Things I cannot say out loud....

[BrokenfoREVer]

to Tanya & Ozzie

FOB...Cancelling your maintence, real mature. I hope you know that your not punishing me by that at all. Your simply taking food out of your sons mouth & nappies off his bum. Good thing Josh has me to provide those things & he isn't relying on you isn't it.

I sincerly hope this is your way of telling me you won't be contacting me again & you will finally be out of our lives. Because I promise you, if you start sending court letters, or get back in touch thinking all is well, I swear to you, I will whip your ass through CMEC so damn fast daddy clampett won't even have time to spin a lie to get you out of paying.

Nan...please don't be a drama queen twat this weekend. Its not mine or my mums fault grandad has to go bury his little brother & won't let you go. Just, please, enjoy the peace without him there & enjoy the time with Josh without anyone shouting at you. Lets have some normality for the first time in yrs eh.

Mom's sister...if your mental mutt comes anywhere near Josh this weekend I swear I'll give it to the RSPCA. I don't trust it around my son & if anything happens, so help me I will not be responsible for my actions.

Grandad, I think your really quite selfish pissing off tomorrow at 11am just so you can go out tomorrow night. No thought for how much planning this has taken. Why can't you go & come back on monday? Its not like your driving is it!

Joshy, looks like its just me & you baby. Mummy loves you so very much sweetheart.

 

[tanya]

All arguments are on hold, just had to do a 2am a&e run, poor Flynn coughed in his sleep threw up and choked on it, he was really upset and wheezy after so I was a bit worried he'd inhaled vomit, dr says that he hasnt but he has got bronchiolitis and they are concerned he's becoming dehydrated, not enough yet for them to do anything so we have to try and give him 1-2oz as often as possible and hope he stops vomiting it all back up or he'll be admitted to the children's hospital for a drip, really don't want him in hospital so I'll be feeding him almost constantly.

 

[Lettuce]

to little Flynn, keep us posted! X

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

Oh no! Get well soon Flynn

 

[tanya]

So far this morning he's kept down six oz so hopefully that stays down and he starts getting better, it's saving me a fortune in nappies coz hes hardly weeing

 

[BabyBoo36]

Sooo, the SIL/christening saga has progressed (can't post it in babyclub as MIL told her I post on here so wouldn't be surprised if she went stalking....)

DH rang her on thurs to tell her AGAIN that she won't be godmother, and to get on with it. She said very little, but then sent a page long e-mail about how she could be godmother even though she's Pagan, as long as she swears to god, blah, blah, blah. I sent her back a very blunt message stating that we would appreciate her respecting our decision and that we were no longer prepared to talk about it. Cue, a tantrum and an "I'm not coming then" e-mail. My reply was "That's your choice. It will not change our decision." I was then sent an e-mail telling me I am "cruel" and that it is her right to be godparent!

In between this, I'm told by my parents that my Auntie is terminally ill with lung cancer, and a separate Auntie gets in touch to tell me my beloved Uncle has bladder cancer. So I write back to tell her we simply want her to respect our decision and that as I've had sad family news, we would appreciate her leaving the discussion alone.

The bitch then sends me ANOTHER message, with no compassion for my news, insisting that she wants to be godmother, that she "has the right" and that she is converting to christianity so I have "no excuse not to have her." Cue an extremely irate e-mail from me, informing her that she will NEVER be godmother even if she converts, as she cannot respect others decisions, and promotes a bad influence which I do not want my daughter under! I ask her again to leave it in light of my bad news...........guess what?....SHE EMAILS AGAIN!!!

DH is absolutely furious and I've said I will not have anything to do with her again. My entire family have removed her from facebook. We're still waiting from the backlash from PIL, but so far haven't heard anything.

Is it just me, or is this woman bat shit crazy????

 

[Ozzieshunni]

She sounds bat shit crazy. I would cut ALL contact and if she continues to harass you, tell her you will be contacting the police. That should get her shut up!

