Things I cannot say out loud....

[Emmy1987]

What the hell?? If you're hungry, he needs to feed you! Especially if you're offering to pay him back, which you shouldn't need to do!



Kick him in the balls!

Tempted we didn't even stay at the park more than half hour. Pointless

 

[Scarlett316]

To my dear friend.

I'm sorry you lost one of your babies. I'm so glad the other twin is ok and growing well. I understand that you're not ready to talk about it, I'm here for you, if you need me.

Fly high little angel x

I would say these things out loud but no one is supposed to know. Her husband told my dh because he needed someone to talk to. She wants to keep it quiet until she is ready. My heart is breaking for her, I can't imagine what she must be going through.

 

[MissFox]

so sad. Be peaceful baby angel.
One of my best friends lost her baby (38 weeks) last year and my cousin lost her baby (39 weeks) in July. Completely heartbreaking.

 

[Ozzieshunni]

Sad times.

LO please stop being a fussy, overtired, teething mess Mommy doesn't like you being sad and in pain.

 

[cowboys angel]

Lyla: I hope you are having fun but mommy misses you sooo much. Please tell Grandma you wanna come home now.

 

[Kalah]

Mom seriously stop doing a verbal checklist every time we leave to house:
"do you have Kili's diaperbag? Does it have milk in it? Do you have her shoes? She'll need a coat do you have one? Do you have snacks for her?' etc...
I've only been here for a week but I've been raising Kili since she was BORN with no help from you so when you check to make sure I have everything it makes me feel like you think I'm an incompetent mother. Of course I have everything, she's my f**king daughter!!
And omg stop rearranging things!! You never used to do that so what is going on? You keep moving things that are very important so I have to search for hours because you don't even pay attention to where you put them you just pile everything up and toss it in Kili's room. Why would you think I want all my things in her room?! When she finally goes down for a nap or to sleep at night you have no idea how frustrating it is to realize that something I need is now in her room so I can't even get to it without waking her up!!
Also, stop looking down on everyone for everything in that patronizing superior voice, do you even know how bi**hy you sound when you do that? Yes I have to go to a food pantry now because I only have $30 to last for a few weeks so when you see the food I got don't look through it all and comment on everything.
And I will not forgive you for the huge lie you told me. Before I moved back here she said she knows a guy that owns a gas station down the street and that he had already said he will give me a job and pay $10 an hour. Now it comes out that actually he had said he just hired 3 new people and doesn't need anymore. Why would you lie about that? Also stop saying "but he has other gas stations he can hire you at" really mom and how exactly am I supposed to get to them? In case you haven't noticed, I don't have a car!!

ETA: And when I asked you NICELY earlier today to stop moving my things around it really pissed me off when you replied with "fine you clean it up then" what is that supposed to mean??? I'M THE ONE WHO CLEANS, you just move crap around!!

 

[Ozzieshunni]

Kalah. I'm kinda glad my mom is not here, lol.

 

[Natsku]

Oh the poor baby

To OH: what the hell is wrong with you that you would leave a sharp knife in the side of Maria's toy box and then try and blame me for it because "I should have seen you put it there and taken it away"! But thank you for at least admitting (after a while) that you messed up big time.

Also I would have really appreciated a lie in and breakfast in bed on my birthday after being up all night with a teething baby (though thank you for being up with us) but no, you're fast asleep. So I ate my birthday chocolates for breakfast

 

[MizzDeeDee]

Oh the poor baby

To OH: what the hell is wrong with you that you would leave a sharp knife in the side of Maria's toy box and then try and blame me for it because "I should have seen you put it there and taken it away"! But thank you for at least admitting (after a while) that you messed up big time.

Also I would have really appreciated a lie in and breakfast in bed on my birthday after being up all night with a teething baby (though thank you for being up with us) but no, you're fast asleep. So I ate my birthday chocolates for breakfast

Happy birthday though!!!!!

edit: WTF with the knife...that could been a huge issue...

 

[Natsku]

Oh the poor baby

To OH: what the hell is wrong with you that you would leave a sharp knife in the side of Maria's toy box and then try and blame me for it because "I should have seen you put it there and taken it away"! But thank you for at least admitting (after a while) that you messed up big time.

Also I would have really appreciated a lie in and breakfast in bed on my birthday after being up all night with a teething baby (though thank you for being up with us) but no, you're fast asleep. So I ate my birthday chocolates for breakfast

Happy birthday though!!!!!

edit: WTF with the knife...that could been a huge issue...

I know! I think he realised how serious it was and thats why he got so defensive. What an idiot!

And thanks! I feel old

 

[elephant29]

Oh the poor baby

To OH: what the hell is wrong with you that you would leave a sharp knife in the side of Maria's toy box and then try and blame me for it because "I should have seen you put it there and taken it away"! But thank you for at least admitting (after a while) that you messed up big time.

