Just been told today 'you wouldn't be able to cope with a kid!' because I said to a co-worker that thanks to the flu I'm suffering from I slept for 17 hours (I'd also only had like 6 hours of sleep in the previous 48 hours). She's not aware that we're TTC but still think it's a horrible thing for anyone to say. If I had a baby I know I wouldn't sleep as much but I'd have something that I wanted to be awake for.