 

[Lettuce]

so glad Flynn kept something down, poor wee soul. X

Oh dear God. Babyboo, that woman needs shot. Post her email on facebook for all to see. I'm so sorry about your family news in my thoughts and prayers. Xx

 

[Lettuce]

Oh I second Ozzie! Tell her youve kept all correspondence and will be prepared to use it again her. X

 

[BabyBoo36]

I've kept all the e-mails in case I need to show PIL, although I really don't want them dragged that far into it. I've told DH I won't be having any further contact with her, and that next time she's up (she lives 350 miles away thank god) he can take Pud to his parents, but I won't be going. His response was that none of us will be going! For the first time EVER, he's siding with me instead of her, and I know how hard that is for him.

I'm pretty sure this won't be the end of it, but as I'm ignoring all correspondence from her, she can prattle on to herself instead!

 

[Natsku]

Poor Flynn, hope he gets better soon.

Urgh that woman is insane, glad you're cutting all contact with her BabyBoo! Sorry about your sad news

To myself: stop being ill, you do not want to be travelling back home with a toddler when you're ill!

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

Oh my god babyboo what a total lunatic. I hope she goes away for you.

 

[tanya]

Babyboo, it's she soundsa couple of sandwiches short of a picnic, I don't pretend to understand religion but I'm pretty sure you aren't meant to chop and change religions to get your own way. I would be making it clear that due to her behaviour she not only will not be godmother she also isn't welcome at the christening.

 

[BabyBoo36]

Babyboo, it's she soundsa couple of sandwiches short of a picnic, I don't pretend to understand religion but I'm pretty sure you aren't meant to chop and change religions to get your own way. I would be making it clear that due to her behaviour she not only will not be godmother she also isn't welcome at the christening.

I would love nothing more than to ban her from the christening, but it'd cause so many problems with PIL, who she has wrapped around her little finger. She's now trying the emotional blackmail again. I've blocked her from my FB, but have been advised by someone else that her current status is that she's had a headache for 3 days because her depression has returned.........As PIL let her get away with everything because of "her depression", it'll be mine and DH's fault again. Sigh...

I've told DH that after the christening I will be having nothing more to do with her until I decide.

 

[tanya]

*tmi warning*
Last night I decided to do all this weeks coursework in one night, despite still suffering from man-flu and having been looking after a still poorly Flynn all day including a trip to ikea and a particularly stressful poo related incident that culminated in having to cut him out of his vest. When I got around to going to bed I was understandably tired. Flynn must've been too coz he slept through till 5:30, when he woke up I popped to the loo to check how af was going only to discover that last night I'd put a pad on and had forgotten to "deploy the wings" they were still stuck on top of the pad creating a pretty effective waterproof barrier between af and the pad. I required a shower and for a while looked like carrie. My bed which I expected to look like I'd been filleting beef in bed was miraculously spotless.
Let that be a lesson to always check that I'm not an idiot before going to bed. Thank buggery Im not in the heaviest bit of af, I'd've sailed away in my sleep!!

Very gross sorry.

Dh- it's my first ever mothers day you had better be planning something slightly better than "I grabbed a card for you from Flynn while I was in asda" he doesn't think he needs to do much as I take Flynn to mil's all day on Sundays and he's working, although tbh that's my biggest chance that he will do something nice, he's all about the image, if it's just us he doesn't bother but once someone's looking he's "fun loving, romantic generous guy" they look away and its back to "grumpy, tight, arsehole man"

 

[rainbowbaby2]

OH- So im a hormonal bitch who needs to f**k off!!!!! why dont you just take your lazy self absorbed arse and go back to.sleeping on your brothers sofa!!! you forget who helped.get you where you are right now!! and YES lying in bed untill 11am every morning while im running around taking OUR son to nursery doing laundry, washing dishes hoovering and picking our son back up is LAZY!!!!!!!

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

Thank you very much grandparents. LO has now caught cold from you FREZZING cold house! I am not impressed. Do not bother to take his coat off when we next come to see you. I will put it back on.

Turn your fucking heating on, the government gives you 400 pounds a yr to do just that.

 

[Bartness]

thank you mother nature, for the unseasonably warm weather. I am loving the 75* in Mid March. Its just wonderful to be outside playing with Jaxon and walking. Please keep the warm weather around until December!

 

[rainbowbaby2]

oh I give up...... seriously why bother

 

[Lettuce]

I DON'T WANT TO GO BACK TO WORK!!!!!