The official cerazette missing period support thread!! *NAME CHANGE*

[hay246]

welcome amanda

hope everyone had a good weekend, i had a great night at the wedding reception, and a lazy day yesterday

honey so pleased he is home, my friend had her boy over the weekend he was a whopping 9lb 3! he is a cutie has so much hair too!

sorry to hear u had a low day lolly but ur apptment date is not too far away now

i have midwife in the morning my 25 week apptment. time is flying!

betty it is so hard not to symptom spot, but alot of the pregnancy signs are same as af so you never know, fingers crossed

i have been sick this morning, first time for ages was lovely last night watching my belly though and i had a massive nudge/kick and could proper see my belly move, makes up for the sickness hehe

so what have u girlies got planned this week? i am just working all week 9-5! weekend off, and probably nothing exciting the weekend duvet day if its rubbish weather probably

Hay x

 

[betty14]

hey ladies, glad the belly button thing made you smile, would be so much easier tho right


thanks for all the luck and crossed fingers hope they work

rach glad your bp had come down, the birthing centre sounds lovely, if your not sure about home birth it could be the next best thing

hay sorry to hear that your not feeling well today but fab about the movement hope midwife goes well tomorrow, let us know!!

hope i didnt forget anyone!!

anywhoo im off for some dinner im starving!!!

x x x

 

[Lollylou]

Hello

Well where do I start

I've not been right since the hospital told me I miscarried. The endless positive tests were just not adding up for me so I went to doctors on Friday who done my hcg level. I got a call today to say my levels were going up, i was told to go in to hospital asap for a scan. I had another ultrasound and they told me they were very sorry they made a mistake 6 weeks ago and I hadn't actually miscarried & what i'm suffering is an ectopic pregnancy which they missed!! So I have to go in for surgery first thing 2mor to get my fallopian tube removed this is just never going to happen for me. I cant believe they missed this I feel like i have went thru a miscarriage & now an ectopic, Its so unfair I dunno what to do. Im so angry

 

[dawnky1983]

Lolly, I'm so sorry to hear that! Can't believe that got missed, it's terrible. But don't lose hope good things can still happen for you x

 

[Samie18]

Lolly I'm so sorry that is just horrible I can't believe they missed it. I don't know what to say really =o( hugs your way xx

 

[Abbi808]

Hi girls just checking in. Sorry I have been MIA, I have been crazy busy with the move! All in now and the new house is just lovely! no Internet for a few days yet though so just going on my phone when I can! Unfortunately the 3G isn't the best around here though!

Haven't had time to read everything so hope everyone is well. Lolly I did see your post and I can't believe that this has happened to you. I thought the positive tests were odd, the hospital have really let you down I'm disgusted. Hope the surgery isn't too bad for you. Please keep us updated on how it goes and makesure the hospital give you some answers!

Xxx

 

[betty14]

Oh lolly, that's just awful, how did they miss it!? Has it ruptured is that why you need the surgery? Im so so so sorry my heart truly is breaking for you, it will happen for you, there is nothing anyone can say to make this better at the mo but just know that even tho it's just words in black and White I for one will always be here if you wanna chat

Update us tomorrow when/if you can
X x x

 

[pink23]

im so sorry lolly sending you lots of hugs xx

 

[Samie18]

Sorry to ask lolly but are they saying this is the same pregnancy that is ectopic so making you about 16 weeks??

 

[Lollylou]

Yeah sammie they are saying its the same pregnancy I just cant get my head around it...........How could they miss this. We ahve been given no information at all. It was my decision to come home tonight, the way I see it is ive had it for long enough so one more night isn't goin to hurt! I just dint know how this can happen.

 

[Honeybear1976]

Oh Lolly I'm so upset for you I cannot believe the incompetency of the hospital although I've had some really terrible experiences with our hospital too. You absolutely can and will still have your baby Lolly, ppl start with even slimmer chances than yours' and have children and I very strongly feel it will happen for you and I'll still be around to be excitedly follow your journey getting there as will Betty
xxx

 

[Lollylou]

Thank you, God im so nervous & scared. Leaving in half an hour. Started bleeding heavy through the night and I really dont feel well at all so we're going in bit earlier. My parents are away in spain & so is my mother in law. You know that way when you just want your mum. pretty pathetic for a 30 year old woman but thats how i feel. Okay, so I'll update when I can. Betty hopefully when i come back later or in a few days you'll have good news! See you all soon

lolly x

 

[Samie18]

It's usually doesn't happen that way lolly to have a ectopic that's around 16 weeks is life threatening. I know its the last thing on your mind but you shouldn't let this go and take it much further!! I hope everything goes well today. Thinking of you x

 

[Abbi808]

I agree with Samie! You should consult a solicitor as you should get a lot of compensation for this! Use it to see the best fertility specialist that money can buy! Good luck today, so sorry that this has happened to you!

Xx

 

[rachaelmoore8]

OO Lolly im so so sad to hear this sending you lots of hugs
im disgusted that this has been missed and you have had to go through thinking you have misscarried along with all the pregnancy tests to be told you are still pregnant and its eptopic is a disgrace, the girls are right you should def take this further it could have been very very dangerous for you and now you have had to have surgery im disgusted you have had to go through this

Keep us updated and i hope you recover from the surgery soon

Rachael

 

[hay246]

so so sorry Lolly that is terrible for them to miss that!

my friend recently had a ecptopic pregnancy, and now she has been given the all clear and can try after 3 months, but at least she is ok which is the main thing.

i hope that the surgery isnt too bad and u recover soon

betty midwife got it wrong and its tomorrow 9.30 silly woman!

Hay xx

 

[betty14]

Aw hay I hope you didn't get all the way there to be told she got it wrong!! Hope it goes on tomorrow!!

X x x

 

[hay246]

ye i did get there and found out appointment wasnt today, but luckily its only 5 mins drive to the surgery so not too bad, excuse for me to be late for work for two mornings in a row at least

x

 

[betty14]

Ha ha I like your thinking! Take your time and dawdle lol!

I hope lolly is ok, worried about her

X x x

 

[hay246]

aww i know!

we're thinking of you Lolly and really hope everything is ok

x