Third Time Lucky - Fingers Crossed!!!

[mannymoo]

Enjoy having your dh back poptart! X

 

[thethomsons]

Can't believe my scan is tomorrow, so nervous. Please make everything good. PLEEASE!! So much pinned on this.

Please please please make tomorrow be good!!

Cant you tell i'm fretting?!

 

[mannymoo]

Elaine - you will do great! Don't even consider the possibility that things have gone wrong because they haven't. Rather be excited that you will glimpsing your little peanut tomorrow. How exciting! What time is your appointment? x

 

[thethomsons]

2.20pm all will be revealed! I feel like tomorrow is the biggest day of my life!! After the s@@@@@@@ year i'm hoping to get a happy ending!

Fingers crossed!

 

[Laubull]

24 hours Elaine you'll be out of your misery. Manny is right, everything will be fine

I can't wait to see your bubba picture tomorrow!

x

 

[cupcake1981]

Aw Elaine so excited for your scan it wil be perfect xxx

 

[twinkle_paws]

Lovely news about your scan Cheryl, how exciting that you are having a boy!!

Good luck for tomorow Elaine, look forward to some good news when I get home from work

xx

 

[thethomsons]

Thanks girls I'm sooo worrying incase it's bad. These last two m/c have such a lot to answer for. So praying my little one I saw two weeks ago is still there. Suppose at least I'll know one way or another. :-@ Tomorrow will be the best day ever if all ok at 10.5 weeks as so close to 12 weeks.

Will report back tomorrow when i get a chance. Don't know how you girls got through this it's so mentally hard. Xxx

 

[CherylC3]

Good luck Elaine everything will be just fine xxxx

 

[Laubull]

Good luck Elaine! x

 

[SATH]

Good luck elaine its going to be great cant wait to see the pics xx

 

[mannymoo]

Good luck Elaine. Thinking of you today! x

 

[garfie]

Morning Ladies

I'm back - not sure how long for though - I tried to stalk but found it quite difficult so I just took some time out from the whole BNB threads

Where to begin - well firstly I thought a third mc would be easier to accept especially since it was earlier and with a low HCG level but how wrong was I. It was the worse cramping I have ever had much more severe than the last two. I also thought it would be over quicker wrong - it seemed to stop start stop start which didn't do a lot for my moods. Also as I was loosing my baby my youngest son found his hamster dead in his cage so it was difficult dealing with his grief on top of my own, then I felt guilty about not being there for him 100% omg ladies the emotions I have felt recently are unbelievable and trust me they are not hormonal

I have felt like giving up and then have questioned myself whether I would be good as a new mum being 41 (at the moment) what if it took more mc before I finally had my baby am I strong enough I have had so many doubts and decisions running through my head and through it all I have plastered on a fake smile so no one knew I was really hurting

The good news is hubby and I have already had blood tests to see if there is anything wrong and genetic testing - we only have to wait until 22 January for the results

So half of me wants them to find something wrong and I can take a tablet to fix it and half of me hopes I have a clean bill of health and we can just keep trying I am so confused at the moment.

Well ladies thanks for letting me rant now let me read back and see what you have all been up to whilst I have been absent

Oh Elaine I've just seen - good luck at your scan today hun

 

[mannymoo]

Garfie sending you a big hug hun. Sorry you're having such a tough time. I really hope things start looking up for you soon. You're being very strong and brave and I am certain good things will come to you in the (very near) future. xxx

Elaine - I think you're at your appointment now. Hope its going great! Looking forward to some good news and pictures!

 

[thethomsons]

Hi girls, sorry it has taken so long to get on with an update, my school had it's Christmas Fayre tonight and I had to work till 8:30 so haven't had a minute to get online!

So the news is ................ everything is perfect!!!!! My little baby is in there happy as larry with a strong heartbeat ticking away!! Seemed really big on screen I couldn't believe it! Even waved at us which was brilliant! Have added pictures below see what you think!!!

I had to book midwife asap as 10 weeks 3 days and said I need to be seen before 12 weeks! I have appointment at 4:30 on Monday! Then I am due my 12 week scan the week after next, all of a sudden things seem to be happening! I am honestly SOOO happy and feel much less worried! The sonographer said odds of miscarriage going down every day and I am really getting there!

Told my family today and they were soo happy for us after everything we have been through! Gave my family a Christmas card with the scan picture in it! It took my mum a minute to click what was happening! She then said she had an inkling as I have been running to the toilet constantly lol! We are telling DH family on Saturday and then will keep to ourselves till dating scan but that is only 11 days away or thereabouts!!! OMG so happy girls!!

Thanks for all your support and words of confidence, couldn't have got through last few days without you!!!

Meet Baby Thomson number 2!! What do you think, gender ideas lol??? I have no idea and not finding out!!

 

[twinkle_paws]

Aw, wow Elaine, that is fantastic! I am so pleased for you and hope this allows you to relax and enjoy your pregancy a bit more now. It really is all happening for you now with midwife, 12 week scan, Christmas.......all very exciting!! Loving the pics too............xxx

Garfie, so nice to have you back. I'm so sorry your have been having such a tough time of it. It's just not fair. I can understand where you are coming from regarding the tests and how it might feel better to find something wrong that can be treated and help you get your baby. I realy do hope it works out ok for you.

Hpe everyone else is well this evening xx

 

[thethomsons]

Garfie sending you hugs hun, thinking about you xx

 

[cupcake1981]

Elaine what lovely pics, congrats you can start getting excited now!!!

 

[mannymoo]

Elaine so pleased it went well. From now on you're only allowed positive thoughts because everything is going to be just perfect! I'd say its a bit hard to guess gender at this stage but I'll be happy to have a guess when you get your 12 weeks pics... although so far I've got 0/2 for guessing.

Hope you can relax and enjoy the weekend now. xx

 

[CherylC3]

Congrats Elaine, great scan pics. Xxx