No you are not 'really old' or 'really obese' but some of these Drs can certainly make you feel that way! I could tell you some real horror stories about the comments I have had to listen to including 'you are on the heavy side' (that is VERY common or this classic: 'don't think that just because you don't
look fat that you
aren't fat; if you look at your limbs and even the size of your extremely large hands then it's quite easy for you to hide it quite well.' !!!! I am 5'3" have a BMI of 29, wear size 14 (16 for jeans) - hey I know it's not ideal but I'mnot the obese giant he made me out to be. I nearly swung for him!
I'm really sorry about your loss and I hope you get another BFP again soon.
Omg, you are so not old lynlouc
and average size are you not for british women? This stick thin ideal thing really gets my goat.
2 of my best friends have had their first babies in the last couple of years and one was 35 and they were both 35. Incidenatlly one was, always has been skinny and she had such an awful pregancy, with c-section, enough to out her off trying for no.2 which is such a shame.
Ruth2307 OMG I cannot believe how rude your Dr was to you I think I'd have found it hard not to
or
unbelievable! I'm really losing faith in the NHS, it seems the staff just cannot be bothered with people and their feelings half the time