Third Time Lucky - Fingers Crossed!!!

[garfie]

Aw Elaine - Beautiful scan pics another milestone achieved well done you

Enjoy your takeaway and have lovely dreams about your little one tonight

AFM - Want to really believe everything will be okay but bleeding is heavier ah well I guess I will know tomorrow by the HCG numbers hope they phone first thing if not I will be phoning them

Love to everyone else I want to comment to you all but kinda feeling sad and trying to keep a brave face on in front of the kiddies is quite difficult at the moment



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[Laubull]

Oh Garfie more hugs coming your way

Elaine, what a lovely bean!

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[Lou15]

Huge congratulations Elaine, brilliant news!

Garfie I am so sorry that you are bleeding, but all is not lost yet- I have 2 friends who are pregnant and have had bleeds recently and in both cases it was coming from the cervix not the uterus so you never know....
Thinking of you and sending love and hugs xx

 

[garfie]

Thanks Ladies

My signature says it all



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[cupcake1981]

Garfie I'm so sorry. Did you get hcg results to confirm it? Hugs xxxxx

 

[CherylC3]

Garfie I'm so so sorry Hun

Elaine lovely scan pic Hun, I'm so happy for u...xx

 

[garfie]

Cupcake - a level 1 doc rang after surgery bless him so I wasn't worried all night

Still bleeding heavily - surely this wont last as long as my last two as I wasn't that far on



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[cupcake1981]

I'm so sorry Garfie, it's no comfort but you are probably right that it will be physically easier than your last mc xxx

 

[thethomsons]

Garfie sending you massive hugs Hun. Xxx

 

[Laubull]

Garfie I just wanted to say I am sorry another mc has been confirmed. I hope your referral comes through ASAP, it sounds like your doctor is on your side and that's a very good thing. xxx

 

[Khloeee]

So sorry Garfie. My last MC was at the same sort of stage and bleeding was just like a heavier period, lasting a few days longer than my usual period.

 

[twinkle_paws]

So so sorry Garfie. Hopefully you get an appointment soon. Hope you are taking it easy xx

Elaine I'm so chuffed for you and your scan, I hope you're feeling more relaxed now.

I'm away this weekend so hopefully that will distract me from impatinetly waiting for ovulation!!

Everyone else take care and have a good weekend xxr

 

[PopTart28]

Hi ladies sorry ive been AWOL for ages now - lots has been happening..

Ill update another time but just wanted to say to Garfie im sending you the biggest of hugs honey and hope you have enough support at home while your going through this.....

Im really sorry - I know thats not much help and doesnt change anything but like all the ladies have said before - you dont have to say anything if you dont want to just know we are thinking about you lots, hoping it doesnt go on for too long and the doctors get going on what comes next for you ok.....

Let us know if you need picking up, support of any kind, someone to have a bloody good moan/rant or scream at or some simple kind words to help ease the pain or to just soothe ok....
Look after yourself honey and take it easy for a while...


Have to also say to Elaine Congratulations on your sticky little bean - the piccys are lovely and Im very pleased for you honey - enjoy every minute and you should be starting to relax alittle more after seeing that for your own eyes in black and white on that screen.....amazing. Im looking forward to hearing about your progress too.....xxxxx

Ok must dash, more soon I promise but in the mean time Im glad you ladies are doing well and its lovely to see soo many tickers slowly climbing up and fruits getting bigger.......xxxxx

 

[Lou15]

Garfie, I am so sorry that another miscarriage has been confirmed. As you say as awful as this is at least they will look into things more for you now and hopefully you will get more support from the medical profession.

Twinkle, have a lovely weekend away, and, yes, try to forget about it all for a while!

Does anyone else ever still have moments when they get really sad? I know I am so lucky to be where I am with my mango sized baby, and I have, on the whole, been really positive of late, but there is a lady at work who, I've just found out out, is 14 weeks pregnant; she smoked her way through her last pregnancy and had a lovely healthy baby, she continues to smoke and lead a really unhealthy lifestyle, and she had a big bleed and it was all ok! I know it sounds selfish but I just couldn't help thinking that when I had my first bleed, why couldn't everything have been ok, and I would have a 4 month old baby by now! It just really got me down, so silly I know. I suppose you just have to accept that TTC and having babies just isn't fair and get on with it, and I know I have it so much better than most, but still...some people have it so easy and don't appreciate or take care of what they have! Sorry to moan ladies just wanted to check that other people feel like this sometimes too!

 

[cupcake1981]

Lou it makes me so angry to hun, it's ALWAYS the people who want and deserve it so much that have the problems and life is so not fair!!! x

 

[PopTart28]

Right I thought it was about time so ive updated my signature details and added a ticker!!!

Ive made it half way - YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY so amazed and happy its really happening this time....

Oh and Lou i have those daysa too honey, its the simplest or smallest of triggers that set those feelings off but when they surface its rather hard to shrug them off and can take some hard work on my part but if im ever having a little cry ill lay back on the sofa place my hands on my round bump, close my eyes and just breathe....
Ill imagine baby wiggling around in there and usually ill feel little bean even if its still those precious flutters but it makes me feel an aweful lot better...even rubbing oil or cream into my bump helps me feel alittle better about whats soon to happen instead of what could of happened......just brings me back to a more comfortable place...

I hope all you lovely ladies are doing well and enjoying your weekends.....

love and hugs to all of you and those growing bumps of course xxxxxxxx

 

[Lou15]

Thanks Cupcake and PopTart for making me feel better xxx

So, PopTart, delighted to see you have a ticker now! More info please though! Have you had your 20 week scan? Do you know the gender??! So excited that you are well over half way now!

 

[PopTart28]

Hehehe

Your welcome Lou and im glad it made you feel alittle better about things...keep that chin up and only let it fall when you're looking at your growing bump - then smile.....

I will update you on all the details later as i have lots to get done today.

Have a lovely Sunday ladies, xxxxx

 

[Lou15]

PopTart, you do like to keep us all hanging!!!

I am feeling much better today again thank you- very much '3rd time lucky' again now rather than 'first 2 times unlucky!'

Hmm, not really much of a bump to look at yet I'm afraid- I can see it but everyone else just laughs at it! It will come soon enough i'm sure!

Hope everyone is well xxx

 

[twinkle_paws]

Aw lou, I can totally relate to what you said. I work at a hospital and on a daily basis have to walk past 15 year old heavily pregnant girls smoking outside the main entrance. It's so tough as I would give anything to be in their position. I'm glad you are feeling a bit better though. When is your 20 week scan?

I have been struggling a wee bit the last week or so, I'm CD 25 and still no ovulation. Did have an almost positive OPK on sat but they have gone lighter again and no temp rise. So frustrating having irregular cycles! One of my frind has announced her pregnancy and a girl at work has also announced her pregnancy, their scan pics are all over facebook and although I'm happy for them I just wish that it could be me doing that too. Just feeling very emotional and sorry for myself so sorry for the depressing post. On the plus side I had a lovely weekend away with DH, our dog and some friends.

Hope everyone is doing ok. Thinking of you lots garfie, hope you are ok. Nice to hear from you again poptart, looking forward to your update.

Xxx