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The Official FOB Rant Thread!

I told you when you picked DD1 up she had an upset tummy bug, you insisted on taking her out anyway...and you took her to Burger King for junk food. fricking genius.
She really suffered last night and today, so thanks alot for that. prick.





I hope it knocks the wind out of your chest when your child considers someone else her father and I hope it hits you 100 times harder than that when you realise he is more of a man than you will ever be!!!

Amen to that :thumbup:
 
FOB and his dear mummy, the pair of them really are something else. A month after getting back together, ONE MONTH of family life and it's hard demands of time & sacrifices, both him AND his mum attacked me like a pack of dogs, telling me I was treating "her boy like a servant!!". A servant??? He has never EVER used the washing machine during our 4 years together, cooked perhaps 10 times in total, and WHO was scrubbing the bathroom at 9+ months pregnant whilst he was sitting in the lounge wathing Top Gear??

No wonder he's so f*cked up when it comes to family values, when he has a mother like that. Selfish, horrible people, always putting everybody else down when they have NO leg to stand on. FOB never made any attempts to better his life, bring in more money to the household and was quite happy letting me support him every MONTH with the same old comment "I'm sorry baby, I don't know where my money's gone", with two weeks left to payday.

Servant? Him? Done fck all for either me or our son, how dare they?? And where is he now? Changed his number to get rid, and sending no money for our son (although CSA are now on the case).

What a piece of trash..!!!

Thanks for the rant.

MY GOD!! Sooooo familiar!! If I didn't know any better I would be asking you the name of this cretin to see if my ex really did have a double life like I suspected he did!!!
 
Why did you make out at the start that a baby was what you wanted and then you treat me like this when I'm pregnant? Your treatment of me has been worse since I have been pregnant...how backwards is that?!

Why do you never have any money, but yet you earn the same amount as my Dad and he supports a family of 5, pays the bills, buys food and runs 2 cars. And why can you never explain where your money has gone? What are you hiding?

Why do you claim to love me, but yet you stand there and say the most horrible things to me, swear at me and just generally disrespect me and treat me like shit.

Why is it that when it comes to your family, I am cast aside and simply not good enough? You never have and never will have the balls to stand up for me against them.

Why have you not paid one penny for your child? You have stood back and let me buy everything, pay for your petrol, pay for food for us and generally pay for everything.

Where was the excitement for this amazing gift? Where was the teamwork and the sharing of this joy? Why have you made it so hard and so stressful? I have waited my whole life to experience this and thanks to you and your attitude, it has not been the way it should have been.

I pray one day that another man restores my faith in men, because you are not a man,. You have no balls, no back bone, no maturity and you cannot stand up and face your responsibilities.

And for the ultimate question, the one that leaves me the most confused....What did i EVER see in you???!!

Thanks for the rant...I have so much more I could say,...but I fear I may be here till next week getting it all down!
 
It really is the same story Gem, gave me a bit of a giggle just for the tragedy of it all ;)

I too ask myself WTF I ever saw in him..!

Well rid of them hun, well rid :winkwink:
 
Couldn't have said it better myself LittleLemon
:)
 
i'm not a single mom yet but i feel the need to post;

why the f*ck did you tell me you wanted to TTC and that we were going to get married and that we were getting that house together if you had unfinished business with your ex all along. i know you say it's because you though i wouldn't actually get pregnant but your bullshit has caused a lot of unneeded stress. i hope you rot in hell and i want front row tickets and i am bringing some popcorn and a bottle of booze.
 
i just wanted to say that you all made me laugh so hard and cry at the same time..i feel somewhat healed after reading everything, knowing others can relate
 
lol olivia's dad purposely causes argument with me so he feels he can blame that for not seeing her, so i sent him a text

"had a lovely time with olivia without you we should fight more often if it means you leave us alone"

to which he replied

" your just a nasty person i have realised that about you "

ME: "lol you didnt even turn for your nephews birthday, you chose not to see olivia, get stuffed i am sick of feeling sorry for you !! "

i am so angry he has been writing on kristian's gone too soon page about how he loves me and is sorry and we will be a family again soon, using my son's page to try and emotionally black mail me, i was fuming how dare he! he tried it as a last resort !!
 
