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[Zebra2023]

Great news Becky that your dates are going well. I don't agree with the whole sex statistics. Just take your time, it will happen when it happens, when you both are ready. Don't rush in to it

 

[babybrums]

Yay for another good date! Not sure about the whole sex expectation thing. OH and I went for it on the first Good luck Tuesday!

 

[Becky61]

Wow the 1st date

I guess i just like the excitement of the unknown, and dont want him thinking that just cos i put out on the third date im easy or dont intend on a long term relationship, but also want him to know that im attracted to him (oh gosh i just wanna rip his clothes off!) and dont want him thinking im uninterested.

Maybe im over thinking it, but i will be sure to buy new lingerie tomorrow!! I cant have him peeling off my full body spanx!!

X

 

[meli1981]

Whats a cheeky snog?!
Becky, i think its a bit soon..,,but its whatever you feel comfy with good luck

 

[babybrums]

To be fair, there was a bit of alcohol involved.

I don't know what I'd do if I were in your shoes! I agree with meli - do what you feel comfortable with If he's a keeper, he'll respect whatever decision you make.

 

[july2013]

I think we did it on our 1st date too But we had known each other for years.. And there was also alcohol involved.

 

[Bevziibubble]

I don't agree with the whole statistic thing. My and my husband waited two weeks but we had seen each other 7 times. I was still a virgin when I met him (aged 23! ) so I felt like two weeks wasn't actually a long time to wait at all. If he is worth it he will respect whatever decision you make

 

[hakunamatata]

DH and I were stone cold sober and we did it the first night But you all know I'm a horny beast.

Just do what's right for you Becky, there's no right or wrong answer.

 

[hakunamatata]

Aw Bev that's sweet!

 

[meli1981]

My husband and i waited for three months! I was a virgin as well... I think i had just turned 20. It just depends on the couple

 

[july2013]

Aww Meli and Bev! That's really sweet!

 

[hakunamatata]

And Zebra, too

I lost my virginity at 20 years old but met DH when I was 27.

 

[july2013]

Oh yeah! I remember Zebra saying that too.

I was 17..

 

[hakunamatata]

I don't have any regrets, had a lot of fun in my 20's

 

[meli1981]

I didnt know when i had sex with oh that wede end up getting married so if we never did then who knows.... i kinda regret i didnt have those slutty days to get out of my system!

 

[july2013]

Good for you HM!

To be fair.. I don't really have any regrets either!

 

[hakunamatata]

I wasn't slutty, I was sexually liberated

 

[july2013]

I wasn't slutty, I was sexually liberated

I don't think I was "sexually liberated"...

 

[Bevziibubble]

Gosh I feel like a nun!

 

[july2013]

You're not like a nun!