Totally stupid about ttc'ing - help!

[Emmea12uk]

I just had a mc at nine weeks (naturally) and already have a two year old, but I never tried to get pregnant before. I got pregnant both times after just one slip up.

I don't get any of this stuff you guys talk about at all!

How long should I wait and why? I don't want to wait at all.

What is all this charting stuff ?

 

[Emmea12uk]

I guess I am too stupid to deserve a response!

 

[poppielia]

hey hun, i am just off out but didnt want to read and run....i find that if i have a ttc question that it gets answered more in the trying to concieve part of this site and not as much in the ttc after a loss....give it a go!
good luck xx

 

[kanga]

I guess the stuff we talk about is the trying each month ..

The cycle goes round & round!! It goes something like this

- We get AF (auntie Flo/period) and moan about it
- A couple of weeks later we and hope to catch the egg
- The serious ones among us even try and pin point when we ovulate
- We enter the two week wai or 2ww - basically we have done all we can for this cycle - we just wait for the fertilised egg to implant
- after the 2ww (or before in most cases!) we

And so it goes on!

Charting is a way of trying to pinpoint when you ovulate. Take your temperature every day at the same time (preferrably when you are in bed and havent got up yet or moved around much). It will meander along at a relatively consistent temp until one day, it will increase by a noticable amount. This shows you have just ovulated

Welcome to the madness!! x

 

[SugarFairy]

kanga you make it sound wonderfully simple Wouldn't it be lovely?