I miscarried later than most at 14.4 weeks and they never told me if it was a boy or girl and i didnt see because i had a d&c.I always thought i was having a boy though and already had names picked out, i didnt want to name him at first but i felt bad calling him the baby it didnt feel real so i named him rowan just as he would have been named if he'd hung on longer.I've found naming him makes its so much easier to deal with, my son rowan instead of my baby makes it more personal and more real to me but i understand why people would choose not to i just found it helpful
wish i knew.....have no idea what any of them were didn't even name any of them, feel's too painful and real to do.....maybe one day, dont feel ready to yet tho xxx