Also I would have really appreciated a lie in and breakfast in bed on my birthday after being up all night with a teething baby (though thank you for being up with us) but no, you're fast asleep. So I ate my birthday chocolates for breakfast

Happy birthday though!!!!!

edit: WTF with the knife...that could been a huge issue...

I know! I think he realised how serious it was and thats why he got so defensive. What an idiot!

And thanks! I feel old

Happy birthday!!!

Are you only supposed to eat chocolate for breakfast when it's your birthday

xxx

 

[elephant29]

OH,

You asked me what was wrong and I told you I didnt want to say because we have spoken about it before and you get defensive, angry and annoyed and then stop talking to me. I needed some time to have an emotional cry to myself but you insisted on pushing me to tell you what was wrong. So when I did tell you you reacted exactly how I had predicted. You left me crying and walked out the door. I dont care that you only went to a friends for a few hours and were home for after 10pm. I dont care about that in the slightest. You walked out and left me crying. I was talking to you about the worry I had for our relationship and you admitted you were being complacent and taking our relationship for granted but then you got angry (maybe defensive?) and left. I think you made your choice there. I was saying how I felt everything took priority over me, including your friends and nights out and you denied this was true but then went out anyway and left me? That speaks huge volumes on which took higher priority last night....you and your needs.

I am 22 weeks pregnant. I may be a little hormonal and over emotional but I need you to look after me for a while. I need you to protect me and put me first and understand that this is really hard for me. This baby is very wanted but very much a surprise and I am struggling with being pregnant again so soon after LO. I lost myself and was starting to get a little back but now I am gone again and the one thing I had that was solid was you and now I feel like your are abandoning me and I would rather be the one to call it quits and have things on my terms. If you cant take me at my worst why do you get me at my best as well? You say you love me and I do believe you but you are making no effort whatsoever to make me happy and I am so sad just now.

xxx

 

[Lettuce]

happy birthday Natsku!
Oh Elephant! I had a similar issue with oh and ended up txting him last night... I'm not sure it done any good, but when I had a terrible night, and I begged him to help, he got up at 7:30 and let me sleep til 8:30. so a little better.
But he should of course put you first! You deserve to be looked after right now! Xx

 

[Ozzieshunni]

elephant. Men, eh? They don't get the emotions!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY NATSKU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Emmy1987]

Elephant mine does the same about sulking when I say what's wrong. Men are dicks sometimes! Has he apologised?

Natsku - happy birthdayy!! x

 

[isabelsmummy]

Dh - you tolf me to go out last night for the first time in2 year and enjoy myself and not to worry about the kids today with my hideous hangovers .... I'm really regretting doing what you said now isabel is bouncing all over and pouring water all over the bed and oliver is crying and spewing all over me! Thanks for brekkie though!

 

[Natsku]

I have chocolate for breakfast most days

elephant - men suck!

Cheers for the birthday wishes

 

[mummy2lola]

Dh-I REALLY don't want ur parents to come and stay with us this week.I know they haven't seen Lola yet and we haven't seen them for 3 months but ur just gonna get ratarsed with ur dad everynight and I'm gonna get stressed as sometimes I find it really hard taking care of our baby alone,I know single parents do it and I think they are amazing for doing that but I can't.u don't seem to get it and I swear to god I will have a proper hissy fit like the mum who throws herself onto the floor and has a tantrum on the sainsburys advert I I have to KEEP saying "can u not drink anymore tonight please".I won't care if ur parents think I'm a bitch,ur my husband and Lola is OUR baby and I'm not the only responsable adult in this relationship...or at least I thought I wasn't xx

 

[Odd Socks]

OH,

You asked me what was wrong and I told you I didnt want to say because we have spoken about it before and you get defensive, angry and annoyed and then stop talking to me. I needed some time to have an emotional cry to myself but you insisted on pushing me to tell you what was wrong. So when I did tell you you reacted exactly how I had predicted. You left me crying and walked out the door. I dont care that you only went to a friends for a few hours and were home for after 10pm. I dont care about that in the slightest. You walked out and left me crying. I was talking to you about the worry I had for our relationship and you admitted you were being complacent and taking our relationship for granted but then you got angry (maybe defensive?) and left. I think you made your choice there. I was saying how I felt everything took priority over me, including your friends and nights out and you denied this was true but then went out anyway and left me? That speaks huge volumes on which took higher priority last night....you and your needs.

I am 22 weeks pregnant. I may be a little hormonal and over emotional but I need you to look after me for a while. I need you to protect me and put me first and understand that this is really hard for me. This baby is very wanted but very much a surprise and I am struggling with being pregnant again so soon after LO. I lost myself and was starting to get a little back but now I am gone again and the one thing I had that was solid was you and now I feel like your are abandoning me and I would rather be the one to call it quits and have things on my terms. If you cant take me at my worst why do you get me at my best as well? You say you love me and I do believe you but you are making no effort whatsoever to make me happy and I am so sad just now.

xxx

*hugs*
xx

 

[cowboys angel]

elephant

happy birthday natsku!