The Official FOB Rant Thread!

[bloodbinds]

We all like a good rant... and we all feel better after one! But sometimes you just have something small to day, sometimes you don't feel like making a whole thread about it. Sometimes you just want to say a big F*CK YOU to him! Well, here is the place to do it!


Why the hell haven't i heard off you?! I saw you 5 months ago where you told me you would make more of an effort, that you would be back soon, and you would be in touch before her birthday to come see her again... erm.... her birthday is now less than a month away - and where are you? Are you going to call? Will you even remember her birthday? Will she hear off you at all? I'm so scared you will forget and Bella won't get a birthday card off her Dad

Rant away!

 

[lulu35]

why do you keep putting everyone before us??? im fed up having to tell my kids were finished and move them from house to house whenever you get fed up with us!!!! my kids are not toys and you dont relise what youve just lost!!!

sorry just wanted to get that out xx

 

[expecting09]

Why do you say your going to ring me to arrange money, and to get my address for missys birthday card and don't bother She's nearly one and you still haven't realized that you need to man up and take responsibilty!

(Can I rant about FOBs family too? )

(and I didn't realize Bella and Kacie are sooo close in age too!)

 

[surprisebaby]

are you ever going to contact me? you've not even seen charlotte smile or heard her laugh. she deserves to have a dad and you should be taking responsibility for her instead of swanning around university pretending you don't have a child. You owe me a huge apology for how you've treated me. i thought when i saw you when she was two weeks old you were going to keep in touch? well that was obviously a lie. one day you are going to regret your decision and you won't be able to get that time back.

 

[Faith2781]

If you don't want women to get pregnant with your kids then why don't you use a condom! Abortion is not a form of birth control!

 

[lal]

Strangers have been kinder to me than you since I found out that I was pregnant. All of the hard times I helped you through, and at a time I could really use you as a friend, you've disappeared. Not to mention that you are partially responsible for this, and chose to be. It hurts so much that women you've just met are more important to you right now than helping me get through this. And I know you will try to jump back into my life once I have our son...it will be too late, I will never trust you again. Get ready for a lot of regret, and I hope it hurts to know that I have none, I gave you every chance and more to be a decent person.

 

[bloodbinds]

Why do you say your going to ring me to arrange money, and to get my address for missys birthday card and don't bother She's nearly one and you still haven't realized that you need to man up and take responsibilty!

(Can I rant about FOBs family too? )

(and I didn't realize Bella and Kacie are sooo close in age too!)

Ohh, me neither! Ahh, growing up too quick!!

And maybe this should be a Single Rant thread? Where we rant about everything single mummy related? FOB family and all!! Lol.

 

[whoops]

When the f*** are you going to grow up and deal with your responsibilities? Yes, your life will change but big bloody deal. Mine has already changed beyond measure and I don't sit around complaining. I just get on with it.

Stop apologising! If you were truly sorry, you'd be here.

Every single person in my life is excited about OUR daughter, except you. You're the only one treating this like a tragedy. Man up, grow a pair and take some responsibility *now* before it's too late.

Oh, and use condoms in future! Muppet!

NB: The condoms advice also applies to me...

 

[Aidedhoney]

I could be here a long time............

Just for starters

I hope you and your gf get a huge dose of the shits on your up oncomming holiday!!!!!

Yup i am been an akward cow but you should have checked that your holiday didnt clash with your access arrangements before booking it..........
Not me that will go 4 weeks without seeing my son.
The days of me been flexible and nice are long gone.

Your son was ill for a week he spent a whole day in A n E and the assesment unit where they hinted at heart function and did you come up and see him.......did you Fu$$.
You finally came up after a week and spent a whole 2 hours with your son.........Father of the year award goes to you!!!!!!!

Can i text/phone you in relation to our son without risk of offending your gf ermmmmm NOpe because even though you left me I am a threat to her hahaha!!!!! get over it love!!!!!


This is a grown man of 37.....

 

[Neferet]

I can't believe you're not going to make an effort to come to your own son's first birthday party. Seriously, if you're not remotely interested in Isaac just say so and stop f**king us around! >.<

 

[Welshcob]

Strangers have been kinder to me than you since I found out that I was pregnant. All of the hard times I helped you through, and at a time I could really use you as a friend, you've disappeared. Not to mention that you are partially responsible for this, and chose to be. It hurts so much that women you've just met are more important to you right now than helping me get through this. And I know you will try to jump back into my life once I have our son...it will be too late, I will never trust you again. Get ready for a lot of regret, and I hope it hurts to know that I have none, I gave you every chance and more to be a decent person.

