TMI question.

[HippyMumma23]

Ok this is seriously TMI so appologies in advance

My DH and I didnt use contraception we used to just use the pull out method. Its been a good few years (the last time we were TTC) that he 'ya know' inside me, so I need to ask a question.

We have only just started TTC and I expected to really feel lots of 'stuff', you know, wet and stuff. But Im really not. It suddenly made me question whether he actually was 'ya know' at all! But I kknow he did because I felt it happen.

Does anyone else have disappearing swimmers, or do you always feel it come out and stuff?

So sorry, its a very TMI thread for a lunch time isnt it!

 

[gothique]

Erm, it probably varies from person to person. I can't help really...

 

[fairygirl]

It was different each time for me xx

 

[LittleAurora]

sometimes i dont have any come out at all. Sometimes I am soaked. I think it varies

 

[xMoolahMissyx]

hey hun!

Well i guess it depends where you are in your cycle. I always tend to 'leak' however this month i realised during my o day and a few days before even, everything stayed in! and i didn't have to do anything awkward to keep it in either!...

maybe you're ov'ing?

 

[HippyMumma23]

Yes Im ovulating right now. I wonder why that is then? Or rather- I wonder how it does that.
Its funny Im desperatly trying to think back to the night our son was made, but we were just NTNP, I didnt know about forums like these, when I ovulated or anything. Literally nothing, so I didnt pay attention to my CM or whether the swimmies stayed in or out.

 

[TySonNMe]

I may be wrong, but I remember watching a documentary where if you climax your cervix kind of (for lack of a better word) sucks it up. I'm pretty sure I was Oing and the same thing happened where it wasn't leaking out as much as much as normal, so to speak. I though OH was trying to pull a fast one on me! Sorry for being so graphic, but I'm glad we may have a consensus here! Maybe all our other halves are conspiring against us on a different forum!!

 

[HippyMumma23]

You never know!!!! I didnt actually orgasm last night, I wish I had because I know it increases your chances. But I had come in from my friends birthday celebrations and even one glass of wine stumps any chance of orgasm.

In this case, Im going to assume that DH isnt conspiring against me (I hope!) and its a good sign that none came out.