squirrel.
Happy mummy of three
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Hi there,
We're trying to conceive our third too. I have one of each too and don't really mind which gender we have next. I have reasons for wanting both desperately (which is why I'm hoping for boy-girl twins ) but the reasons cancel each other out meaning I'd be happy with either.
Reason for wanting a boy: My son is autistic and I would love for him to have a brother to watch over and look after him and for my son to learn from. It breaks my heart to think it, but I would love to know what having a neurotypical son is like. I cherish my son with my whole heart, but I do wonder what it would be like to have a 'normal' son.
Reason for wanting a girl: I grew up with brothers and always wanted a sister. So for this reason, I would love to see my little girl get a sister. I'd love to vicariously experience what it's like to have a sister and to give my daughter what I always wanted. I'm also scared if we have another boy he'll also be autistic as it's more common in boys.
We're staying team yellow next time.
As for boy swaying, I can only repeat what others have said. Timing sex just before ovulation is supposed to help, as are deep penetration positions. Good luck.
We're trying to conceive our third too. I have one of each too and don't really mind which gender we have next. I have reasons for wanting both desperately (which is why I'm hoping for boy-girl twins ) but the reasons cancel each other out meaning I'd be happy with either.
Reason for wanting a boy: My son is autistic and I would love for him to have a brother to watch over and look after him and for my son to learn from. It breaks my heart to think it, but I would love to know what having a neurotypical son is like. I cherish my son with my whole heart, but I do wonder what it would be like to have a 'normal' son.
Reason for wanting a girl: I grew up with brothers and always wanted a sister. So for this reason, I would love to see my little girl get a sister. I'd love to vicariously experience what it's like to have a sister and to give my daughter what I always wanted. I'm also scared if we have another boy he'll also be autistic as it's more common in boys.
We're staying team yellow next time.
As for boy swaying, I can only repeat what others have said. Timing sex just before ovulation is supposed to help, as are deep penetration positions. Good luck.