Really well put!!! well done!!!x

 

[bloodbinds]

16 days to go.... will you remember her birthday? Taking bets!

 

[LittleLemon]

FOB and his dear mummy, the pair of them really are something else. A month after getting back together, ONE MONTH of family life and it's hard demands of time & sacrifices, both him AND his mum attacked me like a pack of dogs, telling me I was treating "her boy like a servant!!". A servant??? He has never EVER used the washing machine during our 4 years together, cooked perhaps 10 times in total, and WHO was scrubbing the bathroom at 9+ months pregnant whilst he was sitting in the lounge wathing Top Gear??

No wonder he's so f*cked up when it comes to family values, when he has a mother like that. Selfish, horrible people, always putting everybody else down when they have NO leg to stand on. FOB never made any attempts to better his life, bring in more money to the household and was quite happy letting me support him every MONTH with the same old comment "I'm sorry baby, I don't know where my money's gone", with two weeks left to payday.

Servant? Him? Done fck all for either me or our son, how dare they?? And where is he now? Changed his number to get rid, and sending no money for our son (although CSA are now on the case).

What a piece of trash..!!!

Thanks for the rant.

 

[BabyGab]

I hope it knocks the wind out of your chest when your child considers someone else her father and I hope it hits you 100 times harder than that when you realise he is more of a man than you will ever be!!!

I dont know who was stupider.. You for lying or me for falling inlove with you and believing everything you told me..
If you were just looking for a good lay you should have just said so and not let me waste a year and a half of my life believing in a future I was building which you had no intent of leading...

What hurts more than anything is the wrong you have done to MY child!! I would have been better off with a test tube!!

I wish you nothing.. Enjoy whatever God sees fit to send your way from now on!!

 

[expecting09]

So you ring me and spend half a bloody hour talking about work, then go on about how your going to Manchester to see friends for a weekend?! You can afford to do that but you can't afford to give me even a penny towards your daughter, you have until her birthday or I will be ringing CSA again..

 

[Neferet]

Why the hell did you delete me from facebook and block me on twitter?! If you're going to be an effing child, I'm better off without you in my life at all TBH. Can't wait for this paternity test to come back and prove you're his father... only because hopefully your parents will go ape at you for being a spineless liar! T**t.

 

[Rhio92]

It takes 2 to make a baby, that's 2 to decide to use a condom and 2 to have sex! So how come it's ok for you to have 1 of us raising the baby??!! I know you've got balls because you've made 2 kids,one of whom you've never had any contact with, and one on the way who you probably won't have any contact with, so why don't you man up and start preparing to be a Dad?
It's not about our relationship anymore, I'm done with the hurt, the name calling, the being used, it's about OUR son.
Man up. Put your pride on the shelf, stop spending all your money on your car and going out, and start investing in the most precious thing of all. You let our son down once, and you will never have another chance, then I hope when you look at the scan pictures, you realise what you lost.

 

[expecting09]

You write 'Sorry I couldn't be there' on Kacie's birthday card, which arrived LATE. If you was that bloody sorry you would of done something about it, spineless twat.

 

[bailey4eva]

Just to say this is a great thread, I may be writing in here at some point in the future, just giving time like I always do see how things go! Also, sorry to hear that so many FOBs are being t**ts! We are all better off without them, somebody will appreciate us one day just gota be strong for the babies/children, they at least will appreciate all you have done for them one day

xxxx

 

[Kacie]

Why did it take us leaving for you to start trying to be father of the year? Before I left you never said two words to her. It was all I could do to get you to hold her for 15 minutes a day while I had a shower. Now you have the nerve to turn around and say I have taken your baby girl away when it was you ignoring us day in day out, treating us like cr*p and sleeping around! So how long can I expect you to keep this up for?... are you going to be around for ever or is this just a temporary thing so you can look like the doting father in front of your friends? If you are gonna quit seeing her in favour of your precious bachelor lifestyle then please do it before she remembers who you are... but if you're gonna stick around then it better be forever as I don't want to be picking up the pieces when you break her heart as well as mine.

I wish I could trust you....