It is her birthday in 4 days.... Will you remember....


I doubt it since last time we spoke you didnt even no when her birthday was.


Life is actually easier without you around.
 
lol olivia's dad purposely causes argument with me so he feels he can blame that for not seeing her, so i sent him a text

"had a lovely time with olivia without you we should fight more often if it means you leave us alone"

to which he replied

" your just a nasty person i have realised that about you "

ME: "lol you didnt even turn for your nephews birthday, you chose not to see olivia, get stuffed i am sick of feeling sorry for you !! "

i am so angry he has been writing on kristian's gone too soon page about how he loves me and is sorry and we will be a family again soon, using my son's page to try and emotionally black mail me, i was fuming how dare he! he tried it as a last resort !!

haha, sounds like mine - we are all just unbearable nasty people and it is obviously our fault they don't bother with their children. If I begged and cried for him to be around, he'd complain that I were too needy - as it is I just don't say anything at all, and I am STILL "making this complicated" for him. Pricks.
 
Why did you make out at the start that a baby was what you wanted and then you treat me like this when I'm pregnant? Your treatment of me has been worse since I have been pregnant...how backwards is that?!

Why do you never have any money, but yet you earn the same amount as my Dad and he supports a family of 5, pays the bills, buys food and runs 2 cars. And why can you never explain where your money has gone? What are you hiding?

Why do you claim to love me, but yet you stand there and say the most horrible things to me, swear at me and just generally disrespect me and treat me like shit.

Why is it that when it comes to your family, I am cast aside and simply not good enough? You never have and never will have the balls to stand up for me against them.

Why have you not paid one penny for your child? You have stood back and let me buy everything, pay for your petrol, pay for food for us and generally pay for everything.

Where was the excitement for this amazing gift? Where was the teamwork and the sharing of this joy? Why have you made it so hard and so stressful? I have waited my whole life to experience this and thanks to you and your attitude, it has not been the way it should have been.

I pray one day that another man restores my faith in men, because you are not a man,. You have no balls, no back bone, no maturity and you cannot stand up and face your responsibilities.

And for the ultimate question, the one that leaves me the most confused....What did i EVER see in you???!!

Thanks for the rant...I have so much more I could say,...but I fear I may be here till next week getting it all down!

wow this sounds so much like my situation infact i am wondering if FOB is the same person as yours lol xxxx
 
Ok my FOB has taken the cake this time.

He turned up for his 2 weekly visit on Sunday, came to my home with his new gf hahah the two of them thought i would let then in!!!!! No warning nowt!!!
The bit that takes the cake was that i was just home the previous week from hospital where i was told Alex needs his second open heart surgery as his first has failed!!!!

What an arse i am really lucky in the sense that i have his parents full support and they are dead against him and him introducing the gf!!!

Foe the second time in 3 months he wont have seen his son for 4 weeks.

Got a solicitors appiontment on wed for some advice
 
what the f*ck. i'm so sorry you had to deal with that. i hate how us ladies take special caution before introducting our beautiful children to just anyone and they think they can bring just any girlfriend of theirs around our kids! grr

Ok my FOB has taken the cake this time.

He turned up for his 2 weekly visit on Sunday, came to my home with his new gf hahah the two of them thought i would let then in!!!!! No warning nowt!!!
The bit that takes the cake was that i was just home the previous week from hospital where i was told Alex needs his second open heart surgery as his first has failed!!!!

What an arse i am really lucky in the sense that i have his parents full support and they are dead against him and him introducing the gf!!!

Foe the second time in 3 months he wont have seen his son for 4 weeks.

Got a solicitors appiontment on wed for some advice
 

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