menstrual cycle!! I still have a really strong feeling there's a girl out there for me but maybe it's just Emily I feel. I want to explore adoption so will see if OH is still up for that.

I wish I had got a BFP but I didnt I want another child & whether it's mine biologically doesn't really matter to me.

I don't think I really belong on this thread anymore but don't know if I can bear to leave cos I really love you all so much

I wish more than anything that you all get your forever babies you are all such a wonderful bunch of women I'm do glad to have met you all.

I'm crying as I write this I didnt even plan to write it- it just happened. I believe in following your gut & mine tells me this is the right time to stop.

Sending you all much love


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Suki I'm crying too ,and I hope and pray you find peace to continue on with your life and feel happy and fulfilled ,I am going to miss you so much three years is such a long time I know but you will akways belong here and in our hearts ,I love you suki

 

[peacebaby]

Suki

You have been so brave going through all this and yet always giving so much of yourself to everyone else. The TTC journey is cruel, unfair and simply crap.

As Bmom said I sincerely hope you find lasting peace and fulfilment.

We will miss you lots

xxxx

 

[LLbean]

Suki....

 

[peacebaby]

Jen & Rashaa sorry about the dreaded flu,hope the bug leaves soon. Rashaa those signs sound promising, all things crossed for you.

Milty, i 'm really impressed by how practical & dignified the adoption process is
there. The babysitting option sounds like a great idea. I hope your cycle isn't too rough after last month

Hopeful what a noble way of earning a living. We wouldn't get half of that produce at that price here and probably not the same quality too. Your family sound lovely, big families are such fun.

Crystal, no steroids. Long story so will pm you but basically I've had 2 intralipid treatments. Well done on the bd'ing fest! Glad to hear the eczema has cleared. Its a good sign. How are you finding clexane - any bruises yet? I must have accidentally rubbed the injection site the other day, I now have a massive 6cm bruise

LL hope femara is being good to you!

Bmom sending you sanity for the 2ww. Hope you're feeling better after that UTI.

HA hope your cycle is going smoothly and you're managing with it all

Suki many more for you

Ready, More4mom, Jax, Alison everyone else hope you're all having a good weekend.

 

[Milty]

Suki I just love you and wish you the very best. I will post a link to an adoption thread BF and I are on. I can't now as I'm on my phone.

 

[Milty]

OK I promised this a long time ago. For everyone that is new this is my DS and two friends LO. We all had fertility problems in our 20's and it's quite amazing we all had kids and within 3 months of each other. Our story is a ways back but I see if I can find what page if your interested.

 

[Milty]

Ok story is on pg 396 for the new girls...

Also here is a pic of my DS and the one he is going to marry (his words)

and temporarly one of all of us...

 

[Jennifer01]

Suki, I hope you are ok. You need to do whatever feels right for your family. If you do leave, I hope you will stay in touch, you have been such a supportive lovely lady! Big big

 

[Jennifer01]

Peacebaby how are you doing today? I hope you are managing the stress ok, I think it was crystal that told me before the worst thing of all is the unknown, and I would agree big time! Let's go sticky baby!!!!

Milty your display pic is the best!!!!

 

[crystal443]

Suki- Glad your finding a path that brings you peace I hope you pop in now and then but I understand why you need to leave. You've been a wonderful support to all of us

Peace- I do bruise from Clexane, I even have a bruise on my shoulder from my purse strap They're not painful bruises just dark nasty little bruises, Hope your weekend is going well

Milty- Love the avatar, he's such cute little guy in that photo How are you doing?

Bmom- Hello lovely..nice temp jump for you

Liz- Hello, how are the meds treating you?

Jen- Hope your feeling better

Raasha- That has got to be a BFP chart

Not much going on here, went to the market with DH and got a few tshirts for my 2 neices and baby cousin All girls and all adorable!!

 

[Milty]

I'm doing alright I guess. Timed everything well this month. So I'm glad for that.

I have a friend who announced she was pg on Wed and due a few days before I was. I was shocked she told everyone so soon and thought to myself that it wasn't very smart. Then two days later she started bleeding so then I felt bad but her HCG levels are increasing so that's good. I'm honestly not sure how I feel about all this. Normally friends pg don't bother me at all frankly I'm beyond used to it but I feel like this should bother me or something

 

[Milty]

Eh Crystal I just noticed we are both 3DPO

 

[LLbean]

I'm good Crystal, so far all I am noticing is I'm very thirsty lol... Hence I pee lots too hahaha