Oh believe me when I say she knew exactly what she was doing. My mother is quite good at emotional blackmail, hell she's been practising on me for 37 yrs now so she's pretty shit hot at it. Plus i'm not my sister, don't live near her anymore and she can't use me for a cashline machine. After she went around telling everyone she had cancer well that was the finish for me. She doesn't by the way, she had polyps removed and they were non cancerous.