Are you sitting comfortably?
Then I'll begin...
I had a friend, let call him D. He lived in the next building along from my bf, and that's along the road from me. D is a bit of a weirdo, a doctor, but really daft. Anyway me and S, (bf) were good pals with D, helping him out with fashion advice, defending him from the boys, he's always the butt of jokes cos he's so daft. We have a large group of friends, mostly couples now, but all the oh's went to school together and some of us girls also did (it's a small town!)
Anyhow. In march 2009, oh and I had an engagement party. Just previous to this we had helped D set up a dating profile on a website, from which he found a woman! His 1st gf!
we were pleased for him and I invited him and her to my party. Bear in mind he's friends with my oh too. Anyway, he turns up 3 HOURS late saying his date had run on, it was a lunchtime date. And he didn't bring her. I shrugged it off, no biggie.
Then he sorta disappeared, we didn't see him as much, it used to be once a week, but that ok too, cos that happens when you find a gf/bf! Anyway, from April til June we basically don't see him, then it's our mutual friends wedding. He tells our friend he's bringing this girl, so my friend let's him! They arrive late to the church, and come in over 20mins late and make a huge racket!
They spend the whole wedding going outside and fighting! Next thing we hear is she has moved in!
he tell my best friend (the one who lives next to him) that he can't get rid of her, she won't let him use his phone etc! My and my best friend offer to help in any way we can. Don't hear anymore.
The next wedding is a few weeks later at which I tried to speak to her, but she ignored me and sat txting all night.
Next thing we hear is they are engaged in January, 8 weeks later we hear... Yeah, you've guessed it... She's pregnant.
We don't hear from them again, so come our April wedding, I only give them an evening invite, which they decline. Due to her SPD. They also dont send a card, gift or even a txt on the day.
A year passes, she gives birth, which I find out about in grapevine, then they hear I'm pregnant. Suddenly she wants to be friends... I don't. But I'm polite, just distant. She tries to tell me how she nearly died etc, so not interested.
I have my darling, but see her a couple of times, she's obsessed with telling me her birth story, and how much money they have. She keeps insulting me, I'm not comfortable around her. Anyway, they invite us to their wedding. DH makes me go, with all our other friends, she breast feeds naked in front of me (wearing only her lace pants and stockings). She was obsessed with "clearing the air" I thought everything was done with, I was polite but not needing her friendship. (I know that sounds mean, but she was never nice to me)
So I have Jens christening, it's t my parents so I don't invite everyone, and they're not invited! I don't consider them close friends anyway. Then I get abusive messages off them on Facebook! Seriously! Really nasty ones saying I'd bullied her etc! I tell my best friend and no one else. So between us we decide not to tell anyone so we dont make it akward for our other friends.
But.....
She's been going around telling everyone I was mean to her and trying to turn them against me and my best friend. And it's all backfired on her! Our plan worked! No one believes her lies and she's slowly showing her true colours to everyone else and they don't want anything to do with them!
and I didn't even need to say anything! I have real friends and now, they'll have none.
I know that sounds mean but she was to horrible to me, and upset me deliberately. he deserves her. Stuff em.
Tada! Well done if you could be bothered reading that!
I made a subtle mention of this to your face... but I really want to scream at you to be more careful!
x
I'm sorry love, I truly do love you no matter what. 
