Thank you for this! I am a FTM and due in December. I am just wondering if you have any tips/advice etc for trying to get through those first few weeks/months? Or is that the point that not much can really help, you just have to pray for an easy baby and if not grin and bear it?
There are really no advice to give other than just go with the flow and realize that nothing will truly prepare you.
But I can say that the one thing that really helped keep my sanity in the early weeks is doing 'shifts' with DH. Meaning, every evening when the sun went down DH would take our daughter and I would go sleep.. whether it's 45 minutes or 3 hours. He'd wake me when she needed to eat. DH would also take her first thing in the morning for a similar amount of time so I could sleep. DH also took 2 weeks off of work which allowed him to take her for a shift in the afternoon.
Also, I recommend getting out of the house at least once a day when you feel ready for it. I had a c section and was out of the house 3 days after returning home. It's easy to feel isolated and alone (especially in the winter) so getting out is important!