rachaelmoore8
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Lolly i understand why ur scared of being pregnant again, my sister in law after trying over 12 months to get pregnant with her first fell pregnant quite quick the second time but unfortunatly resulted in a miscarriage at 12 weeks and had a really rough time with the d and c etc she then fell pregnant around 4 months later and was really really worried about having another miscarriage. The baby was healthy and happy apart from he was born with a cleft lip and they have no explanation for it, he is such a beauitful little cheeky boy and it has made no difference to him as it was very minor and only on his lip not his palette. it has really messed with her head and with the miscarriage before that it has taken her nearly 2 years to decide to try for another and she has just found out she is pregnant again as she is desperate for a girl. She has had real bad sickness for the whole of the other 2 pregnancies and this one is heading the same way. She is now stressing herself out with this baby having a cleft lip but they have told her she has as much chance of it happening as anyone else just coz she has had one baby doesnt mean she gonna have another. She now has in her head the baby could be born with downs so has had all the tests for that so she is very distressed at the minute and we are all going through this with her. So lolly i understand why its scary to be pregnant again.
Sorry for the essay girl
Honey i really hope i get the water birth we are supposed to be going on a tour of the labour ward and birthing rooms either this sunday or next so that should make things a little more real.
Rachael
Sorry for the essay girl
Honey i really hope i get the water birth we are supposed to be going on a tour of the labour ward and birthing rooms either this sunday or next so that should make things a little more real.
Rachael